TTC #2

[rollerskaterdata]

Hi ladies! Just wondering if anyone else is trying for DC2? Hoping we can support each other through this journey 🙂 I have a soon to be 4 year old, on cycle no 2 and currently waiting to exhale ovulate!

Ah sorry to hear that @Ellikopter - you know you want baby and will be loved. That’s enough, but sad you didn’t get reaction you hoped for. 💐 I keep getting bfns despite increased CM and nausea. Sad face.

@TwittleBee yes that would make sense. Sorry bfn but early days. I used four frers this month to check and check again that bleeding that started at 9dpo wasn't implantation bleeding. It wasn't it was af :( now I'm annoyed at myself I will have to buy more this month ( I also have ic tests but then I convince myself they won't show up yet so end up taking a frer so I know... sigh)

Started to get ewcm now though on cd 12 so i normally surge about 4 days later according to opks so nearly there - then just the tww!!!!

Gosh it just feels like such a long cycle of waiting it feels so hard some days!!!

OneMoreWish so sorry it was AF last time round! And so frustrating how much FRERs cost, they must have some serious profit margin on them. Get in lots of DTD then if you are approaching the surge! I'm so tempted to start charting again but DH said to give it couple cycles of being more relaxed as he thinks charting was stressing me out. It really is hard some days, why do cycles have to be so bloody long!

Feeling puzzled and a bit low which I know is stupid. Lots of nausea, lots of CM - clear - but AF due today. Two tests. Two BFNs. One normal, one FR. Could it be an egg that’s fertilised but failed to implant or something?

oatmilk4breakfast so if you have symptoms the egg has certainly implanted. But you might not have enough pregnancy hormone to even be picked up by a FRER (maybe you ovulated late or maybe you havent enough hormone yet, I know a few ladies on this board have had BFN on day of AF with FRER and didnt get a BFP for a futher week). AF might just rock up later today (AF strangely never shows up till late afternoon for me). FX AF stays away for you hun

Thank you! Yes it’s funny, I just want to know I’m not going mad experiencing all these things!

@oatmilk4breakfast certainly sounds good. Wait a couple of days and test Hun xx

How are things@rollerskaterdata

@rollerskaterdata

AF today. Sad because was glad issue was ‘settled’ no more debate about ttc no.2 if you see what I mean. Also super puzzled. Why all the nausea? And tiredness? It’s bright red and heavy so no doubt is real AF but confused

oatmilk4breakfast I had exactly the same this month, along with my usual PMS, I'm wondering if somethings going round or it's our bloody heads playing tricks. Sorry AF has showed up though. Still waiting for mine to show... BFN this morning though so not holding out hope.

@Ellikopter hey hun, I dropped off the radar a bit as we're moving house in the next few weeks and there's lots to sort out! I'm doing ok, about 5+3 and feeling dreadful! Constant nausea, heartburn, sore sore boobs, bloated, gassy and I'm so tired it's actually worrying me, I don't remember being this tired with DS! Going doctors tomorrow to get bloods done and check my iron levels. But other than that just peachy 😁 lol! How are you? Sorry to hear about your mums response, hopefully she'll come round to the idea soon and you're right, don't let anyone spoil it for you!

@oatmilk4breakfast sorry AF came, hoping next month is your month xx

Haven't had a chance to scroll through all the messages I've missed, hope everyone else is doing ok xx

Yes I'm just having a break from chatting to them and giving them chance to calm down . @rollerskaterdata glad you ok but I wouldn't worry Hun pregnancies can differ. I have more sore boobs now than with my DS and on off cramping too . But if you worried go to GP. Hope your house move goes ok xx

@Ellikopter thanks hun. That's the downside of finding out so early, the first trimester drags by!

Yes it does @rollerskaterdata but just enjoy every bit of it :)

@Ellikopter I'm trying 😁 x

How's everyone doing ?

@Ellikopter I have an early scan this morning, should be around 6+3. A bit nervous but trying to keep my mind off it until then. How are you? How is everyone else doing? X

@rollerskaterdata how come you've a scan Hun ??

I had my first midwife appointment 8th October and went well. I've to ring hospital to book my dating scan :-)

@Ellikopter I've had a bit of light cramping on and off (not painful or anything and no bleeding or spotting either) but my GP likes erring on the side of caution and sent me in for an early scan. I don't mind, I get to see baby earlier! I had this with DS and was completely fine so I know it's normal. That's great about your midwife appointment, because I'm moving I haven't even booked mine yet so it still doesn't feel real! I'll be registering with my new GP practice next week then should hopefully see the midwife week after when I'll be 8 weeks. I hope you get your scan date soon x

@rollerskaterdata I've had cramping also I did with my son and everything went fine lol I'm sure all will be well :) and yes you get to see your baby sooner which is good X

@Ellikopter just got back, all is well. Saw the baby with a nice strong heartbeat and measuring 6+2 so only a day behind where I thought I was. Roll on the 12 week scan!

@rollerskaterdata I'm glad the scan went well for you and @Ellikopter I'm glad first appointment went well just another wait before your scan now, I'm so pleased for you both I hope you both keep putting little updates on this thread as it's nice to see how your getting on

@waitingforbaby2 thank you hun, and I will xx how are you getting on?