Toot toot, it's the July 2021 TTC Bus arriving early

[Fiep]

The July 2021 bus has arrived 1 day and 1 night early but you don't need a FRER to detect it! Just hop on.

Let's hope for lots of positive vibes & lines and if the lines stay away, you'll at least find 24/7 shoulders to cry on!

No tickets required, just bring some pee in a cup and you're in!

Hope I've tagged all the passengers but if you're not tagged - hop on anyway!

@ mummytoolive
@ Dolly3113
@feelsnew
@Meg9717
@AlmostLondoner
@ Outofreachfornow
@Nai86
@JemRose
@Sam8582
@theodora2146
@ Twochews78
@ @Willow1982
@WantStickyBean
@Capricorn8990
@GoingGently
@Gummybear17
@dunkedbiscuit
@ Itsjustme20
@abbs1
@Lollipop25
@ashlove17
@SATCfan
@Lozzacol
@Caramel2
@toadstool32
@Lealu
@amyannx
@ @Confused678866
@ SazzleSarah
@Ellie012
@LeeTTCRainbow
@Pixiescat11
@sunshineandshowers3
@butterfliesx
@Twinkles18
@Ttcbn2
@KM11
@ Anonymouss864
@ MrsB902
@shannie1969
@ thebattleofschrutefarms
@Countingchicks
@Missy95
@ Lucachu
@ KSmith94
@ SkaterChick
@ Hopefull1981
@ BritInNZ
@ timeisnotaline
@CocoLady
@littlemac13
@whymewhyme
@ purpleskyssssss
@ Kirst230902
@ Laurenxx94
@Cheekymonkey3112
@ Emilywhu
@ SkeletonSkins
@ Greymalkin12
@ Ladybug06
@ justwant2beamum
@ Veronika13
@ Scribble10
@Kipkay35
@AllyCat31
@ Angie887
@ Kateb47
@J0lly
@ gimmeavino
@KN90
@Quinn26
@Kaz1987
@glasspaw
@ JScarlett
@ Bia36
@ Minnie296
@ BabyFeet92
@ Mum2Girls19
@Sunshine8888
@ LittleDoveLove
@ whiteflower84
@ Elisabeth2021
@ thisisouryear
@ CTMcG

PS: it was quite nice going back over the thread to copy the usernames and see how many people were on the bus!

Ladies I am so chuffed for your BFPs! Fingers crossed they get strong and steady! 🤞🤞❤️❤️❤️

I think I will pause TTC for this month, after 2 chemicals in a row I don't feel 100% again.

@Gummybear17 Iam so sorry, I am going to pray for you 🤞❤️

@Gummybear17 oh love - I know this is a lot easier said than done but try not to panic, some bleeding can be perfectly normal in early pregnancy. I totally totally get that sickening panic you must be feeling, but it doesn't mean it will be the same as last time xxx

@AlmostLondoner sending you lots of love, taking a break to heal is very sensible ❤️ we're all here if you want to chat x

Thanks ladies . I just want to curl up in a ball and cry but I have way too much work to do with a big appraisal coming up . Why can't things just go smoothly for a change? X

Oh @Gummybear17 sending you really really big hugs. I’m so sorry.

This might not be the same as your MC.
I had early bleeding with DD and it turned out ok.

Can you ask for a referral to the early pregnancy unit for them to monitor your blood hcg?

@AlmostLondoner
very sensible. We’re all here for you as a PP said xx

@dunkedbiscuit @Fiep thank you ❤️ I just feel it's not the right time now, I think I need to sort out my mind and body first. It's been a rollercoaster since November 🥴

@Gummybear17 I agree with Fiep, fingers crossed it's just early bleeding and everything will be fine. 🤞🤞🤞

Aww @AlmostLondoner looking after yourself is most important. It really is a rollercoaster. Hope you're ok 💕

@Gummybear17 sending you all my love and hugs and I pray everything will be ok, I know we will all be sending our positive thoughts your way xx💕

@AlmostLondoner sometimes we do need to put ourselves first, TTC is a journey I never expected would be like this! The ups and downs and I think without the help of the mumsnet ladies a bit lonely, time for a reset, hopefully you will feel ready soon enough xx💕

Exactly @Willow1982 and I am a mother of a beautiful son I have to be 100 for him too ❤️

@Twinkles18 I agree,you can't give to others if your glass is empty 🙏

@Gummybear17 thinking of you and hoping for the best ❤️

@AlmostLondoner Be kind and look after yourself lovely ❤️

@AlmostLondoner totally see the benefit in giving yourself a mental break for a while. Having 2 chemicals back to back must be incredibly tough 

@Gummybear17 I'm so sorry to hear you're bleeding. Totally get why you're so upset after your recent MC . Will be keeping everything crossed that your bean stays sticky.

Today I'm on CD11, cheapie OPKs are not showing the LH surge, although I have the most ewcm I've had since TTC. Is it possible to just have the physical signs of ovulation and for the test not to pick up on it? :/ Last month the test line was just as strong as the control line when I supposedly had my O, so I'm not sure why it's not picking it up now.

Or is it possible to have ewcm before the actual ovulation?

@lilrosemarie this cycle I had 4 days of EWCM before a peak OPK (CD9-13). The EWCM is caused by oestrogen and it's normal for this to begin to rise a few days before ovulation. It's creating the optimal environment for sperm to survive so they're ready and welcome for the egg when it arrives.

Yep what @WantStickyBean said!

I've been feeling nauseous on and off all day, but worried it's all in my head 🤪 I'm scared to hope if that makes sense?

@H8theW8 congratulations! Can see those lines clearly on the unedited ones!! 💕

Sorry about your bfn @dunkedbiscuit,,fingers crossed for tomorrow's test 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Oh @Gummybear17 I'm sorry to hear that, try and stay positive (easier said than done I know) sending love to you xx

Aww @AlmostLondoner, as others have said you absolutely have to look after yourself first and foremost, taking a break can be the best thing, to give yourself time to heal xx

Ooh that sounds like a positive sign @dunkedbiscuit, any other symptoms you've noticed?

@Gummybear17 so sorry to hear you are feeling crushed after seeing some blood. I totally get why you'd feel the need to want to curl up in a ball after experiencing a MC in May. :( Sending all the love and hoping it is just a pregnancy symptom 💕

@dunkedbiscuit I feel exactly the same. I keep going from thinking that I'm 100% pregnant (even thinking of names and how I'll tell everyone 😂) to telling myself not to hope and that I'm definitely out. Is this the first day you've felt nauseous?

@Sam8582 I would love it to be, but guess it's just a waiting game. I've been quite emotional & weepy for the last few days and have achy legs. No idea if these are symptoms though!

@DeNovo I'm totally with you, on one hand saying I don't want to hope too much but in the next moment planning when to go on maternity leave! 😂 where are you at in your cycle? And when will you test do you think?

@dunkedbiscuit Hahaha that is just so true. I'm glad I'm not the only one 😂 I think we're around the same time - I'm 10/11 DPO. I'm going to test using a FRER tomorrow - I have only used the cheap sticks so far and they've all been negative.

@YummyMummyXoX
@WantStickyBean
@Sam8582

Thank you ladies ❤️ I just have to listen to my gut now 🙂

@AlmostLondoner thinking of you lovely . Be kind to yourself. This journey is both physically and mentally draining x

Thanks to all you lovely ladies for thinking of me . It's been a tough day with lots of raw memories flooding back . No more bleeding so far and still have sore boobs so I am trying to remain positive for now. AF would be due tomorrow or Wednesday so I guess she will either arrive or not I guess I am just preparing for the worse . They won't see me at my EPAU until 6/40 x