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TTC Our Rainbow

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MeghanV07 · 28/09/2018 14:44

Hi all 💞 I had a miscarriage on the 5th September, I was 7+2 😔. We already have a 10 month old so I feel very blessed to have him. But now in the 2ww and I’ve done about a million tests already and they’ve all been BFN. Some I’ve thought they may possibly be a very very very positive but I’m doubtful. Is anyone else trying to conceive their rainbow 💞

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Frazzlerock · 22/10/2018 12:17

@MeghanV07 they really said it was cycle related? Surely not in with that amount of pain!!?? Is this a normal occurrence? I'm not sure I'd be pleased with that response. No one should be in that much pain because of a cycle...

craftymum01 let us know how you go lovely xx

@Delilah7 how are things with you today?

My GP visit was pretty standard. She's booked me in, did my BP which is fine, She said I'm about 4 weeks which I already knew. So estimated delivery will be around 30th June. She said she will get me booked me in for an early reassurance scan. I'm drinking so much water (got through 4 600ml bottles and a mug of decaf coffee before 10:30am). Yesterday I drank at least 8 or those, probably nearer 10. She didn't seem concerned. I normally only drink 3 bottles!

Delilah7 · 22/10/2018 12:19

@Frazzlerock okay I guess. Had some normal Cm which is strange as I haven't had any normal stuff after EWCM since my pregnancy. But I'm ok. Worried about dad's MRI tomorrow. Me and OH DTD last night so. But it's too late for that now haha x

Frazzlerock · 22/10/2018 12:22

I meant to @craftymum01 !

Frazzlerock · 22/10/2018 12:23

What's the MRI for @Delilah7 Sorry if you've already said

Delilah7 · 22/10/2018 12:42

@Frazzlerock see what heart failure he has and how bad it is :( xx

Frazzlerock · 22/10/2018 13:47

Oh @Delilah7 that sounds rough. I'm sorry Flowers

Delilah7 · 22/10/2018 14:03

@Frazzlerock me too :( xx

Delilah7 · 22/10/2018 16:54

Dad had his heart monitor on again this weekend. Heart doctor just called got to up his medicine as he's having racing heart beating episodes and doesn't even know it. 😔

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MeghanV07 · 22/10/2018 20:27

@Frazzlerock yup!! I was surprised too. It was horrendous pain, I told her I couldn't even move over in bed without having to support my boobs it hurt that much & she didn't seem too concerned, said it maybe a massive build up of hormones etc. I said I was worried about cancer and she said she couldn't feel an obvious lumps so to go back if it's still the same in 2 weeks. I feel better now I've gone, but I wish she'd just said I'll send you for a mammogram. I'm also worried it could be an implant that's shifted or worse, ruptured & that would explain the pain, heat coming from it & the flu symptoms. Good news about the reassurance scan ❤️ let us know when you have it booked. Are you just super thirsty? I'm thinking about stopping caffeine now, just to get in the habit when I DO get my BFP positive thinking

Oh hun @craftymum01 I hope everything goes as well as it can do & please let us know how it goes.

@Delilah7 your poor Dad 😔 sending you all lots of love. Does he have to wear the monitor again? Xxx

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Delilah7 · 22/10/2018 20:29

@MeghanV07 no he doesn't not anymore I don't think so. Just wish we could have a pregnancy announcement this month but I doubt it'll happen 😔 x x

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MeghanV07 · 22/10/2018 20:33

We're not out till the witch arrives @Delilah7 ❤️

When is AF due? Xxx

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Delilah7 · 22/10/2018 20:35

@MeghanV07 if I base it on 33 days which it's been pretty much since MC it'll be not this Saturday next. However flo is saying the Monday after that! Xx

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MeghanV07 · 23/10/2018 07:00

I wish it was much simpler 😔 @Delilah7. I'm due on in 7days, I know I'm out this month 👎🏼 xxx

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Delilah7 · 23/10/2018 08:43

@MeghanV07 as you've said your not out till the witch comes xxxx

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MeghanV07 · 23/10/2018 08:57

You're right @Delilah7 ❤️

Feel like I've got lots of creamy CM this morning. I haven't 'checked' but I can feel it there...

I honestly only ever feel okay about this whole situ when I'm busy. When I don't have time to think about it.

What. Is. Life 😖💔

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Delilah7 · 23/10/2018 09:04

@MeghanV07 all I say is I had some creamy Cm before I found out I was pregnant. I still think I'm out this month but just have a weird vibe or energy about it though. Like maybe it will be this month or next. Hard to explain x

Delilah7 · 23/10/2018 10:02

Not gonna lie I know it's too soon but I've had the stretching pinching in my right hand side....

craftymum01 · 23/10/2018 17:24

Well the pathologist cannot find a single thing wrong with the baby or with me so we have to chalk it up to just one of those things. In a way I suppose I am relieved as it means we can try again without the fear of something specific going wrong but it would have been nice to put a reason on it. I did get a bit upset when she told me it was a little girl but other than that held it together fairly well. Hope everyone is having a lovely day

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MeghanV07 · 23/10/2018 17:30

@Delilah7 😱 any other symptoms?!

Oh @craftymum01I hope you're okay, your bound to get teary when you find out the sex as it makes it even more real. Your little girl will always be remembered 💘. Hopefully it will take a slight bit of fear away from TTC again. Have a nice chilled night and a bath to relax 🧡

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craftymum01 · 23/10/2018 17:33

@MeghanV07 you're right, I think it has meant we should go into TTC without the fear (we cn hope lol) and a bath is desperately needed!

Delilah7 · 23/10/2018 17:46

@craftymum01 well I guess the nice thing is there was nothing wrong but then that's even more baffling. Really feel for you honey. We are here for you xxx

@MeghanV07 a few cramps babe. Not really thought about it after this morning as been at hospital x x

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MeghanV07 · 23/10/2018 17:53

@craftymum01 exactly 💛 will always be hard after a MC, but hopefully will make you feel a tiny bit better.

@Delilah7 hope everything is okay 💛

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craftymum01 · 23/10/2018 18:05

Thanks ladies. It really does help to talk to people about it.

How's your dad @Delilah7?

Delilah7 · 23/10/2018 18:16

@MeghanV07 I'm ok. Thanks x

@craftymum01 he was abit shaken up afterwards made him do lots of breathing and holding breath in the MRI so he was out of breath and shattered afterwards. Bare in mind he's like 10 and a half stone and 5 foot 10 there's not much on him! Xx

craftymum01 · 23/10/2018 18:39

Bless him :( what a stressful time for you all xx