2WW... The longest wait

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Hi, I was just feeling a bit down in my 2ww and wanted to share a bit. I'm trying so hard not to symptom spot but it's impossible.

Im around 7 or 8dpo, I couldn't pinpoint the actual day as LH tests were inconclusive, CM got very watery one day and the next seem thicker so I'm hoping that's when I ovulate. I have sore boobs, slight backache, weird ache very low down in my abdomen, almost like an internal bruise. If I stand, sit or bend then I feel it ache.

Cervix is high and soft, creamy CM, little bit of nausea but that's probably because I'm working myself up... I stupidly did a test this morning which was a bfn so feeling even worse now!

I know everyone else feels the same way but I wish I just knew one way or another... I'm 35 so worried that's affecting my fertility too.

Thanks, just needed to vent a bit x

amazing news @peasando so happy for you!

todays the day that AF is due and feel like the worst period of my life is on its way so will just wait and see what happens! pretty convinced im out this month.... just means we gotta try harder next month

@sauty over a week Hun but on my longest cycle I have had in past its today but still nothing. Loads of symptoms though. How are u Hun xx

Here you are @Donthaveaclue1

Aw thanks @Donthaveaclue1 You're not out until the witch shows.

When are you going to do another test @AutismFamily?

Sorry tagged wrong person in that last message, meant @dontthinkaboutit1 !!

@sauty maybe tomorrow morning Hun I'm scared to do it xx

@Sauty you must be coming up to ovulation time soon? Have you decided if you're going to try again this month? xx

I done some tweaking myself it's definitly there I can't even get my head around it

@Donthaveaclue1 I can see that today x

Another one

Ow god I feel sick

@Donthaveaclue1 I think I can see a faint line, have you tested again? Hope you're not freaking out too much.

Still no AF for me, 1 day late FRER says BFN
13DPO been crampy since Wednesday

Hardly a line at all this morning d9nt know what's going on

Morning ladies xxx

Hi everyone, how are we doing today?

Hi @peasando how are u? Xx

I'm feeling pretty rotten today tbh @AutismFamily. Starving but the thought of food is bleurgh. Husband is working so took my little boy to soft play and now exhausted!!

How are you?

@peasando not good Hun what so u think it is. I'm thinking I'm back in the tww again xx

@AutismFamily hoping it's just this little bean making itself known! I'm really bloaty too, I look enormous. 7 weeks today!

Back in 2ww is exciting, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Did you dtd at the right time do you think?

Bless ya @peasando I understand that 7 weeks has gone so quick.
Yh Im still really confused to what happened last month as test still sometimes look like faint line and I'm feeling sick still but who knows. I was doing opks few times a day as I read that they can pick up HCG and checking cervical position and cm everyday not done temp as often as I should but oh well. Had ewcm for a few days didn't think much too it as opk was negative but getting there. DTD not yesterday the day before in the afternoon done opk yesterday morning was darker than control line checked again lunch time had was negative so fingers crossed I got it bang on time. Also cervix was high soft and open today still high and soft but nearly closed and ewcm is hardly there.

Aw @AutismFamily it's all so confusing isn't it? Sounds like you've got the timing right though so here's hoping this is your month! xx

Fingers crossed Hun hey. Xx

How is everyone? I still haven’t had af since mc, will wait till weekend and test again. I don’t feel like I am pregnant though xx

Hi @Helensss that's frustrating for you. Hopefully there's a good reason for lack of period!

I'm fine, was freaking out a bit because I've been having quite bad cramping so booked a private scan last night - all absolutely fine and bean growing as it should. I'm such an idiot, I'm going to have to learn how to go more than a week without a scan otherwise I'm going to be bankrupt by the end of this pregnancy 🤦‍♀️ Have another NHS scan next week so that will help.

Hi all.

@helensss maybe try booking in at the Doctors. But all pregnancies are different so just coz u don't feel it don't mean you are not Hun.
@peasando oh
Bless ya Hun im glad everything is ok. The first 12 weeks are the worst for panicking anyway let alone for women like us lot.
I'm back in the dreeded tww xx