🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

[ELM7]

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@mrsF111
Thank you looking forward to it 😁😁😁😁😁💚

Good luck @babyghirl !!! Dont be saddened if you dint get answers today but they will atleast tell you what tests are needed :)

Good luck @Babyghirl hope you can get a plan of attack from your call today.

@ELM7
Thank you will update you ladies as soon as I get off the phone, as being on this phone feels like I'm in a virtual wee family lol 💚

On this app that was meant to be 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Good luck today @Babyghirl

I got AF today, so my first "real" period post ERPC which was 5th March so today was CD27 for me. Before mc I was 28/29 days so hopefully I'll go back to fairly normal. I didn't catch ovulation on opks post ERPC so I don't know if I did or not. I only stopped bleeding from ERPC on 17th which was 2 weeks ago - has anyone else bled so quick?

Good luck @Babyghirl! Oh @Justwanttobeamum that's probably come with mixed emotions- how are you feeling about it All? I'm now 3dpo so waiting to see what happens in terms of af but as mine was natural/expectant I'm not sure sorry! I guess on one hand it's a positive your body may be settling itself back to normal 🤞🤞 and cycles maybe trackable again? Virtual hugs!

@justwant2beamum
Virtual hugs for you 💚 my cycles norm settle straight bck to norm after a loss I don't think ovulation happened straight after a loss thou nt that I was tracking or anything funny thing is I feel like my period is on its way nw and I'm only CD 17 from my first period after my loss 🙈🙈🙈🙈
@kiwi17
Thank you just an hour to go to I leave work to get home fore the call 💚

@Babyghirl good luck 💚💛💚🍀

@27DONFIN
Thank you just waiting on phone ringing it may hurry up 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 💚

Well just an update I have been put on the waiting list for ivf girls it's nearly 22 months long thou but he is confident that I will fall before then and carry to term so told me to keep trying even thou I'm on the list and if I need it coming round to when I'm on top off it it's there or if nt I will just be taken off and I have also been referred to the recurrent miscarriage clinic in the mean time 💚💚

That's meant to be 12 months long 😂😂😂😂😂

@babyghirl that's good you are on the list! The recurrent miscarriage clinic will be great for the testing of the reasons why. In the meantime the b6 vitamins might be your best shot

@Annny27
They nt doing tests on me that's up to the recurrent miscarriage clinic so going to phone them tomorrow and c where I am on the list hoping nt to far down it lol xx

@Annny27
Yep think your right and hopefully nxt time lucky so I'm now on the ttc train again nt going to give up as nxt one or one after that could be my rainbow baby xx

Thanks girls. @kiwi17 I feel ok. I'm a bit gutted not to be pregnant straight away but in my head I knew not much chance. Hopefully I'll catch ovulation on my opks this month then I'll feel better. I am glad I haven't had to wait like 6 or more weeks for AF as I have heard of that before.
That's good you're 3dpo!! I think if I did ovulate it was right at the end of my mc bleeding as I thought I had quite high opks and some ewcm but I started the opks a bit late as I thought it defo wouldn't happen till I stopped bleeding! So I either missed it or didn't, but either way obv didn't catch cause I have AF.
Bit sad, that was my last chance at a 2021 baby. If I catch this cycle my due date will be 5th jan 2022. Yep first thing I checked this morning!

Oh @Justwanttobeamum I know how you feel - I think I'm hopeful this month but even though we got a positive opk and dtd around the right time I know the chance is unlikely and have pretty much given up on my 2021 baby :( but on the plus side if it works for you this month you might give birth 5 days early?? Hehe! Fingers crossed for you and enjoy some chocolate tonight 🙂

@justwant2beamum
@kiwi17
Ladies I'm with ya on the ttc train again lol but please go easy on urselfs easier said than done I knw but stressing will get us no where girls been there 3 times and 4th time I fell ten weeks after my 3rd miscarriage cause I just went with the flow dtd often no tracking and just enjoyed time with dp as timed sex is awful 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm cd17 today and really feel like my period is about to start lol 💚

Hi ladies.
Hope you are all well! Sorry I've been quiet. I had to stay off MN for my own sanity whilst waiting for my 12week NHS scan.
I had it today and all was quite positive! Baby looks good and has a heartbeat so that's good. The only thing they mentioned was that the skull wasn't yet formed over the brain so I have to go back in 2 weeks for another scan to check it has. Although she said this is "normal" for 12 weeks I can't help but think of the worse and unfortunately I have been worrying about this all day now and google has not helped! I don't know why I google things!

Sending you all baby dust ❤️

@nuggetlover27
Try to stay positive listen to what they told you baby has a heart beat and looks good and that it's norm for 12 weeks unless you will be worried sick the nxt 2 weeks. Baby will be just fine stay off Google by the way its not good for r minds and congratulations 💚💚

❤️❤️ thanks @Babyghirl going to try and stay away from google and try and stay positive

@@nuggetlover27 lovely to hear from you ❤❤ I can understand your concerns but as they have said this is normal for 12 weeks I would try and relax. So hard to though. Have they said to up your dose of folic acid in the meantime?

@babyghirl love your attitude ❤

I am 2dpo now so tww!

@Annny27 sorry crossed posts! Yes I have to up my folic acid because I have a high BMI. I have got them from the dr today and started them and will take them until the scan so should be 14 weeks. They are 5mg , seems high seeing as I was only taking 400micrograms! But hopefully it will be okay!

My fingers are crossed for you! ❤️

@Annny27 I'm 3dpo today so similar to you - 🤞🤞 for our rainbows :)

@kiwi17 fingers crossed!! I hate the tww haha. Constantly googling and thinking "is that implantation or bowel cramps " haha

@nuggetlover27 glad that they have upped your dose! It is quite an increase in dose but hopefully does the trick of preventing any neural tube defects ❤❤