🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

@babyghirl
@kiwi17
@27donfin
@elm7
@sunnysideup2020
@H0peing
@peanuttybutter
@anoki

And everyone else I have forgotten to add

Thanks 😘 @Annny27

@Annny27
Thank you 😘😘😘

@sweetbabydust1989
@slcxxx

Thanks @Annny27!

@kiwi17
Unfortunately not it will just keep coming back as its a blocked duck that makes cm so I'm heading back down now to c if they will just go straight to phoning the gyno to c me without waiting to c the doc first wish me luck lol 💚

Joining in if ok!

Good luck @Babyghirl

Ooh good luck @Babyghirl hopefully you get it sorted today 🤞

@ElsieG3m
Of course anyone welcome sorry you find yourself with us but glad you found us for support 💚
@kiwi17
@PeanuttyButter
Bck home 110 people in front of me gs got my app nxt wed the 15th so hoping if I mention it to him hoping he will sort it out I know its the rmc but he's a gynecologist lol going to also phone my doc in the morning x

@Babyghirl thanks lovely sorry been radio silent for a while self care and all for my up coming surgery 5th October coming round so quickly.. how are you doing?? Xx

@sweetbabydust1989
All still here a few bfp along the way oh its coming round so quick how you feeling about it all I have my app on the 15th of can't wait to it to c wat nxt plan is lol nxt wed feels like ages away although it's not really x

@Babyghirl how lovely so please for all the ladies with they BFP.. I am a wreck I got all my pre op paper work and seeing what he will be doing down on paper Was a wake up call I really believe I am infertile been having night terrors about it all I think both tubes will be a mess I just hope he can do something I also believe he will find endo too... oh that's amazing hun it's nice to have a plan xx

Thanks @Annny27

@Sweetbabydust1989 sorry Iv been rubbish at keeping up. What op are you getting? Xx

@sweetbabydust1989
You will be fine you got this I was seen to have a heart shape uterus In my scan a load of weeks ago that's what my app abot and my blood clotting test results so don't know if he will want the dye test of my uterus to c how bad it is xx

@27DONFIN hi hun I am having a lap & dye with a hysterscopy and right tube removal due to my 2 ectopics this year x

@Babyghirl wow heart shaped hopefully they will do all the tests that are needed.. we all need some good news I feel like a lifer on this now I won't be able to try until next year need to heal etc I hope they can clear my tubes if they're blocked xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Hoping you get successful after your op I know you will 😘😘😘😘
I'm hoping they can sort my stupid urters out lol xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 good luck. When is your op? I'm waiting on my letter from the hospital with two dates one for ultrasound + bloods and one for my HSG. Itl be 4 weeks since my last appointment confirming that was our next steps I hoping I hear soon x

@27DONFIN
How have you been doing

@27DONFIN my op is on 5th October so not too far away I am petrified I think they might find Endo too I have mild adenomyosis but I believe there is more to it scared my ttc journey might be over. Yes definitely keep on them for everything possible xx

@Babyghirl will you be having the hysterscopy done that check your uterus?? I am having a mot with a full service 🤣 I am not even sure how long I will be under for I don't need to be there until 4:30pm which I thought was late hope I won't need to stay in x

Elm7 I am so sorry. This journey is such a tough one and my heart absolutely goes out to you.

Babyghirl did you have any luck? I really hope you get some of your dog's luck. How are you feeling about having puppies? We have just collected our one puppy from it's breeder.

I've been AWOL for a while. My kids have been off school and we have been flat out. It's been good for keeping the mind distracted, and that's sort of what I've needed I think.

Now mid cycle but I think we've missed the window this month. I'm hopi g the mental abs physical break may recharge us for some success in the coming months.

Guys I'm having one of those days where I just feel like something is wrong (I don't know what) and I'm frantically googling. I feel like this isn't my rainbow I know it sounds stupid when I've no real reason to think that. I don't feel as Ill as I did this time last time. I feel really emotional and upset this evening and DH is taking sense (nothing we can do but wait and see and hope) bit it's not helping. I hate this so much. Messaging on here cos you all know what I'm talking about. Can't talk to anyone in real life about this as they wouldn't understand.

@PeanuttyButter it's just so hard to trust when you've been through the heartache of MC. Hard as it is (because nothing about how we feel is logical), try to focus on the good facts, eg., you are statistically more likely to carry a healthy pregnancy than to lose one, even after several losses. Worrying will not change the outcome and whilst completely natural, what's the point of torturing yourself over something that you cannot control? If you can, try to channel your energy into things that help support a healthy pregnancy: eat nice and healthy food, go for some long walks, and practice mindfulness and visualisation (visualise where the pregnancy is now and what you need it to do). Take some deep breaths (in for three, out for three). And if possible, try to imagine your happiness when things work out, not your sadness if they don't. And finally above all, be kind to yourself x