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Testing around 13th May

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Sussexbysea · 29/04/2020 15:05

Hi all,

I joined a similar thread last month and found it really supportive. It’d be great to hear from others.

We’ve been trying for number 2 for two years now and each month gets more emotionally difficult. Xx

Xx

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CaramelTart23 · 15/05/2020 09:44

@Skyla01 congratulationssss woohoooo 🙏😆 thats amazing news!!!! Hope everything goes well for you ☺️ How are you feeling x

Skyla01 · 15/05/2020 10:37

@LKSF yes don't give up! This can be a long hard journey but my advice is to try and make peace with it, try and keep sane, and keep plugging away each month. It's tough but eventually you'll get that BFP, although easy for me to say that now.

@Sussexbysea yes go my BFP this morning. Keep the faith & I really hope you get your next cycle.

@CaramelTart23 thank you :) feeling relieved and happy, and a bit sick already! Going to stsy cautious until the 12wk scan but praying this is it. At least I know I can get pregnant now- after so long I was beginning to wonder.

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Sussexbysea · 15/05/2020 10:49

@skyla01 this is amazing news. Huge congrats to you both. There’s always a worry isn’t there, keep strong and safe. When you see that 12 week scan, you’ll realise it’s all been worth it xx

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CEW19 · 15/05/2020 11:06

Hey, i need some advice. Period was due last sunday (10th), spotted a little on Friday (8th) so got my mooncup ready, was super light Friday and Saturday, so didn't even use it. Sunday and Monday was medium flow, nothing Tuesday and Wednesday, then yesterday and today it's brown when i wipe. I'm usually pretty consistent with periods where day one is light, 2, 3 and 4 are medium then nothing/very light day 5, so this is very unusual for me. I'm also having some lower back pain and occasional dull ache in lower stomach.

I'd done a FRER last Friday which was negative, then my period had come so thought i was on to the next cycle. Now not sure if i should do another test. anyone else had this?

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Sussexbysea · 15/05/2020 11:56

@CEW19 I’ve had this before but unfortunately it resulted in miscarriage for me.

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CEW19 · 15/05/2020 11:59

sorry to hear that @Sussexbysea. I'll take a test now i think just to ease my mind.

SewingAddict419 · 15/05/2020 12:58

Nothing this morning 😕 I just don't know.

TTCgee · 15/05/2020 15:24

@Skyla01 eeeek what amazing news! So pleased for you. Xxx

SewingAddict419 · 15/05/2020 17:12

Nevermind, AF showed after all 😩

BbyBx2 · 15/05/2020 19:22

Congratulations to those with BFP’s!!

Anybody testing tomorrow or Sunday?

33Carr · 15/05/2020 20:01

@BbyBx2 I'm waiting out till Monday morning however I think AF might arrive by then!

CaramelTart23 · 15/05/2020 20:20

@BbyBx2 I'll be testing tomorrow although I'm unsure if I should wait it out till Sunday or even Monday hmmm...

CaramelTart23 · 15/05/2020 20:23

God I really want this to work out 😩 would be the best Eid celebration ever!!!

33Carr · 15/05/2020 20:24

@CaramelTart23 I only have two test left, that's the only reason I think I'll be able to wait out till Monday! I'd be POAS everyday otherwise 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

BbyBx2 · 15/05/2020 20:28

@33Carr I think I should wait untill Sunday/Monday too, but... the urge is too much I’ll be 12dpo tomorrow. How many dpo are you?

33Carr · 15/05/2020 20:33

@BbyBx2 hah I know how you feel! I'm trying to plan lots of things to do over the weekend to keep myself distracted! Wasn't the best at tracking this month but think I'm around 11/12DPO.

BbyBx2 · 15/05/2020 20:54

@33Carr think I need to do the same see how long I can hold on for. Good luck!!

33Carr · 15/05/2020 20:55

@BbyBx2 Good luck to you too! I'll report back here as soon as I know either way :p

BbyBx2 · 15/05/2020 20:58

@33Carr look forward to hearing how you got on. Fingers crossed for you! I’ll also update on how I get on too.

BbyBx2 · 16/05/2020 08:02

Morning,

Tested this morning and got a Bfn, so I guess that’s me out for this month. Currently 12dpo.

Out of curiosity has anyone ever tested negative at this stage then gone on to get a positive?

Skyla01 · 16/05/2020 08:04

@SewingAddict419 aah sorry you got AF, it's tough, especially if your hopes were up. A new cycle is a new start though.

Good luck to those testing this morning!

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Sussexbysea · 16/05/2020 09:26

Hey everyone. So I got my BFN on Thursday but my bleeding started early and it’s been light and now stopped.

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MrsTtobe · 16/05/2020 11:43

Hi, hope you don't mind me joining. I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks pregnant. Almost 6 weeks ago now. Finally got AF yesterday so officially back on cycle #1 ttc. Again. 😔

Congratulations to everyone on their positives. It's the best feeling in the world. I'm 35, got 2 beautiful children and trying for number 3 to complete our little family. ❤

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Sussexbysea · 16/05/2020 12:15

Hey @MrsTtobe I’ve created a new thread for testing in June, you’re welcome to join us there xx

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MrsTtobe · 16/05/2020 12:20

Thanks lovely @Sussexbysea I'm a bit crap on here how do I find it? Is there a link? X