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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Anyone TTC May

238 replies

FayLiv · 27/04/2021 09:11

Hi Ladies,

I was hopeful this month but can feel signs of AF creeping up and due in a couple of days..

I'm not too distraught as we only managed it a couple of times in my fertile week so thought it may be the case this month was a no. Now I am so ready to get annoying AF out of the way and get on the May bus!

Is anyone else in the same boat and hoping next month is the one?

I am taking folic and vitamin D at the moment but I'm going to add DHA and co-q10 as well as I've heard v good things.

Good luck to those going for May... it's my birthday in May too and I've asked for a baby 😂

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Kez152 · 03/05/2021 15:10

🙋🏼‍♀️ Currently 6dpo.
Good high temps increasing daily. Experiencing sore nipples and boobs (usually only get pain under armpit) feeling a heaviness type of feeling low down at times.
Been ttc for 10 months and had 3 cp- hoping this is our month :)

Losd · 03/05/2021 16:08

@FayLiv ah I see, I have the one that pinpoints 2 days, with the smiley face. I definitely conceived my daughter the day after ovulation so this time I’m trying the day of first positive, then skip a day try a day skip a day try a day, so 3 times from first positive OPK. If I wasn’t using a donor I would probably DTD every day for a week though x
@Kez152 good luck! Xx

beckyCarlos · 03/05/2021 16:28

@kez152 good luck!! Let us know how you get on 😊 x

HardcoreParkour · 03/05/2021 19:28

@FayLiv I'd recommend Clearblue Connected OPKs. They are expensive but I conceived DS first month of using them. I plan to use them again time round. They detect the 4 or more fertile days.

LovelyLion3 · 03/05/2021 21:14

Has anyone drank pomegranate juice while ttc? I've read online it's supposed to help. I keep searching for anything that might help. I'm only on cycle 3 of ttc and already feeling like it's not happening soon enough. 😔

FayLiv · 03/05/2021 21:22

@LovelyLion3 I haven't heard that one.. I did hear grapefruit juice is meant to be good for cm in the run up to your fertile week? It sure how true that is I'd try anything lol

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FayLiv · 03/05/2021 21:22

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Fiep · 04/05/2021 09:51

Hi all!

Mind if I join the party? Cycle 1 of TTC #2 but I think I’m out this cycle. AF due Thursday.

DD1 arrived in cycle 2 so was feeling hopeful for a quick one but I think it’s a no this time.

I’m on CD26 and have been having lots of symptoms (sore boobs) and was certain I was pregnant, had a BFN Sunday, then Monday it was a BFN but when I came back an hour later (yes of course I fished it out of the bin) there was a clear blue line. Hours later an evap line appeared BESIDE the blue line so I’m guessing the original line, although outside the window, was legit?

So I was hopeful and excited to POAS (“6 days early” ClearBlue) this morning but it was a big fat BFN. Even after an hour. Not even the faintest. So must have been a false positive or cp? I don’t really understand how a cp manifests in terms of tests.

I’m developing a serious POAS addiction, I just want to pee on everything I see. Even my COVID lateral flow tests are triggering to me lol!!!! I’ve spent too much on clear blue lol.

It’s been a rubbish couple of years with lots of bad news in the wider family, work has been tough, and I’d really love something squishy to look forward to. I know it’s not the best reason to have another but I do love being a mummy do DD1 (most of the time) so it’s not like I don’t know what I’m in for Wink

Hoping for baby dust for everyone xxx

Losd · 05/05/2021 06:46

@Fiep haha you sound exactly like me! The second I’m awake in mornings I’m unwrapping a pregnancy test! Af due by Friday and still glaringly negative tests. With my daughter I got a faint bfp at 11dpo, I’m pretty sure if I was pregnant I would have had a positive by now. But yeah, also digging it out the bin every day just to double check...multiple times a day.... yikes.
Fingers crossed for you x

Fiep · 05/05/2021 07:34

@Losd exactly! I’m sure I’d have known by now. This morning I am proud of myself for NOT poas but am feeling very depressed sterilising my mooncup again ready for Friday Sad
On the plus side, I treated myself to a giant double espresso flat white - if I’m not preggo I might as well indulge my other addiction!!!

Msd2416 · 05/05/2021 11:37

Ladies, how often do you DTD when trying? Im due to ovulate Monday/Tues and have already started now. Just wondering as feel like it becomes a chore when TTC so wanted to see if people tried a week before, 2 or just at peak?

ttc19 · 05/05/2021 11:54

@Msd2416 We aimed for every few days with #2. This time we're both shattered and it's more like once a week.. taking a very relaxed approach! X

Fiep · 05/05/2021 11:57

Aw yay so nice to see there are a few positives!!!

Fiep · 05/05/2021 11:59

Oh oops that’s the other TTC thread! Silly me!!!

Re DTD, every couple of days around ovulation and otherwise not really! I’m tired! Lol

Msd2416 · 05/05/2021 12:01

@ttc19 we have been trying every other day then when due to peak everyday! I feel like its just a bit much! xx

ttc19 · 05/05/2021 12:08

@Msd2416 To be honest this is my first full cycle off the pill and I'm really not sure what my body is doing this time round. I think once I've got a better idea we might try a bit harder. I should really have had a period by now and I'm not pregnant or have noticed any ovulation signs like I have before so I'm not sure if this is my body saying "that's enough love" ha ha.

Losd · 05/05/2021 12:41

@Msd2416 I’m using a sperm donor and home IUI so it’s all very regimented. I aim for 3 times per cycle, but as long as I catch it the day before and day of/after ovulation I’m happy with that. This will just be cycle 2 this time, but it took a few cycles to conceive my wee girl in 2019 x

FayLiv · 05/05/2021 14:31

Hi ladies..

I am on day 5 of period, very very light almost done I would say now and randomly did an cheap opk. The test line is like a positive! Very strong.. did a clear blue opk and an empty ⭕️ however the lines are strong when I took out the stick. Any reason for this? My glow app suggests I will be ovulating in about a week!

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xoJellyBean · 05/05/2021 14:39

@FayLiv did you try doing a pregnancy test just incase?! 🤞🏻

Msd2416 · 05/05/2021 14:41

What apps is everyone using to track?xx

FayLiv · 05/05/2021 14:43

@xoJellyBean No I haven't, I hadn't even thought to as I've had 5 days of a period..I had the usual tummy cramps at the start and general yucky feeling - I feel ok now though now it's finishing. I really don't think it would be that? I've had two children before and if I've been pregnant it's been a missed period. If I was pregnant which I know opks can sometimes detect surely then the clear blue would have a smiley face too? Very strange!! X

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ttc19 · 05/05/2021 14:48

@Msd2416 I'm using Clue x

xoJellyBean · 05/05/2021 14:53

@FayLiv that's so strange!! Maybe just a faulty test 🤔 when are you due to ovulate?

@Msd2416 I'm using fertility friend and also Femometer (plus the Femometer thermometer and OPKs) x

Aila1994 · 05/05/2021 17:22

@FayLiv I had a full period before taking an ovulation test (which was a blaring positive), googled it and ended up taking a pregnancy test which was positive! The outcome wasn’t great for me but you never know 🤞x

FayLiv · 05/05/2021 17:28

@Aila1994 Ah! really?
I am sorry to hear that.

Well I certainly don't feel pregnant but that's interesting. I'm going to keep track and see how I get on in the next week or two with my opks as I'm pretty sure it's just a period. The line line has got paler now but still a solid line. Bizarre, I wonder what my body is up to!

My fertile week starts on the 12th according to glow. X

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