🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@kiwi17
I think day 9 would be grand but I don't use them I think the relax approach is the best way forward just dtd every 2 days relax is best ask @lozza2206 lol using them strips stress you out and times sex and takes the fun out off it 💚💚

@kiwi17 I'm backing @Babyghirl !!

The best advice is to do it every other night from day 7 to 20 and then you're covered. I do believe the folate and b6 are magic pills. I know when people say relax you think to yourself "how can I relax it's all I live and think about"... but unfortunately it works. Living your life, laughing and then just making sure you get jiggy three times a week is the key xxxx

@Babyghirl oh I hate those covid tests we do the those quick ones now to rule it out.. I feel like rubbish to so thirsty I just too scared to test yet I don't want to jinx myself 🙈 xx

Hahaha ok thanks @lozza2206 and @Babyghirl I will try and relax just not sure I can face dtd that much in a month 😂😂😂😂 fingers crossed for the magic pills though eh?! 🤣

@kiwi17 hahah well see now I'm pregnant I can't be arsed with it... it's handy I have an irish man who wants it 24/7. I truly believed I would fall pregnant this year and I think that's the key. You will get your rainbow baby. We all will 💕🌈 but that's why I hated the strips because suddenly you're doing it cause you feel you have to, then if you don't that one day you feel guilty xoxo

@lozza2206 hahah bet that helps 🤣 I know what you mean about the guilt although I think it only worked the first time we ttc with my dd after 10 months of trying because we managed to work out when I was actually ovulating .. I guess I ovulate later than I think! Hmm will see how we get on with the ewcm etc and maybe just do one when that appears to see 🤞🤞 thank you fingers crossed everything goes smoothly for you. I am gutted I won't get my 2021 baby now but such is life. Can I ask how many cycles after your mc did you take to get pregnant?

@kiwi17 I personally always used to give myself little time goals like say: I will TTC 3 months just doing it every couple of days and then if that doesn't work I will do 3 months OPKs. That way you feel you have some sort of plan 💕 so I have 2 angel babies. Started trying March 2020, fell pregnant June and lost that baby around 5 weeks. Then fell pregnant again in November and had a MMC confirmed in January, had the surgery January. So 2 or 3 cycles this time. The folate @Babyghirl recommended I started taking the beginning of this cycle I fell pregnant. I remember posting on here the amount of EWCM was so much compared to my normal. Then the b6 is meant to help produce progesterone xxxx

@sweetbabydust1989
I'm excited for you to test lol they r awful was a ott with mine I have a bloody head cold and I was sent home gs, 😂😂😂
@lozza2206
How r u holding up and how r u feeling 💚
@kiwi17
You got this r rainbows r just around the corner girl 💚

@Babyghirl I'm ok actually I'm believing this is my time 💕 super tired but 5 weeks on Sunday so only 7 weeks to go 🤣🤣🤣 how are you? Xx

@Babyghirl oh it's a nightmare isn't it we get sent home for the slightest cough... when do you think would be best to test I don't wanna do it to early I 100% think I am out... mild cramps but my belly is so bloated now xx

Omg great them 7 weeks will fly in 💚💚 I'm loaded with the cold so feeling rotton hoping it passes soon thou lol 💚 x
@sweetbabydust1989
I don't test until I'm late but when u due on ur period 💚 x

Well my results where nagitive so just loaded with the cold which I thought 😂😂😂😂😂😂 such a beautiful day out to and I have zero energy to even get ready 😠😠😠😠😠😠 lol xx

@Babyghirl Well on the flo app it says 3 days but I think it's more 5 days xx

@sweetbabydust1989
I would do one tomorrow if you have a test there if nt Monday with the pains and that a few days ago you should get a clear answer then if it was implementation omg I'm so excited and really hoping it's your time 💚💚 x

@Babyghirl I think I might just wait it out and see if I miss AF my cycles are usually 30 days so won't be due on until next week.. I am shattered today still cramping a little xx

When you think you're dealing ok with everything and then walk into church to see a 4 day old baby 😭

@kiwi17 I know right, little triggers around us always. Had a catch up With my cousins who both have 2 year olds and they were both saying how they think they are going to start trying for baby number 2 soon, I was a little shattered to say the least at how easily they can plan it will probably happen straight away.

@danisaui31 that's so hard - I know what you mean people can be so blasé about it when they don't realise can't they? I bet I was probably like that before the mc but definitely this has taught me to be more careful with what I say around people now!

Can I also ask if anyone else has had af type cramps after the period is finished!? I have never had that before but have had twinges the last couple of days. Dr Google tells me it's because I might have something wrong down there but given I had a scan 3 weeks ago and they said everything was fine I'm guessing that's not true?!

@kiwi17 yes for sure, it's taught me the same! I always thought it would be a no brainer because everyone in my family has never had problems. I'm just hopeful that it will happen for us, just trying to stress about it now lol.

@kiwi17 after my ERPC before my first AF I had two days (like 2 weeks apart) of horrendous cramps, like contractions I was doubled over crying on the floor. First time I put it down to uterus shrinking back down second time I phoned epu for advice (waste of time). Could it be something like that? X

I took the b complex vitamin last night and my urine turned NEON yellow haha. Apparently it's because of one of the ingredients in the vitamins but I was shocked haha!

@kiwi17 sorry about the newborn baby in church, i see babies the same age that mine would have been and it gets me ❤

@babyghirl are tou feeling better?

@kiwi17
Awwww virtual hugs its tough I don't go near his ma's cause his niece had a baby so I avoid it like the plaque so know how that must off felt 💚💚
@Annny27
Nt to heavy headed nw though its nw in the chest so got that annoying cough it better hurry up and do one, not long for hospital for you I'm excited for u lol 💚
@sweetbabydust1989
How r you feeling all good I hope 💚

@Babyghirl really rough I am DPO 14 cramps, bloating, back ache, boobs hurt like hell and cm I just want to cry... how are you feeling now xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Test girl lol if nt for u then for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 still nt great its hit my chest nw gs hoping it lifts soon 💚 x