The Good Husband of TTC Drive (No1 Babies Detective Agency pt5)

[nomoremagnolia]

Especially for you
I wanna let you know what I was going through
All the time we were apart
I thought of you
You were in my heart
My love never changed
I still feel the same

Especially for you
I wanna tell you I was feeling that way too
And if dreams were wings, you know
I would have flown to you
To be where you are
No matter how far
And now that I'm next to you

No more dreaming about tomorrow
Forget the loneliness and the sorrow
I've got to say
It's all because of you

And now we're back together, together
I wanna show you my heart is oh so true
And all the love I have is
Especially for you

Especially for you
I wanna tell you, you mean all the world to me
How I'm certain that our love was meant to be
You changed my life
You showed me the way
And now that I'm next to you

I've waited long enough to find you
I wanna put all the hurt behind you
And I wanna bring out all the love inside you, oh

And now we're back together, together
I wanna show you my heart is oh so true
And all the love I have is
Especially for you

You were in my heart
My love never changed
No more dreaming about tomorrow
Forget the loneliness and the sorrow
I've got to say
It's all because of you

And now we're back together, together
I wanna show you my heart is oh so true
And all the love I have is
Especially for you

New thread especially for Ready

[kensgirl]

Hello there, everyone. Sorri I have not been around much lately, we have had a lot going on at home, car a write-off, lap top playing up, blah blah , noting too serious though. It has taken me ages to try and read through and catch up with you all, so please forgive me if I get things wrong.

Ready - how are you, sweetheart? It sounds as though you are having a difficult time in rl, I hope you are managing to smile your way through. I'm sending you a big hug in case you are in need of one....xx

Nomore - I'm sorry it didn't work out this month, it must have been soul destroying to be late, and start getting your hopes up. I really felt for you. [sad[ Don't give up hope though,things have a habit of happening when you least expect it. February is not too far away, and you may get some good news at any time. I'm keeping everything crossed xx

Hi there Gilly. I'm glad you had a sensible, down to earth consulatation, your GP sounds lovely. maybe the thought of knowing you have made the first step, ang got a positive result will help to give you peace of mind, and help you feel as though you are doing something positive. I had my day 21 tests back about 10 days ago, and the GP said everythng was within rhe normal range.

Oh, Mistlethrush! I'm sory, I've only just picked up that you have been through another early mc.I'm gutted for you, you must be feeling such a mixed bag of emtions after dh's fears. Have you contacted Sheffield yet, I'm sure they will be wonderful with you. It's awful to be hoping for a bfn, I remember that feeling only too well.

Good to see you Bella, and glad you are OK Sybil. Hi there Poppy!

Well, I'll try to keep more up to date if you'll have me back. < Kensgirl takes a deep breath and quietly whispers bfp..>

[nomoremagnolia]

Congratulations kensgirl

Of course you can come back, they'll be more pg ladies than not pg ladies on here soon (which is a good thing - esp as the last thread title I have left is "In the Company of Pregnant Ladies" )

[kensgirl]

Thankyou both!But, I warn you , I take no prisoners and will be dragging you longterm ladies with me, so Gilly, Nomore and Ready, I'm waiting for you. Lucky cycle 13...But, I'm scared and in shock, and all mixed up too.

[scorpio1]

Congrats kensgirl

Just saying hi really! hope everyone well?

[nomoremagnolia]

Well I'll be on cycle 26 soon - maybe it'll be lucky 13x2 (quite fancy twins...)

[nomoremagnolia]

Hi scorpio how are you? Was thinking of your Jan wedding the other day (my BF's looking to get married next winter) - how's things going?
gilly how's the knitting going? I've started on my hat again - I stopped because I thought I'd dropped a stitch but I took it into work for a friend to look at and I hadn't, I'd just mis-counted!

[scorpio1]

ooh wedding plans going well, just ordered my furry shrug thing to fit over the bump!

dress in cream

shrug

do you like??

im 19+2 today already, baby does big kicks now. i find out the sex on thursday, whoppee! I have a boys name ready....

[kensgirl]

thanks scorpio - they are both lovely, I'm sure you'll be a beautiful bride. I can't believe you are that far already.

I hope so too, Nomore. I hope I havn't upset you though, I know that 13 cycles isn't very long, and don't want you to think I was being insensitive or smug...

[nomoremagnolia]

kensgirl don't be silly 13 months is hard enough. In fact I found the 10-12 month bit the hardest of all - the point where you are saying to yourself that 80% of couples are pg by now and why not you, but also that it's not quite the time to start asking for help. I actually don't find it so hard now as I did then.
I don't want to deny anybody the joy of a bfp - I simply wish there were a few more of them

[Ready]

Kensgirl - Yay! A little birdie told me you got your BFP, I am so chuffed for you chick!! Take it easy won?t you, rest lots and enjoy your pregnancy!! Thanks for thinking of me, things are tough, but nothing we can?t get through together ? who knows we might end up back up your way Thanks for waiting for us old-timers ? hope we won?t be far behind!

Nomore - PMSL at your thread title ?in the company of pregnant ladies? ? apt for here and in RL at times, no? How are you doing?? I just wanted to say another big thank you for your kindness lately ? you are such a lovely person, and I so hope your bfp is just around the corner! You fancy twins, do you, only so you can get the Phil and Teds

Scorpio - SHARE your name won?t you !! Love your outfit, very excited for you! Looking forward to some pictures

MT - Sorry about hoping for a bfn, it must be awful. Hugs.

Gilly - How are you flower? I love the bobbly blanket, very cute! How is the knitting going? Did you learn any fancy tips for casting off to share with me? I thought of you the other day, I was in an unknown place, and had some time to kill and needed some peace and quiet, so I wandered around the cemetery ? but it made me think of you.

Poppy - Glad to hear you are positive, and ready for the beach? not long now I can totally empathise with the friends announcements, hang in there, I am. Hugs.

Right, I gotta dash ? so sorry if I have forgotten anyone, not intentional. Thinking of you all.

[nomoremagnolia]

Hi Ready how's things? I had totally forgotten about the Highgate Cemetery meet-up!! We should do it - it'll be even more atmospheric in the winter

Scorpio - what a lovely dress- I like the feather wrap too - you'll look gorgeous What's the name then? (Can't believe I missed that before )

Right I'm off for an early night/TV in bed/BDing - have been busy redecorating here and am totally shattered

[kensgirl]

Thanks Ready! Are you still a bit up in the air with dh job/where to live, I hope its all moving in the right direction for you both. I think, in my experience , that the toughest times bring you the closest, and we have had a fair few of those over the last few years.

I can see you with twins Nomore! One of each will be on my letter to Santa for you, to be delivered ASAP. I can't think of anything nicer than being on a pg thread with you, Ready and Gilly too, so everything crossed.

What name are you thinking then, Scorpio? Are you feeling it is a boy, or just find boys names easier to think of?

Hope everyone is OK today xx

[mistlethrush]

Kensgirl - congratuations - how far?? Have you had any early scans???

I went for scan to confirm that all OK - but didn't have scan as test was bfn. Good that didn't have to have scan, although I will be testing again in 2 or 3 weeks - as got v. strong bfp on Thursday, even though I know that I'm not pregnant. Don't want levels creeping up after af and then dropping so that below test levels at af...

Might see if I can get referred for recurrent miscarriages - although only 2, it's not great as it takes so long to get there in the first place. The nurse said that at least this way might be able to get early scans to 12 wks which would be reassuring (given history....).

Wishing me a bfn and lots of bfp's for everyone else!

Still not going to do anything now until after Christmas - need a bit of a break.

[scorpio1]

Boys names cos i just know is a blue one! Dexter william is his name, do u like?

[nomoremagnolia]

Like Dexter William a lot - here's hoping it's a blue bean!! William was on my list but doesn't really sit well with our surname unfortunately.

[Ready]

One of my other MN mates has just called her baby Dexter - loving the name Scorpio!! Anyone else watch the series called Dexter though??

Chuckling at nomore - thinking of william with your surname, I actually like it DH thinks it sounds like a poet's name

Big hugs MT - sounds like you are really going through the mill at the moment. Thinking of you.

Kensgirl - Yay!! Congratulations again - yes, things are still very much up in the air for us, but hopefully not for too much longer. Fingers crossed

Hope everyone else is well?? I am making the most of having internet for a few days ... on a sour note, I am pretty sure this month was not successful, I am getting some tell-tale niggles

[scorpio1]

nomore, you could have william as a middle name, assuming your bean will be a blue one anyway. actually, assuming my bean is blue!!

I don't watch the programme Dexter-im hoping the name wont get popular as a result, iyswim?

Our surname begins with a c and also has an x sound in it so sounds quite nice. I bet bean is pink now! i have no pink names.

Ready fingers crossed its not cd1 for you. maybe you can have a xmas pressie bfp??

its my birthday today, im a very old 23

[mistlethrush]

Scorpio - happy birthday !!! 23!!!!!!!!

Even writing it backwards was a long time ago. Didn't meet dh until I was 28, got married when 29....

Hope you have a good day

[nomoremagnolia]

Happy birthday scorpio
Can't have William as a middle name as tradition in DH's family is to give grandparent's name as middle name. I have lots of pink names if you need them
ready hope it's not AF

[mistlethrush]

We'd only got blue name definitely sorted for quite some time. Went something like dh's grandfather's name, dh's/my father's/my grandfather's name, dh's 'family' name, surname.... So did keep it quite well in the family.

I liked Charlotte for pink name - would have been Lottie when little probably.

I actually liked Charlotte Elizabeth - but both rather long names, even if number of syllables just right.

Its a good thing dc turned out to be ds - was really nice to say hello '...' when he was first born...

[Ready]

I like the middle name to be a family name, and have some relevance.

Nomore I am clinging to the rumour that pre-period niggles can just as easily be progesterone than actual menstruation based - gullible? Me?

Happy Birthday Scorpio - 23 Enjoy your day!!

MT - That's exactly what I want, to have names ready so that when I meet them I can say the name

[Ready]

CUTE!

[kensgirl]

Happy birthday scorpio! I love the name you have chosen, I hope you are right about your blue feelings!

Mistlethrush, I;m relieved for you that it's looking good as far as no repeat molar is concerned. I hope your luck id due to change.

Ready, don't rule the month out yet, as I always get pre period niggles in the 4 or so days preceeding af, and I still had them this month too, I'm putting it down to implantation pain now .

I think I am 5_+ 4 today, and have been quite sick this morning, but a bit panicky as my boobs are not sore today, and they have been for about 2 weeks, so i'm trying to think that all is fine, and they don't have to be painful 24/7.

Hope you are all OK xx

[Ready]

Kensgirl - Fingers crossed that what I am expderiencing is not period related then!! I will know before the week is out though, so not long to wait! Don't worry about not having pains/symptoms 24/7 - I am sure it is natural to worry, but just enjoy the times without ache and pain

Where is everyone?? I get internet access for longer than normal and everyone buggers off