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Newbie looking for some support

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Peachycream · 27/05/2021 20:44

Hi ladies,

I’ve been lurking for a few days, just seeing what the deal is, trying to work out some of the terminology used, mostly going to post but then getting scared and carry on lurking haha.

I don’t really have anyone I can talk about the TTC journey with in my real life as we aren’t telling anyone as it stands so I’m hoping maybe I can make a few friends here that I can obsess and stress out with 🤣

I’m currently CD 7 in my first cycle so tracking with OPKs every day right now so that I can get a clearer picture of my cycle each month.

I’m 30 and this will be our 1st,

If anyone has any advice/is in a similar position to me or just wants a natter I’d love to hear from you 😊

Xx

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SkeletonSkins · 13/06/2021 08:10

Oh wow @glasspaw that’s amazing!! Congratulations!!!

SareBear87 · 13/06/2021 08:20

@glasspaw amazing news!!! Congratulations!!!

glasspaw · 13/06/2021 08:39

Thanks everyone. Cautiously excited as clearly a lot can go wrong still. I just can’t actually believe it!

Peachycream · 13/06/2021 08:49

You’re going to stick around right and share your journey with us all? I’m so happy for you 🥺

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KayL1988 · 13/06/2021 08:50

Oh my goshhhh .. yayyyyyyyyy @glasspaw that's definitely a BFP. Have you told other half?? Xxx

Our first as a group.. 🥰🥰

KayL1988 · 13/06/2021 08:51

God peachy I didn't even think about that 🥺...

glasspaw · 13/06/2021 08:55

@Peachycream @KayL1988

Absolutely! This forum has been so helpful already. Will definitely stick around and keep you updated.

Showed my OH the faint one step test and then we did the FRER together. Glad I had it on hand as the cheapie line was so faint!

Weirdly I still have cramps like AF is going to start. I wonder how long that is supposed to last for? It’s very disconcerting.

Peachycream · 13/06/2021 08:55

Shall we all make a pact @KayL1988, when we get our BFPs we will stick around and keep each other updated 😂🥰

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HRP1990 · 13/06/2021 08:56

Yes omg have you told your partner!? @glasspaw you’ve got to stick around like @Peachycream said and update us! Let us know what we’re all in store for 🥰

Any symptoms we need to watch out for? 😬

HRP1990 · 13/06/2021 08:58

The FRER together 🥲❤️ So cute!! It could still be implantation pains possibly @glasspaw I’m sure it’s nothing to be concerned about x

Peachycream · 13/06/2021 09:00

I think cramps early on are relatively common @glasspaw it’s so cute you did it together 🥰 huge congrats to you both!

Here’s to a happy and healthy 9 months for you

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SareBear87 · 13/06/2021 09:00

@glasspaw I echo what the other ladies are saying! Please stick around! I love a success story!!
And if I can have some of your luck too that would be awesome! 😉

KayL1988 · 13/06/2021 09:00

Definitely @Peachycream!

So glad you'll stick around @glasspaw 🥰 awww and you got to test with your OH too. Lesson to us all .. have a FRER on hand! So I actually read somewhere (I think in another chat) someone else mentioned that.. I think the response was your uterus begins to stretch in preparation 😮

HRP1990 · 13/06/2021 09:04

Bloody hell our uterus’s don’t hang around @KayL1988 lol

Ladies let’s get the FRER’s in!

glasspaw · 13/06/2021 09:05

@KayL1988 ah I guess that makes sense. I’ve been frantically googling and got stuck in an ectopic pregnancy rabbit hole, I prefer your explanation haha!

I’m a bit of a worrier. OH has already confiscated my phone once this morning to prevent my googling stuff that is going to stress me out haha.

@HRP1990 I guess everyone is different, but I’ve been quite nauseous for the last two weeks with dull cramping (like ovulation pains that never stopped). My nipples have also been horribly sore, to the point where I had to abandon wearing a bra. I had assumed that was to do with the heat though. Maybe not?

Thanks for all your kind words. I hope you all get your BFPs so soon!!!

Peachycream · 13/06/2021 09:11

Ah you’ve filled my heart 💜 this is all just too cute for a Sunday morning 🥰

Your OH sounds like a good man, it’s easy to say but the more you look, the more negativity you will find and neither your nor your little human need that in your lives.

Try to keep calm and positive and we’re all here to keep you out of your google spiral too!

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Peachycream · 13/06/2021 09:12

@glasspaw I was supposed to tag you in that but forgot in all the excitement 😂

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glasspaw · 13/06/2021 09:15

@Peachycream he is incredible. I’m a lucky woman.

No more google spiralling for me today. We’ve decided to go for a walk in a bit with no phones to try and process the news (and enjoy the sunshine!)

KayL1988 · 13/06/2021 09:21

Lucky woman .. so cute!!! Stick with my explanation and enjoy the sunshine 🥰

I know @HRP1990.. woman's body is super speedy when you think about everything our body does!! I find it fascinating think I'm our resident researcher 😂

ConfusedNewbie21 · 13/06/2021 13:01

Hi ladies! I just wanted to check in on how you're all doing??  I see that congratulations is in order for @glasspaw Thanks!!

Still no AF for me but I'm banned from testing for a few weeks.

glasspaw · 13/06/2021 16:49

Thanks @ConfusedNewbie21😊 a fabulous surprise this morning. I don’t even know what made me test as I was so convinced it wasn’t this month! Intuition I guess haha!

Peachycream · 13/06/2021 16:59

How has your day been @glasspaw? How are you feeling? Tell us everything about your big day 😂

Welcome back @ConfusedNewbie21

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SareBear87 · 13/06/2021 17:01

Nowt to report here. Today is O day (CD14) and me and DP are looking at each other like "I'm too hot to want to DTD right now let alone do it!" 😅

I think the fan may left on tonight 😂

How is everyone else getting on?

Peachycream · 13/06/2021 17:03

Do you have a chest freezer @SareBear87 😂😂

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SareBear87 · 13/06/2021 17:17

@Peachycream I wish!! May have to get the picnic ice blocks out the freezer and use them as a bed 🤣🤣