Victoria, glad you're feeling better. UTIs are horrid.
Catlady, I have never seen as much creamy discharge in a 2ww as I did this month. TMI but my black knickers looked as though I had been storing chalk in my vadge 
I also experienced proper nausea and bloating. I am, however, royally un-pregnant. Go figure.
Nomio, it is right that you should start temping. I don't want to encourage obsessive behaviour but those of you with short cycles or unexplained spotting a whole week before AF (and no pregnancy) would do well to find out for sure if you're ovulating. Days and days of spotting before AF is not normal and indicates the lining of the womb is shedding prematurely. This means an embryo would also be shed before it had time to implant. I am not trying to alarm anyone, but please get persistent spotting checked out as it's easily remedied with vaginal progesterone suppositories.
Spinning, I love sperm sample results! Love 'em. My husband started off with 16 million (less than 20 million is considered on the low side). Six months of being force-fed zinc, co-enzyme Q10 and brazil nuts (high in essential selenium) and his sperm count on the day of IVF was 59 million. His morphology (a predictor of success in fertilising eggs) had increased from 3% to 21%. Supplements are everything in this game...especially for men.
P.s..it is my honest opinion that smoking does not make a man less fertile. Neither does booze (unless they are ruining their health with it). This is just my opinion.