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No AF and BFNs 🤷‍♀️

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ImpatientMama · 17/11/2020 14:24

Hello! We are trying for our second child and I am frustrated. I am sure several of you can relate to being frustrated with this whole TTC thing. 😅 Anyways. AF was due 3 days ago and has not shown her ugly face yet. But I have also gotten nothing but negatives (and one invalid). I was planning on not testing again until AF is a week late. Anyone get their BFP that late or even later? I am irregular, so it could just be a late period? I just want to know if I really am pregnant or not, so I can move on! Thanks for any insight you all provide! 😊

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sociallydistained · 28/11/2020 20:10

Ah yes I remember now. That is a good idea. I bet you're worrying. It's not straight forward is it 🤦🏻‍♀️ wishing you all the best!

Donnat89 · 28/11/2020 20:16

@sociallydistained I am really worried and so confused ? Will see what the digi says then go from there xxx

HJen22 · 28/11/2020 22:05

@Donnat89 oh what a confusing and stressful time! Yeah I would do a digital and see what that says, wishing you all the best! X

Donnat89 · 28/11/2020 22:20

@HJen22 I know ! Thank you ! I will keep you all updated ! I was hoping on an early night tonight but can't sleep at all now ! So literally laying awake mind in overdrive ! X

lastbany · 28/11/2020 22:31

@Donnat89 just to dive in here
Positive looks strong and good and lots of women have slight bleeding and usually nothing to worry about xx

Donnat89 · 28/11/2020 22:38

@lastbany thank you , it's stronger than the other day so that's something it's just a waiting game now I suppose ! Either way I will be talking with the doctor on Monday cx

Donnat89 · 29/11/2020 08:06

I can't believe it !!!

No AF and BFNs 🤷‍♀️
HT1335 · 29/11/2020 09:51

@Donnat89 oh congratulations!! Sorry this thread has many posts on have you been ttc for a while? Lovely news that’s a very clear result there!

Donnat89 · 29/11/2020 09:53

@HT1335 thank you yes 20 months in total after a loss at 14 weeks last year I'm over the moon and shocked ! Xx

HT1335 · 29/11/2020 09:58

@Donnat89 aww well that’s lovely news, I’m so pleased for you! And I can imagine your in shock I’d be the same
This gives me some hope that it can happen to me too 🤞🏻😊

Donnat89 · 29/11/2020 10:24

@HT1335 yes it can keep the faith I know it's hard ! I still cannot quite believe it t tbh ! X

ImpatientMama · 29/11/2020 12:13

Congrats @Donnat89!!

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Donnat89 · 29/11/2020 13:46

@ImpatientMama thank you ! Xx

HJen22 · 29/11/2020 19:22

@Donnat89 massive congratulations! So happy for you, wonderful news! After 20 months, you must be over the moon 🥰 xxx

Donnat89 · 29/11/2020 19:39

@HJen22 I absolutely am ! I'm feeling quite anxious coz of loosing the baby before and the bleed but trying to stay positive ! Just waiting for it to sink in properly ! Xx

ImpatientMama · 30/11/2020 04:21

Opks arrived a day early! Planning on starting daily testing tomorrow since my cycles are irregular plus who knows how the chemical pregnancy will effect it. So we will see how it goes! Trying to stay positive that this will help! 🤞🤞🤞

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HJen22 · 30/11/2020 09:37

@ImpatientMama mine arrived too and I did the first one this morning on day 6 as my cycle normally is quite short. Came back low but hopefully over the next few days I'll get high and peak 🤞🏻 sending positive thoughts to you too 🥰

HT1335 · 30/11/2020 11:00

Good luck with the opk!
Here’s hoping we all get some lovely news for Christmas 🤞🏻

lastbany · 01/12/2020 10:37

Sii ok annoying but I think I'm ovulating early!! Lots of ewcm!! And me and oh still have the huff totally not speaking! He wants to sort stuff I can't I'm so stubborn but m so pissed off!! Cycle day 9! So typical darent even take a ovulation test.

Moxi2 · 01/12/2020 11:06

Good day Ladies,
I'm new here and hoping someone will be able to put my mind at ease confused !
So we have been TTC for 16months now- DH is 33 and I am 29.
I have 2 boys aged 10 and 6 and he has 1 girl aged 6 from previous relationships. My cycle is between 28 and 32 days. Last month it was late by 2 days and then on cycle day 17 i started spotting (Light pink - only when i wiped) for 11 days!!! I have never had any spotting in my entire life and now currently on cycle day 37! No sign of Af 3 negative HPT. I dont know if i am pregnant or if something is wrong? Any advise will be appreciated!

Thank you!!

HT1335 · 01/12/2020 16:45

@Moxi2 welcome I think some of us were in the same situation too unfortunately I waited and ended up getting my AF. I would maybe call your gp and see what they suggest? It’s very frustrating isn’t it but hopefully the gp can give you some answers or reassurance

HT1335 · 01/12/2020 16:46

@lastbany hope you work things out!

Moxi2 · 02/12/2020 06:46

Hi@HT1335, Thank you for your reply!
Just curious on how long you waited until AF arrived and did you have light spotting for 11days?

Moxi2 · 02/12/2020 06:47

@Donnat89 CONGRATS!!!

lastbany · 02/12/2020 07:45

Very confused! My cm is very very watery (which aoorently means ovulation is near) but did a ov stick and barely got a second line!!