TTC June.... early I know but excited and don't want to talk to anyone in RL about it!

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Have been slowly coming off antidepressants and stopped taking the pill (using condoms) to get body back to normal ready to try for no.2 in June, also started taking pregnacare. I know its early to start posting but got my first proper period today so just been on site to check fertile dates for months again and think we're going to go for it in June - ooooooooooooo, very excited. Just wondered if there was anyone else out there planning way ahead cos i wouldn't talk to anyone in RL life about it so far ahead, other than dh!

oh god, with my ep i got a faint bfp on the day af was due.

not really, still feel pg tho

Well don't give up hope yet hun.

ringing up today to make my hsg appointment, so if by some miracle i AM pg i can cancel it.

Ah yes that's a good idea. I made an appt to see dr to find out when I could start having tests bearing in mind my age, and got a bpf same week (before appt). I believe in weird ironies like that!

cant have sex til after anyway, and my fertile time is after my appt (the 11th) woohoo!

ikwym tho, i got my bfp with ds two days before i got an appt with a fertility doc

Hi everyone. Am trying to catch up on all the messages that have been posted since my last one, but it´s not easy when you´re supposed to be working and keep getting interrupted - students are so inconsiderate

tigerschick - I know what you mean about dh, mine won´t have any tests either and has the "what will be will be" attitude and I don´t blame him for that either.

scorpio - any news?

tested this morning and got bfn. am now cd43 i think? this is getting stupid !

I guess im not pg this round, and will just keep trying til it happens! at least im not gonna be heavy pg over summer....

I dont mind too much, only second proper cycle.like i said to dp last night, im trying to make a baby, not a piece of toast!its gonna take a bit of time.at least now i also know how to work out fertile days a bit better, basing on a 40 ish day cycle.

i'm still staying on here though!

Oooh Lissie, if AF is not here yet then nothing is certain. As I keep on telling everyone, I got FOUR BFN's, all after AF was due, before i got a positive, when I was pregnant with DS.

Ah Scorpio hadn't seen your message. Tis v annoying when AF doesn't come, but tests are BFN. Keep us posted and my fingers are still crossed .

Egg - i think thats quite common. i was like that with both pgs before. i know this is a true neg though because i just dont feel pg and my womb is very achey, like ready for a period.

I guess baby Jasper will come when he's ready

Scorpio - do you know why your cycles are so long? Mine seem to be long too (they were when I was a teenager, then I was on and off the pill from 17 to 29 so obviously they were regular then. Whenever I have come off the pill they have been two-three months but I never took much notice).

I am on CD38 now (second cycle after MC) as you know and am getting BFNs.

I can't cope with this massive wait between AFs/testing!

Scorpio - sorry to hear that but like you say, when it´s ready it´ll happen. I haven´t bought a test yet because I don´t want to get disappointed again so I´m going to try and stay away from the chemist as long as possible Like you though I feel like I´m ready for a period so will just have to wait and see.

i don't really know, i have have had very few 'true' periods. i went on the pill at 14,stopped at 16,(had a baby) back on at 17,stopped at 19 (had a baby) and a coil until feb this year. since i was 14 i have had about 8 true periods! this is the only time i have watched them iykwim.

Scorpio - wow! I think I have similar figures having been on the pill so long!

Sorry about you bfn Scorpio. It must be really frustrating not to know for sure what is going on - especially you got pg so easily the last 2 times.

Ah well, I'm off to mow the lawn, how lucky am I? (For those of you who remember - the pony is now in a field I mean, fgs, who cares if the grass in a field is short? )

Oh bugger it Scorpio What is going on?

And meant to say sorry for bfn xx

tbh, remembering ttc Jamie (ds2) was about the same.we got bfp on the 5th month at 5 weeks +. which is fast, but still longer than how long i have been trying now. (13 weeks). i think my cycles have always been long - when i have had true ones they have always been this long, and hurt loads!

i honestly don't mind! i know it will happen. i dont hink there are any problems whatsoever - its just how i am/have always been.

aww sorry about your bfn.what a bummer.
Keep trying I shall miss you when you do get your bfp!!

God i don't even know what cycle day it is, lol.

CD18 me and dp have been at it everyother night, since i came off af.

i have a 34 day cycle exactly from what i worked out. so i have 16 days left to find out if i worked that out right. lol.

Realy trying not to be impatient.

keep going pinkslippers!!

i know, i am a gossip aren't i??

Sorry bout your bfn Scorpio.......
we haven't been trying that long either, but this time I was V.dissapointed......not sure why.....oh well here's to lots of chat and hopefully a due in March Thread soon !

Well people I´m off to tidy up and get ready to go home. Hope you all have good weekends See you all Monday