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The Hut of Gl/Doom Part V- for the unapologetically despondent

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duchesse · 01/08/2007 08:56

The new hut. Ta-da!

This one is a snug little basement World War 2 type nightclub, with dim lighting, snug velvet sofas, red walls and certainly no politically correct smoking bans. Occasionally certain selected men may be admitted at our convenience.

Sit down, make yourselves at home, and never, ever apologise for feeling like shit. That's about it.

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OracleInaCoracle · 22/02/2008 18:08

despite not ttc, im still lurking. herby, great news about the tests!

herbaceous · 22/02/2008 18:09

DP has booked his 'slot' for next Wednesday. The hospital only accepts samples between 9 and 10 on a Wednesday morning, and only five slots allowed. Madness.

So, to add to the pressure of producing the goods, getting it into the tiny bottle, and whizzing it around in the warm, it has to be done at a certain time. Still, beats having your insides vacuumed out or inspected with a camera, which is my next treat, so I don't feel too sorry for him!

OracleInaCoracle · 22/02/2008 18:12

i remember dh moaning about his test the day after my hsg.

he got to have a wank.

i got dye shoved up my fanjo (and they tried to push it through my removed tube)

i felt so sorry for him

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duchesse · 23/02/2008 11:03

This is the Hut graduates thread in case you ever felt the need for it. It's been hibernating since last July, but could easily be woken up...

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ronshar · 23/02/2008 21:37

Wheely the snowboarding was fab. As I couldnt sit serenely in the bar I decided I had nothing to lose by going out on my board. I did stick to the boring runs mind you!!!!

Good news on the test front Herbs. Remember Popsy was told her DH had wonky swimmers and she was already pregnant.

If I knew all we needed was an Audi I would have changed my car last year. Then all I would have to have done was convince DH to join me. Not likely.

Thank you Duchess, I have added the link to my watch list.
All ok. Waiting counting the minutes until monday morning for scan. Will be 8 weeks. We shall see. Trying to be positive but finding it hard.

shreksmissus · 24/02/2008 19:06

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wheelybug · 24/02/2008 19:14

CD1 Shreksmissus ?

Have a large vodka.

shreksmissus · 25/02/2008 07:58

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wheelybug · 25/02/2008 10:08

Its shit Shreksmissus.

We weren't supposed to be ttc this month due to forthcoming ski holiday but we couldn't not... but I kept saying to DH 'we're not trying' as if to convince someone/thing that we aren't trying so it happens (do you think we're all going slightly mad ?). I realised I have two months more of ttc (this one included) before my appointment at the failure to conceive clinic (or whatever its called) so couldn't not try this month.

AAAAAARRRRHGGGGGHHHHHH. Let the 2ww commence (I keep telling myself that as AF will be due when we are skiing it won't matter whether ti comes or not because we'll be skiing ..... yeah right...)

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OracleInaCoracle · 25/02/2008 10:55

oh shrek. im sorry.

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soosy · 25/02/2008 20:00

Shreksmissus, know the failure thing big time, sorry about your crap day. My worst moment is when people tell me they are pg, I just walk away now after giving a tight little smile.

wheelybug · 26/02/2008 09:34

Sorry AF got you too Anniemac.

SM - you have every right to be self absorbed at the moment. I totally understand the sibling thing - its heartbreaking. Hope you're feeling a bit better today.

ronshar · 26/02/2008 09:49

I am just going to pay a small visit and I am really sorry if I piss you off more.
Had scan yesterday. All ok so far.

Sorry it is a bad time for you all this week. Life is shit sometimes.

wheelybug · 26/02/2008 09:55

great news ronshar.

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poppy75 · 26/02/2008 14:44

Hello Guys - sorry to see this week has been shitty for everyone.

Just met up with BF who has 5 month ols. We were discussing ttc and she said if she hadn't been able to have them she would have just got on with things and enjoyed relationship. Hearing her say that reminded me how I used to think, but it is so different when you want babies. I explained to her that once you decide you would like that life and also after my mc, it just isn't that easy anymore!!

It is all very well saying that when you took two months to conceive. I think all this ttc has made me so much more sympathetic to other peoples dreams and I definately don't judge as much now. Hopefully I haev been 'deemed' to have learnt my lesson and get a BFP in the next 6 months!!!!

I can't help but think it would do eveyone good to have a while ttc so they could understand this a little more. Do I sound selfish?? May be - but it would stop alot of the unhelpful comments.

Apart from that am still quite positive - thank god for the hut!!!