TTC buddies needed DESPERATELY thread 2

[dizzy85]

@MrsB899 hope you don't mind I started a new thread as went to reply on the last one and it seems to have hit the limit on 1000 posts 😆

@dizzy85 maybe call 111 for some advice, try not to worry though.

I had a bit of cramping last night (no bleeding) and a pain in my shoulder. After being told to go to a&e and a long wait there I've just spent the night in hospital as they can't be too careful regarding eptopic. I'm optimistic and thinking it'll be ok. But I have got to have a scan later this morning to see where exactly it is.

@Cupcakes1234 oh my god I hope your ok?! That sounds so scary! I hope everything is alright. Xx
Thankyou I will give them a call. Let us know how you get on x

I was just upset as I didn't say goodbye properly to my little boy as I thought I'd only be a couple of hours max. My phone had completely died but everything is ok this morning. Not feeling any pains other than aches from a rubbish hospital bed and rubbish sleep but my partner is coming up
soon with fresh clothes so I can freshen up 😊

Aw that must have been hard. Hopefully you have the scan soon and all is good x

Me and baby are absolutely fine. It's growing where it should be and nice strong heartbeat. I'm so relived. 7 weeks and 2 days. They gave me a picture but you can't really make out much from it 😂🙈

Aww 🥰 that's so good to hear!! I bet you are so relieved.

I am! How are you doing @dizzy85?

@Cupcakes1234 well I decided not to do anything yesterday as it was only a small amount and I had no pains or anything and I read a lot of things saying it's normal so i felt ok. But today I've woke up and had a small amount of very light pink spotting when I wipe again but this time I have cramp feelings on one side so I'm definitely freaking out as I have no idea if this is normal or not. It feels like the pain you get around ovulation. I'm definitely going to ring someone and get it checked out. Can I ask how your cramping was? Was it one side or all over?

@dizzy85 I know it's hard but try not to stress yourself out too much but it'll put your mind to rest if you want to get looked over. It was a pain on my left side and it was on and off but it was like a sharp stabby pain. I'm still getting it occasionally, especially if I stand up too fast. But baby is on my left side for some weird reason that's where she found it. Hope everything is ok. How far are you?

That's how mine feels sharp and stabby but it's on the right, yer I'm gonna call and see what they say. Trying not to stress but it's so worrying isn't it. According to my app I'm 9+4. Thankyou hopefully everything is fine and it's just normal.

It'll put your mind to rest. I'm sure everything is ok though 💜

Thankyou, I will let you know what happens x

Good luck Hun x

Oh girls! Hope you’re both ok. @dizzy85 let us know how you get on.

I’m 8 weeks today and not feeling any better, just so exhausted and sick all the time. Had to ship my ds off this morning for a day of rest.

@Cupcakes1234 @dizzy85 I've just caught up I'm not getting notifications for some reason. Hope you're both ok x

Hey, hope all is ok! Not long after they started yesterday the cramps disappeared so I decided to just keep an eye on it as we had a massively busy weekend with family visiting and I felt ok so I said if they come back then I'll definitely call someone, but so far nothing and no more spotting. I'm hoping it was just normal growing pains or something😬. As if it was something bad I'd imagine I'd have more pain or spotting. I feel ok today apart from feeling sick and I've woken up with a sudden aversion to salt? Just the thought of the stuff is making me want to throw up! I have the midwife on Thursday so if nothing else happens before then I'll just tell her and see what she says. How is everybody doing?

Glad you haven’t had any more @dizzy85. Mention it to your midwife like you say.
I pretty much spent the day in bed yesterday. I feel exhausted and so sick all the time. I still haven’t had my midwife app through yet, but have all the others booked in, even a consultant app in September! Hopefully I’ll get a letter this week. 8+1 today ☺️

That's good @dizzy85! I have my midwife appointment on Tuesday. Looking forward to that so she can get my 12 week scan sorted. Thought I'd share this even though you can't really make anything out from it 😂. 7 weeks and 2 days from Fridays scan.

@LuciBee @Cupcakes1234 Thankyou ladies, I will definitely mention it to the midwife. I'm so excited for the appointment and even more so getting a scan date I'm so desperate to see now!

@LuciBee that must be awful feeling sick all the time. It's bad enough when I get it every now and then so I definitely feel for you there! Hopefully your midwife appointment comes soon. What's the consultant appointment, does everyone get one of these too?

@Cupcakes1234 🥰 what a lovely picture. Does it feel more real now seeing that? Im on edge with excitement to see mine!! I have a million questions for the midwife she's gonna love me 😂

It definitely feels more real now. I felt awful all dat yesterday. The MIL made a lovely Sunday dinner but I just couldn't finish it as I just felt so ill. Don't feel much better this morning. It's kicking my bum at the moment and I can't wait to feel better lol

@dizzy85 I have to have an appointment with a consultant this time as I delivered by emergency c section last time, so we have to discuss delivery I options.

@LuciBee I have to see a consultant too after a dodgy smear and a LLETZ and come biopsy on my cervix hope it's just routine and I don't need a stitch

@MrsB899 hopefully it’s all routine! Scary all these appointments aren’t they!

Hi ladies, hope your all ok. I have some devastating news, I had a tiny bit more spotting yesterday and went to the doctors who sent me up the hospital to check, they did a scan and my baby was only measuring 8 weeks and they couldn't find a heartbeat. I am absolutely heartbroken I can't believe it's true. I looked at the pictures and it was awful. Apparently it's called a missed miscarriage and my body still thinks it's pregnant so I'm still feeling pregnant and getting symptoms which is fucked up, excuse my language. So it's still inside me and I have to decide whether to wait for it to happen naturally or have medication or surgery. I'm in shock sat reading a bunch of leaflets 😢💔

oh @dizzy85 i am so so so so so sorry to read this. what devistating news. i cant imagine how you must be feeling. what an awful thing to have to go through. so sorry girl :(