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Tww torture.....

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Penguinmumma · 03/01/2021 04:08

Anyone else feeling the torture?! This is only my first cycle but it took a long time to make the decision after a traumatic experience with DD. Now I’m just anxious to know so I can prepare myself I guess.
Feeling tired but could I hell sleep last night! Didn’t get to sleep until almost 5am and only slept for 3hrs Hmm
Boobs are aching a bit and I’ve had cramp and backache for a few days. App says 6dpo but I do tend to ovulate early from what I remember so could be more than that.
Ordered tests online to make myself wait til they get here before I test. My attempt to try and drag out the time Grin

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Penguinmumma · 04/01/2021 23:45

Auntys just passed away.

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Farfaraway1 · 04/01/2021 23:49

Oh @Penguinmumma 😓 I am so very very sorry to hear this. Sending love, hugs and strength to you and your family. Xx

Rmd123 · 04/01/2021 23:55

@Penguinmumma so sorry to hear xxx

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Penguinmumma · 05/01/2021 00:34

Thanks ladies. Just picked Hubby up and going to sit and have a bottle of beer and make bolagnaise aunty style (she used to run an Italian restaurant). Feel a bit numb and like a crappy person for stressing over ttc right now.

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LittleAurora · 05/01/2021 00:39

TWW here as well. Testing in the 10th January. It's out first cycle.

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Penguinmumma · 05/01/2021 04:33

My tests are on their way and should arrive tomorrow apparently. Feel like it’s wrong to test now though ☹️ Wouldn’t be right to tell anyone as everyone’s grieving. Can’t talk to hubby at all about it now 😞

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CJ2021 · 05/01/2021 08:05

@Penguinmumma I am so so sorry my lovely. Sending you lots of love and know that we are here for you so you can still talk about things xxxxxx

CJ2021 · 05/01/2021 08:07

I had really vivid dreams last night about testing again so woke up and completely failed at willpower... tested on a CBUE and I think I’ve got a faint line!!? I don’t know how to add a photo on here

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Penguinmumma · 05/01/2021 09:04

@CJ2021 use the little paperclip button. It brings up the options. Exciting!
And Thank you. Today has not been an easy day at all.

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Penguinmumma · 06/01/2021 04:11

My tests are with the courier and out for delivery 😬 I’m only around 8-10dpo so nothing would probably show up yet but I’m soooooooo tempted to do a test anyway!

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CJ2021 · 06/01/2021 07:39

What do you think 😬 feeling horrendous!

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Penguinmumma · 06/01/2021 08:08

@CJ2021 I see lines on both!! But get pink dye ones to be sure 🤞🏻

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Rmd123 · 06/01/2021 08:21

@CJ2021 indefinitely see a faint line! But as @Penguinmumma said try a pink dye one as they show up better! So exciting!

Rmd123 · 06/01/2021 08:44

Morning everyone, I know this post is TMI but I dunno what's doing on.

I'm roughly 3/4 DPO. Went to the toilet this morning before my shower and as I wiped noticed a reddy brown water discharge. Felt twinges in my lower stomach last night and this morning. After my shower I went to get a pad, wiped again and there wasn't much. It's too early for implantation so does anyone know what this is?

I came off the pill 17th December and had a period 21st December normal one lasting around 4 days. I'm gonna keep an eye on it today.. as I said it was only when I wiped and not in my underwear. And apologies again I know it's early for all this talk!

Farfaraway1 · 06/01/2021 09:00

@CJ2021 definitely lines!! 😄🥳

CJ2021 · 06/01/2021 11:28

Eek!! Got more tests arriving today so will do them first thing tomorrow morning. Oh god the nausea has been awful, evening/night the worst!! 🤢🤢

Rmd123 · 06/01/2021 11:41

@CJ2021 nausea sounds positive!! Keep us posted on when u take the new tests x

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Penguinmumma · 07/01/2021 03:45

I did a test this afternoon cos I just couldn’t wait and was bfn. I know it was early in terms of dpo and a late afternoon wee but I’ve depressed myself 😩 got another test so need to try and make myself hold off as long as possible now.
I felt really sick earlier today and my boobs are not happy at all atm so who knows anymore.

@CJ2021 update as soon as you can! Fingers crossed for you!

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Smileandtheworldsmileswithyou · 07/01/2021 04:07

Fingers crossed you get your BFP this month, the signs look good so far. Don't forget to update up when you test!

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Penguinmumma · 07/01/2021 04:25

@Rmd123 could be breakthrough bleeding still as your cycle settles. Can take a few months. Implantation be usually 6-12 days so unlikely to be that BUT anything possible!

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Penguinmumma · 07/01/2021 06:15

Actually feeling like my nipples have pins in them tonight. They’ve been tender on and off but today is a whole other level! Actually felt sick earlier too but not sure if that’s stress from sorting the house move and trying to make sure the broadbands moved in time for us to watch the funeral.

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CJ2021 · 07/01/2021 08:08

So I think it’s happening 😬

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Rmd123 · 07/01/2021 08:31

@CJ2021 g!! Congrats 🎊🎈

Rmd123 · 07/01/2021 08:32

@Penguinmumma yeah that what I was thinking either.. I think it's AF arriving early it got a lot heavier but who knows!

Rmd123 · 07/01/2021 08:33

@CJ2021 that was supposed to say 'omg'.. still half asleep 😂