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All aboard the May Train!

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Bubblegum89 · 04/04/2017 09:52

So yet again, af has got me. Brown spotting this morning after a cycle where I was actually genuinely convinced I'd done it this time. Oh well.

Only on month 5 of actively trying. I'm ttc no2. I'm awaiting a referral for a hospital appointment to investigate scarring in my uterus so every month that goes by without a pregnancy, the more I can't deny that there's obviously something wrong (I've conceived twice, both just after a missed pill so 5 months is long in comparison!)

Just thought I'd say hi and hope THIS might be our month and we have a chance at a baby in 2018 instead :)

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sallywiththegoodhurr · 05/05/2017 08:29

Sorry to hear about the BFN's!

I'm not testing again today, probably will in the morning. AF is due either Sunday/Monday/Tuesday and I'm 12dpo today. Ovia says today is my test day Confused

mrsb87 · 05/05/2017 08:30

No pics I'm afraid, it was a quick test and go go go this morning. I guess I'm not out til af is here but it's pretty certain by now isn't it?

sallywiththegoodhurr · 05/05/2017 08:34

Not necessarily Mrsb, you aren't out until the witch shows!

TriJo · 05/05/2017 08:34

Another BFN today at 13-14dpo - can be fairly sure I'm out and can get royally shitfaced in Ireland later this month safely. Wine

Viletta · 05/05/2017 08:54

I have properly checked my calendar and this was cycle 5, meanwhile we had unprotected activity for over a year now. Will make an appointment with my gp. I'm sure I had chemical this month which for me is a good sign, at least something is going on and my body finally started figuring out what I want from it. DH is convinced if there is an issue, it's with him. Obz. Having a plan for the future makes me feel good. Meanwhile holidays in just one day! Wine

Viletta · 05/05/2017 08:58

Sorry to hear about BFNs:( let's not get down.. new cycle new hope! Let's bring the energy on! Meanwhile I think we all deserve a little treat for staying strong! CakeBrewEaster SmileFlowersBikeWine

Waitingonasmile · 05/05/2017 09:01

Sorry viletta previous line looked so promising Flowers

Viletta · 05/05/2017 14:34

@Waitingonasmile it did! I am not giving up hope until I see AF though Smile

BlueeSpottyTiger · 05/05/2017 16:14

Sorry for bfn ladies ❤ Flowers
Your not out till your out! Xx

MrsHandles · 05/05/2017 16:15

I have 6 days until I can test. I went for a cervical screening last night, the nurse is the mother of a girl I taught last year Confused and she refused to do it in case I am pregnant. I've never been so hopeful in my life! She said she hopes she doesn't see me soon, in a good way

BlueeSpottyTiger · 05/05/2017 16:18

I did a ic today at 8dpo... and got the worlds most fainest line within the time frame. Its so faint i can only see it in natural daylight... but its not grey and its the same width of the control. I cannot capture it in a pic.
IC's aren't the most reliable though are they and its still super early for testing so im not trusting it!
I'm saving my frers but on their site on the 'when can i test calculator' it does say i can test with them from tomorrow...hmmm 🤔

ImBreakingBad · 05/05/2017 16:26

Ah Blue I'm excited for you Grin. When I had the chemical 2 months ago that's exactly how mine started out. Fingers crossed! X

sallywiththegoodhurr · 05/05/2017 16:37

Ahhh (congrats) Blue!
Fingers and toes crossed for you

BlueeSpottyTiger · 05/05/2017 16:53

Thanks ❤
I've sent an inverted pic of it to my friend and she can see it too 🖒 im glad she can see my super squinter so i know im not nuts 😂 i cant decide wether to use a frer tomorrow or not because they are so expensive i dont wanna waste it if its not gna show anything. Are frers 6.5mui(or something like that) or 12? because I've read mixed things.
Sorry about your CP breaking Sad xx

Youuttercono · 05/05/2017 17:06

Hi all. Not been around much in first 2 weeks. I'm CD16. I took these yesterday and today (strong one yesterday). But dh had a disagreement so didn't DTD after positive (but we did that morning!). It's probably not enough not with his shit sperm Argh. Prob too late tonight huh?

Youuttercono · 05/05/2017 17:07

I meant I took Ov tests.

Timpani · 05/05/2017 17:10

Have the same dilemma. A positive Ov and no DTD since the night before the positive. I also only starting testing yesterday so don't even know if that was peak. I'm not great at this TTC lark even though it's my 2nd time trying (DC2 was a happy accident).

MrsHandles · 05/05/2017 17:11

Ooh Blue fingers crossed!

Viletta · 05/05/2017 17:15

@BlueeSpottyTiger I'd wait for 48 before retesting.. hcg should double up by then and you won't waste a valuable frer

ImBreakingBad · 05/05/2017 17:57

Everyone!!!!! Just used an IC and have the faintest of faints too... it's pink! Came up within time but I can barely see it. Don't know if I'm being silly x

sallywiththegoodhurr · 05/05/2017 18:10

Congratulations @ImBreakingBad!

ImBreakingBad · 05/05/2017 18:13

Don't say congrats yet!! I think it's faulty/evap/dye run. Wait until I've a blazing BFP. Hopefully this month!!!

sallywiththegoodhurr · 05/05/2017 18:15

My lips are sealed 🤐

I know what you mean though, I'm waiting to test again. I'm sure the tests I had were just bad tests, so annoying

ImBreakingBad · 05/05/2017 18:25

Tell me what you think.....

All aboard the May Train!
ImBreakingBad · 05/05/2017 18:27

Tell me what you think.....

All aboard the May Train!