Getting Ready For Baby Challenge - Thread 8

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Oh parsnips I really hope everything is okay. Distract yourself, have you done all your packing for England? What are you doing while you're here?

Oh parsnips I'm sorry 😟 I really hope it's just because you've been prodded about a bit! Thinking of you x

They just called. It's not good news. My hcg levels have dropped to 12. It's a miscarriage. I'm going to start passing it soon. Thanks for all your well wishes.

Sorry it's not much clearer parsnips but good that they have hcg levels from Saturday for comparison. How are you feeling now you're home? Thinking of you x

parsnips I'm so unbelievably gutted for you 😔 sending all the ❤️ I'm so so sorry :( xx

Cross post... oh lovely parsnips, I'm so very sorry xx

I'm so, so sorry parsnips. I'm gutted for you I hope DH is able to come home and give you a big cuddle. Take care of yourself xx

So sorry Parsnips

So, so sorry Parsnips. That's so unbelievably shit. Sending you all the hugs. Hope your dh is home soon to be with you. ❤️💐

I'm so so Sorry Parsnips

I'm so sorry love that's really shit. Take care of yourself

So so sorry parsnips sending lots of love xxxxxx

Parsnips so sorry to hear that, the same thing happened to me between 5-6... it's so shitty and rubbish, so sorry emotionally draining all this ttc... hope your DH looks after you and pampers you. So sorry this has happened, look after yourself and stay in touch xxxxx

So sorry parsnips look after yourself xx

Thank you girls. I just feel completely shit. I'd printed off cute little messages to tell parents with and was running wild making everything Pinterest perfect and all the while it just wasn't going to work out. I haven't told DH yet. He is still working and I don't want to just message him. Totally shit timing as seeing family tomorrow and they are none the wiser so will need to put on a brave face. Not that the timing would ever be good to be honest. I just took it for granted that everything would be ok.

Oh parsnips I'm so so sorry to hear that. Hugs to you

So so sorry Parsnips, hope your DH is home from work soon to support you through this. Take care lovely

So so sorry Parsnips, hope your DH is home from work soon to support you through this. Take care lovely

Oh parsnips I'm so sorry this is the last thing I wanted to log on and read, you poor love, life is so cruel sometimes, sending you love and hope your DH is home soon for support and love, xxxxx

We are here, if you need to rant/vent/anything. I wish I could say something to make it feel better, but there's nothing that can be said. There may be people back home you feel you can talk to so you don't have to force the brace face the entire time. 💐💐💐

I might be talking out of turn here hun (so everyone feel free to shoot me down)... but maybe you could tell your mum or a friend or something whilst you are away... i think it would be really good support and then can be a deflector if any awkward questions or comments etc that could be upsetting... just a though 🙂

Oh Parsnips I am so so sorry to hear this. There is nothing I can say to make you feel better; it is truly one of the worst things. Take care of yourself. Hope DH is home soon to be with you

I echo what everyone has said, we're here if you need us. Can't imagine what you're feeling. confused may well have a point about telling people. Do what you need to do. Hope your DH is home now xx

Oh parsnips im so devastated for you. Hope DH gets home soon. Look after yourself and absolutely don't put any pressure on yourself to be brave when you're going through something unbelievably shit. We're here for you for as much or as little as you need to share your pain and frustrations ❤️❤️

Oh parsnips so so so sorry to hear the news. Can't imagine what you must be going through. Sending you lots of hugs and ❤ and . Hope your DH is home soon xxx