September Bus

[juneybean]

Tentatively joining this bus...

Age: 32
TTC: #1
Cycle: #10 (ugh!)
BFP due: 2nd September

@Fia256 really sorry for what you are going through

Congratulations to those with BFPs

I a pretty sure I ovulated last night (aching on my left hand side EWCMa and I am now feeling slightly nauseated). so entering the two week wait.

So I've got AF (and I'm surprisingly okay...)

But any one who charts - do you agree that I probably ovulated day 14

www.fertilityfriend.com/home/jefnerf as otherwise my luteal phase this month was only 11 days :S

@juneybean I would agree that you ovulated on CD14. Why do you think Fertility friend is telling you differently. And I'm sorry AF arrived for you. What a win that you are ok with it.

I think probably because my temperature stayed lower on day 15 and 16 before a bigger rise... Stupid FF!

@juneybean so sorry about AF 😓 I agree with you that you look to have ovulated on day 14. I've also disagreed with FF this cycle too!
Do you usually ovulate on day 14?

Varies to be honest @passmethewine123 but anything between 14-16 but usually with a luteal phase of 13....so I know 11 is short for me.

Also it looks like you have the VIP version, have you tried doing chart overlays to see what looks the most likely compared to previous cycles?
Even if you have had an 11 day LP it is probably just a blip so try not to worry about it too much.

Posted this on a few other threads so won't write it all out again. Long story short been to the drs, saw the worst one there, left in tears.

When asking for bloods to confirm and make me feel better about what's going on I was met with "what good do you think that will do"
When asking about IF all goes well and sorting an early scan out I got "who told you you can have one of those and again, what is it going to achieve"
He said as I've had 2 healthy children, my last 3 miscarriages were probably bad luck, even if this one ends too he doesn't think anything is wrong with me.

Then while I was sat sobbing he asked me what happened with loosing my little boy in June. So there I was, a completely broken mess sobbing my heart out. Taken me an hour to calm down and I've now rang the drs, complained and they are arranging a different dr to ring me today.

Well he sounds like a miserable bastard sorry you've had to go through that @Fia256

I'm glad you complained though, let us know how it goes with the other Dr.

Somsorry @Fia256 some Dr's can be so cruel. Glad you complained. Sending lots of Hugs

@Fia256 - so sorry - that sounds like a complete nightmare :(

Thanks all I feel much better now for getting it off my chest.

With my last pregnancy the dr I saw couldn't be more helpful. He listened to how I felt, was straight into the EPU to arrange a scan and said if anything changes before then to come straight back in. This time when I'm even more fragile emotionally I get that wanker!!

@Fia256 that doctor sounds like a total cock biscuit! I'm furious on your behalf that he spoke to you that way.
Why do people enter these professions if they don't have an ounce of sodding empathy?!
Glad to hear they're getting you an appt with someone who isn't a cock womble

@Fia256 so sorry you had a shite doc this morning, but well done for complaining and arranging for a new doc to ring you, must have taken a lot of courage and strength. Good luck and let us know how you get on xx

So sorry to read that Fia. Hope your complaint gets listened to.

Ladies, I'm going to do my first opk today - have only been temping so far. When am I best to do the test, morning, or whenever, and dilute or strong urine??!

So sorry you had that experience with the doctor @Fia. Hopefully you will get to see another doctor and have a much more positive outcome! Some doctors can be so insensitive!! Hugs xxx

@roseandtime what type of OPK are you using? They have different requirements (e.g. dual hormone should test first morning urine, just LH tests should be lunchtime-ish with urine held for 2+ hours)

Af just arrived :(
That's me off to the October bus - good luck to all still in with a chance for September x

Actually, just realised I'm still ok for September...

So jumping back on again:

#cycle 8 or 9 - lost count :(
#ttc number 3
#bfp September 28

Yeah I'm still hanging on in here @Melodypond17

I'm up to cycle 11 now gah!

Statistically - 60% chance of pregnancy next cycle @juneybean!

is it the statistic in a row ? If so this is cycle 6 in a row, the other 5 cycles were from 2 years ago but I like to count them as it makes me feel more woe is me haha

That's just counting these 5/6 cycles

Hey everyone!
I'm brand new to this but would like to join in if that's ok? Lots of information to take in and a lot to learn I think but slowly getting there!
I'm 30yrs, TTC #1
Cycle #2
AF due 18th sept

Ahh well that's more that 50/50 chance isn't it?

I had/have two cats - one I got in 2002 when I was a depressed 17 year old and she was born 5th June - she sadly died earlier this year. My now cat was born 6th June and was a reward after my DIUI didn't work in 2014. Now I've got my period today my next due date will be 7th June .... weird coincidence?