What do we want????? A BFP!!!!!!!! When Do We Want It???? JANUARY!!!!!!

[Ready]

Ladies!! I have had a little break and am raring to go this cycle. This is cycle number 4 for us, and I am currently on CD8, so just coming up to the "fertile phase" and plan on plenty of sex not BDing!!

I looked for a January thread, but couldn't find one?? I don't think I am the only one hoping for my BFP in Jan am I ???

Fingers crossed for everyone!!

x

hi Greedy,

Are you using ov kits? Sorry to hear you're not doing well!!!

((((greedy)))) know what it's like when dh is away, but try to keep positive, bding before ov is better than after babydust to you

AF is here. Only first month but feel poopy poo all the same. Over to Feb........

Greedy how long have you been ttc? x

Greedy, it sounds as if you have made a good effort despite the timing, so fingers crossed dh's swimmers will do the hard work whilst he is away - there is still hope!

I hope ready is ok and just busier than the rest of us to come on here so often, like you say greedy - lol!

ammy - sorry to hear about af, when is your wedding again?
babylove - i tried using ov kits one month and started on day 12, and then by the time i ov'd it had cost me a small fortune (day 25)! i normally ov around day 25-27 cos my cycle is so long, but i really could have done with it being the same this month as dh is away now.
ammy - we have been ttc since last april. didnt have a period till july though, mind you that seems ages ago now. its starting to piss me off now! kind of taking over my life, i am sure you all know how i feel.
christmassy one - cant rem your new name sorry....how is your new house....of course...nomoremagnolia! its just come back to me!
get used to my name girls! i will be on here a lot while my dh is away and there is no bed action for me!!!

mrsbee...who are you? have you changed your name? you seem strangely familiar!

yep i have changed my name as no one knows we are TTC atm. my regular name, to which I will return on the event of a BFP(!), sounds a bit like himama but with a hello at the beginning instead of the hi. Sorry that is a bit criptic but my mum and other friends also use mumsnet and I don't want them guessing!

mrs b - not that cryptic really! i guess you are hoping they dont search on your name, yes?
not sure why you seemed familiar then, but you just did!
do you already have some dc?

lol greedy! yes, just dont want them to do a name search on me, just in case! I already have a 2.5 year old DS so this will be baby no2 for us (fingers crossed, I hope!)

have you just started trying this time? did it take long before?
my first 2 were concieved easily....this time, not so easy! dont know why and its so frustrating. the main difference is that i seem a lot more stressed about it all this time and i am sure that is what is stopping me concieving, but you can't tell yourself to relax can you!? ARRRGGGHHH!!!

hi greedy, new house is good, still not unpacked all the boxes, but getting there. Have just beed out today and bought a table and chairs in the sales. mrs bee - unless they suspect you're ttc will they really be looking for you on here anyway? can you search for posts across all forums by a user name?

yes you can search on names magnolia! you can stalk whoever you want on here!

crikey, that's scary. better watch what i say!

This is our first month TTC again. DS was conceived easily (1st month) so I am hoping it will be same this time around. However you just never know do you? Sorry to hear you're having probs. I know what you're saying about it being hard to relax about it. It is all I think about 24/7 atm.

I don't think my mum etc would namesearch me, but sometimes i do look at what she has posted as I am interested in what she has to say (she posts mainly in the education section). I don't think this is a bad thing to do, but I would be if she found out we were TTC from the internet! However I don't want to tell her just yet either...

mrsbeee...i feel bad cos we have told everyone we know that we are ttc EXCEPT for my mum who i am really close to! not sure why, but it just seems like a weird thing to tell her and i am sure she would try to talk me out of it cos she thinks my life is tough already with my 2 kids. ds (3.5) dd(2). i think if i am honest i know she will try to talk me out of it, cos everyone else tells us we are mad, but i know if she says anything i will listen to her ( and i dont want to!)
did any of that make sense? isnt it weird how sometimes you only realise stuff when you are typing it down. i didn't know why i hadn't told her....but i think writing this made me realise!

Hi everyone, missed you all happy new year!

I am back from my holiday in Scotland so have missed 2 weeks worth of posts. I will try and get back to look at them but hugs for everyone.

Last month appeared to be OV on CD20/CD21 and AF CD30 so trying to work out what to do about a possible short luteal phase other than taking B6.

Hello everybody,
Hi greedy, sorry you are feeling down- I really feel for you- I would go bonkers if my cycle was so long- it must be very frustrating. Have you always had long cycles?
I'm having a bit of a weird month too. I had a bit of CM very early on, about day 7- but very little of what i would describe as EWCM around the time when i should be OV. Have had some OV cramping though (I think).
We are BDing every day this month (DP more enthusiastically than me!) so a lot of CM i think is probably sperm stuff . If I dont get BFP after this effort i will be seriously miffed.

Everybody knows we are TTC- including my mum. I thought she wouldnt think it was a good idea- but she did- and is very excited!

Any news from Ready- her AF was due at the weekend... Hope it's good news.

I haven't told my mum either, stupid as it may sound I feel embarresed if my mum knows we are having sex! I may tell her today though as I know she would love another grandchild.

all of my family know we are ttc because of previous m/c and i constantly get bombarded with "are u pg yet?"
i think my mum is actually marking my epriods on a calender because she conveniently asks me if im og when af is due lol

still playing the waiting game at the mo - however i think af is showing up as im getting dark cm when i wipe

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I really don't want the pressure of being asked are you pregnant yet. I had that after my first pregnancy ended in miscarriage and at that time I really wanted to try again but dp didn't so I felt really sad when people asked.

I think my Mum is probably the only person that doesn't know we are ttc!
I am dreading the day I am going to tell her I am pg as she thinks I have my hands full enough with the 2 I have!!