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Jan bus take 3!!!!!

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Mumwannabe82 · 16/01/2015 12:04

It's that time again ladies to jump on the next thread because we do like to chat alot! Grin Grin Grin Grin

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gennibugs · 20/01/2015 10:35

Congratulations to all the bfps! Wow this is a lucky bus isn't it!! Wishing you all a very happy and healthy 9 months. Thanks

Bfn for me this morning so I guess I'm just having a very strange cycle. I think all the supplements the fertility clinic recommended must have delayed things as I can't think of any other reason for having such a long cycle. Hope AF hurries up and comes today now!

victoria401 · 20/01/2015 10:37

Sorry for bfn genni x

spinningirl10 · 20/01/2015 10:38

Genni, I'd been looking out for your update. Really sorry it's a bfn, that sucks!! Hope af arrives quickly for you and you can move on to the next part of your journey......the one where you get your bfp Thanks

Mumwannabe82 · 20/01/2015 10:42

aww thanks babs, I didn't mean to make you all green Blush

Emma I'm 11dpo today and it looks like the preggo test could have come up yesterday xx

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gennibugs · 20/01/2015 10:44

Thanks spinning and victoria Yes it's a bummer, but I kind of knew it so not too down to be honest. February will be our last cycle before we start ivf as i only got some test results back today from the GP (they lost them originally) so we can't start this month now. That's ok, gives us one more month to try naturally though and you never know!!

victoria I'm glad you are feeling a bit more positive. I can imagine it just feels like one thing after another and you wonder how much more you can take. It sounds like iui is still an option which is good, and that there is hope for naturally conception. Thanks

Mumwannabe82 · 20/01/2015 10:44

Victoria, so glad you have found some positivity, really rooting for a bfp for you xxxx

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Luckynumber3 · 20/01/2015 10:45

I cannot keep up with this thread so only read today's post and omg congratulations to all the bfps that is amazing Grinso happy for u all

Ok so "IF" I ov cd14 I am dpo13 tom so thinking about poas tom. I don't think I can wait till Friday now. I just know how upsetting a bfn are but want to know one way or another I have no tests in so will need to buy one today. Did I hear people say super drug ones r the best? What make is a FRER?

Arrgg. Don't know what to do!!!

59sound · 20/01/2015 11:01

AF got me this morning Sad. Time to join the February bus!

PurdeyBirdie · 20/01/2015 11:14

Ugh. 59 that is a monstrous tease...a 15-day luteal phase? Who needs that! Thanks

Mumwannabe82 · 20/01/2015 11:17

Sorry 59 Thanks Thanks Thanks

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emma85x · 20/01/2015 11:24

Sorry 59 Flowers

Another top tip from my acupuncture guru = drinking lots of hot drinks to keep 'that area' warm which encourages blood flow for a good lining and implantation. Not too much caffeine though! Lemon & ginger, chamomile, green tea, etc..... Tesco = Twinings fruit and herbal teas are 2 for £2 at the moment!

Loved the hot water bottle on the train!!! :-)

Blimeygirl · 20/01/2015 11:26

So not good news Hmm no pregnancy seen can't rule out ectopic yet or early pregnancy yet Hmm so bloody fed up and angry now. Just keep waiting and watch out for signs.

PurdeyBirdie · 20/01/2015 11:27

Emma what does your ACU recommend for th'Eskimos TTC?

PurdeyBirdie · 20/01/2015 11:30

blimey, eh??? Of course your baby don't be seen..it's only a bunch of cells yet! Did you tell the idiots you're only just preggo? Angry

PurdeyBirdie · 20/01/2015 11:31

*won't

PurdeyBirdie · 20/01/2015 11:32

...in fact, why didn't they do a flipping blood test??

Mumwannabe82 · 20/01/2015 11:48

That's crap blimey!!!! Thanks Thanks Thanks to be honest I would cling onto the fact that you have a line on preggo test and book yourself in for a normal docs appointment, ask them for a normal blood test then see what happens from there xxx

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gennibugs · 20/01/2015 11:48

blimey I agree with purdey how would they see anything so early on? Surely a blood test would make more sense? Blush. Hope you are ok.

PurdeyBirdie · 20/01/2015 11:53

Assholes.

Nomio230 · 20/01/2015 11:53

Wow, not even lunchtime yet & 3 bfp's! Massive congratulations to you all. Grin

59, sorry to hear the witch arrived, but fx for next month.

Nomio230 · 20/01/2015 11:59

Blimey, as others have said, I would stay hopeful. Are the clinic following up with any other tests/scans? If not, I think the best thing to do is go to your normal Dr & ask for a blood test.

Sending good thoughts your way. X

Blimeygirl · 20/01/2015 12:10

Well I completely missed December period so would be a bit further on than that so they should have been able to see something. I didn't ask for a blood test as all the hpt ones had been negative. The positive that I'm clinging onto is that yes I missed a period in December but then maybe I conceived in January without realising and given that AF is due Thursday that might explain the positive hpt tests (May have done two and both faintly positive!)

But have had cramping and spotting on and off for a week now. Nothing even closely resembling a period so didn't question it Hmm I don't fucking know anymore. Thought I would know either which way by now but no. Still fucking limbo land!

( sorry for the swearing but I'm really quite cross and upset )

PurdeyBirdie · 20/01/2015 12:25

Blimey, I do not understand those utterly ineffective hospital hpt's. Please go to your GP and demand a blood test. And cry. Loudly.

MelonMelon · 20/01/2015 12:37

Sorry you've had a crap morning blimey.

When I went for a scan in November (to see why AF hadn't showed up post MC) the stupid sonographer went all quiet and then said "have you felt ill recently?" WTF! It scared the life out of me so much so that when the GP rang with the results I was half expecting a death sentence. Was all normal in the end. What's wrong with these people?

Today I am mostly frantically googling implantation bleeding but I feel deep down that it's AF. Surely? Unless anyone has any positive stories they can cheer me up with.

Nomio230 · 20/01/2015 12:44

Blimey, it is completely understandable that you would be feeling like shit. Feel free to vent any time you need to.

I know it probably doesn't help, but pain & spotting can both be positive signs of a pregnancy. Hang in there. X