2WW... The longest wait

[guinicorn]

Hi, I was just feeling a bit down in my 2ww and wanted to share a bit. I'm trying so hard not to symptom spot but it's impossible.

Im around 7 or 8dpo, I couldn't pinpoint the actual day as LH tests were inconclusive, CM got very watery one day and the next seem thicker so I'm hoping that's when I ovulate. I have sore boobs, slight backache, weird ache very low down in my abdomen, almost like an internal bruise. If I stand, sit or bend then I feel it ache.

Cervix is high and soft, creamy CM, little bit of nausea but that's probably because I'm working myself up... I stupidly did a test this morning which was a bfn so feeling even worse now!

I know everyone else feels the same way but I wish I just knew one way or another... I'm 35 so worried that's affecting my fertility too.

Thanks, just needed to vent a bit x

Sorry forgot to mention I've really lost my appetite too! And usually I am a breakfast lunch dinner kind of person!

@guinicorn sorry to hear of your loss. I hope the op goes ok for u xxx

@guinicorn so sorry for your loss xx

Went to dr handed in my form for midwife, so fingers crossed! Am spotting ever so slightly but only like one bit when I wipe a day, should get an appointment in the next couple of weeks I think all being well xx

@helensss that sounds good Hun I'm sure it will all be ok. I came on today xxx

Hopefully wish I didn’t have the worry of pink spotting but they say that’s also a sign of pregnancy so I’ll hold on to that! Oh really? That’s so strange you get these positives on tests! You feeling ok? Xx

@Helensss good stuff! Lots of people have spotting, I'm sure it's all fine!

@AutismFamily so sorry hun. I don't believe it - that test looked properly positive to me 🙁

I have my midwife appt booked at my house for 23rd! Keep feeling light headed and sick and my boobs are bigger and sore already, want to do my last clear blue and see 3+ but not sure if it’s too soon! I’m def over 5 weeks now but scared it won’t say the right think 😂 xx

Ooh when are you going to do it? Love seeing those 3+'s!

Well I did it yesterday when I got home from work and it still said 2-3!!

Still sounds ok to me hun, 2-3 plus your 2 week prior equals 4-5.

Yeah I’m about 5.5 I think so might wait till Saturday and do another one in the morning, just want to see that 3+

Good plan 😃 They're notoriously inaccurate but it's a great feeling seeing that 3+ xx

Oh are they? That’s good to know, I was worried it hadn’t gone about 2-3! Xx

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Hundreds of threads on here and elsewhere with people getting stressed because they haven't moved from 1-2 to 2-3 or from 2-3 to 3+.

Don't worry! 😃 xxx

Thank you, although I have had some brown spotting tonight 😭 we’ll see xx

Brown spotting is likely to be old blood, so hopefully nothing to worry about xx

@peasando I haven’t had anymore overnight but do have tummy twinges hope it’s ok! X

Just did this so feeling much happier now! 6 weeks 😊

Fantastic! 👏👏👏👏 🥳

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Weirdest thing everyone, I’ve been so wrapped up in my puppy that I’ve not even noticed I’m 3 days late! It was only my hubby who just reminded me by saying ‘I think your due your period’. Now whether that’s a hint that I’m more ratty than usual or that he’s got some secret menstral chart going on I’m not sure...However I’ve no tests, no symptoms, nothing. I don’t think I’ve ever been less anxious about pregnancy, so I’m gunna plod through the next week and do nothing AND DEFO NO TESTING! 👏👏👏👏

Omg Sauty...I think sometimes when you stop letting something take over, that's when things happen. V impressed as ever with your willpower in not testing - do keep us updated though 🤞🏻 x

@Sauty omg! Yeah I do believe it happens when less thinking about it, I never in a million years thought I’d get pregnant straight after miscarriage and look what happened. You are very strong for not testing,’let us know! Xx