2WW... The longest wait

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Hi, I was just feeling a bit down in my 2ww and wanted to share a bit. I'm trying so hard not to symptom spot but it's impossible.

Im around 7 or 8dpo, I couldn't pinpoint the actual day as LH tests were inconclusive, CM got very watery one day and the next seem thicker so I'm hoping that's when I ovulate. I have sore boobs, slight backache, weird ache very low down in my abdomen, almost like an internal bruise. If I stand, sit or bend then I feel it ache.

Cervix is high and soft, creamy CM, little bit of nausea but that's probably because I'm working myself up... I stupidly did a test this morning which was a bfn so feeling even worse now!

I know everyone else feels the same way but I wish I just knew one way or another... I'm 35 so worried that's affecting my fertility too.

Thanks, just needed to vent a bit x

How are we all ladies? xx

@peasando I’m ok thank you although I’m on day 17 of cycle and just got light pink/light red when I wiped like only little spots, I don’t know what this means. Maybe my cycle being mental again again who knows. How are you? When is your scan? So exciting xxxx

That's a bit weird @Helensss, any chance it could be implantation? Or is it a bit early for that?

I'm fine thanks, 12 week scan is on the 10th but I decided to get the harmony test done so I had a lovely scan on Tuesday and saw my little dancing bean. Results are due at the end of next week and as well as telling me about any chromosomal issues, they will tell me whether it's a boy or a girl! Unbelievable that I'll know that so early on.

@peasando wow that’s amazing so happy for you, crazy how they can tell so early on!
Well I just started getting all the egg white cm so thinking light bleed i
must have something to do with ovulation, fingers crossed xx

Fingers crossed @Helensss, hopefully this is a lucky month for you xxx

@peasando hoping so we’ve given it a good go 😂 how is everyone else? Hope you are ok @autismfamily x

@Helensss haha good for you! 😂😂

@AutismFamily is it this week you were going back to get checked hun? Hope all ok xxx

Hi ladies, hope you're all doing ok. Just a wee update from me - I got my harmony test results this morning, all fine - low risk of downs, Edwards and patau syndromes and I'm having a girl! 💖 So I will have one of each.

On a serious note...I really appreciate the support everyone has given each other on this thread and I'll keep checking in to see how you're all getting on but please let me know if you want me to stop posting pregnancy updates here - I know how hard it is to hear that sort of thing when you're TTC xxx

@peasando that’s amazing news!! One of each how perfect.
I personally love hearing your updates,
I don’t get jealous of others weirdly, just rooting for everyone! I’m in the 2 week wait now, we really gave it our best shot this time 😂 last time when I miscarried we hadn’t really timed it on purpose so I’m hoping the effort has paid off! Xx

Hi ladies how is everyone xx

I’m ok thank you @autismfamily in that horrible hopeful tww now, how are you doing? Did you have your check up? X

@helensss had my second scan from miscarriage. Saw a new doctor at my surgery today and he booked me in for more bloods on Friday he has picked up on that I bruise bad and easy and thinks my fibromyalgia might be a mis diagnosis he thinks I have either lupus or something called APS. How is Ur wait going what day u on xx

That's really good they're looking into that @AutismFamily, sounds like they're taking good care of you xx

That does sound good @autismfamily hopefully get some answers soon. I’m only on day 3 so a while to go yet! Xx

@peasando how's baby doing? Yh this new Dr is great felt like I finally got heard as I have mentioned loads of the symptoms before but they was like what ever it's nothing.
@helensss bless ya just the start then. I don't know when I ovulated but still done the deed once or twice lol. Xx

So glad you might be getting some answers 😘@autismfamily yes it is early but we tried this time a lot ha, so I can’t help that hoping xx

@helensss I have everything crossed for you Hun xx

Thanks so much @autismfamily and I hope you get the answers xxxx

Well don't I feel like a Muppet went to doctor today for my bloods. I got up early for this had no food or coffee got myself all wound up as I'm scared of needles. I get there try sign in won't let me queued for ages to speak to someone to only be told my appointment is next Friday not today haha xx

@autismfsmily hahaha that’s something I would do 😂 xx

@helensss I couldn't believe it felt like a right numpty lol. How are u Hun xx

Oh dear @AutismFamily sorry but that did make me chuckle - I'm good at doing that sort of thing too! 😂 xx

@peasando can't even blame it on mummy brain lol xx

Oh god me neither I've always done that sort of thing 😂

Hahaha I know, that will hopefully be an excuse one day. Im so clumsy and scatty 😂 glad I’m not alone! X