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laurano81 · 19/05/2014 13:29

I have one child who is 11, and who longs for a sibling. I am 32 years old & I have been trying to conceive since December 2013. I am ovulating thankfully, but seem to ovulate on CD18. My issue is that at 9dpo I start spotting and 10 dpo AF starts. I am on TTC#7 now, and I find the 2WW very difficult every month. I try to be positive and hope for the best, but on the other hand I try not get my hopes up too much, as it is so upsetting when AF arrives. I have had CD3 and 7 dpo tests done to check hormone levels...all of these have come back normal...My temps are really good too, so I just can't understand what is going on with my body. I also have been going to accupunture for the last 3 months. I am on CD1 today so hopefully this is the month I will conceive. Fingers crossed.Would anyone like to join me as I begin Cycle 7 TTC? x

CD1-36.9oC (TTC#7)(LP 10 days)

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laurano81 · 24/06/2014 00:36

Hi 1moretime ...I still have AF, although as of right this moment, it is nearly gone! Well it is after midnight! (Can't sleep), so I am officially on CD8 now! I am still waiting for my OPK's to arrive in the post! I hope to get them by Thursday, as I want to start checking from CD11,...Fx I ovulate on CD15/16 this month! I hope all is well with you! Also Welcome to the July bus! You will enjoy it there! Lots of support & encouragement! x

Ela88 I hope you are ok! x

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1moretime · 24/06/2014 14:59

Hey Laura hope all this ttc isnt keeping you up all night Wink
Onwards & upwards hun.

I am very confused at the min, AF arrived for me at 15/16dpo...cant remember now will have to check chart again. I am on the veriry forum with ladies who too have pcos & they have been watching my posts & watching my chart. They have noticed that my temps are still above my cover line? Confused
At 18dpo although i was bleeding my temps had dropped but still above cl then dropped to the coverline then back up a bit more today. They are suggesting i do another test.
Surely if i was pregnant i wouldnt have had a normal period...well it didnt last as long but still was light/medium flow.

Anyone any ideas??
Why would my temps still be above coverline at cd6 into new cycle.
As its my first cycle charting i dont know if this is normal for my temps at this stage just after af? Xx

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1moretime · 24/06/2014 15:01

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Verity not veriry. Haha.

Going by my last cycle i would be 22dpo. Ov late at cd28. X

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laurano81 · 25/06/2014 10:02

Hi 1moretime Well I thought a 3 day AF was a little on the short side, but saying that medical literature cites that on average menstruation lasts for between 3-5 days. But it even says that anything between 2-7 days is considered normal...last month my temps only came down CD5 & then this month my CD 3 was 36.47, so back down.,...looking back at older charts I don't seem to go below coverline until CD 3...I know Kitty on the July bus was saying her temps stayed right up..perhaps you could ask her as well...do you think it is anything to do with your PCOS? Sure there is no harm in doing another pregnancy test. Honestly you will have to chart for a few months to start seeing a pattern emerging that is unique to you xx

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laurano81 · 25/06/2014 10:30

laurano81 32, 36.34°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, Cd 8 Tuesday
laurano81 32, 36.42°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, Cd 9 Wednesday

My Af lasted for 7 days this month, but it was not as heavy as previous months. I was on painkillers for my back, so I didn't experience AF pain, perhaps that is why my flow was lighter this month too. I read before that painkillers can affect your flow...Hmm the human body is complicated! x

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ELA88 · 25/06/2014 17:46

Hey ladies, sorry for a lack of communication, had a bit of a rubbish time with work recently and been a bit down about all the pregnancy announcements, especially when I saw my husbands ex pop up (we have a few mutual friends on Facebook and one of them shared her lovely scab photo) I've lost the plot a little bit!!
My temps have been relatively low since AF finished, around 36.1 ish.

How have you ladies been? Anything new with you?! Xxx

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1moretime · 25/06/2014 18:27

Hey Ella.

Awww sorry to hear about your dh ex! Bet you could scream hun. Its weird at the min i have 5 people around me all expecting, i am really happy for them..but why cant it be me?

My temps are still above coverline hun & im on cd6/7?? Cant remember now! Had AF light/med flow lasted 3 days xx

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1moretime · 25/06/2014 18:29

Thanks Laura. Yeh i do think it was af hun...weird though as my last 2 periods have been alot lighter & shorter than what i used to get.
I guess after i have temped a few more cycles i will beable to understand it all a bit better. Xx

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ELA88 · 25/06/2014 18:29

It was just one announcement too many and I just lost the plot! Another popped up tonight and am now considering deleting Facebook and becoming a recluse for the next however many months! Am so fed up! Work being rubbish doesn't help because I can't even escape there it's just more stress! Argh! !!

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1moretime · 25/06/2014 18:57

Awww bless you...its hard isnt it?
This forum has helped me stay off fb haha. Im now a mumsnet addict instead!

Im confused hun as i done a hpt yesterday as someone pointed out that my temps are still above my coverline & i have had af...they normally fall before, during or after but they havent gone below cl yet.
Bfn but when i went to put it in the bin (i left it on window sill) there was a very very faint line...evap line i dont know!
Af stopped on Sunday and today i have had cramps & creamy ewcm...i really dont know what my body is playing at!

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laurano81 · 26/06/2014 23:26

Hi Ladies Smile

Ela I know how you feel! Honest! I know I am only TTC 8 months, but I have wanted a baby for years! My Dh & I are together more than 6 yrs,...all his friends meet & got pregnant really fast! For example we were together 3 years, when his friend rang him & said that him & his OH were expecting! They were together 6 months! No exaggeration! I felt so cross, cos I really wanted a baby, but my DH wasn't ready! Even before we were married, his ex had gotten married & had 2 babies! I was like slow Joe or what! Now we are married almost 9 months & still have no BFP! Well that is not from the lack of trying or not wanting a baby! We are both ready & stations go! So I too feel it is so unfair! Everyone is pregnant! Why not me! But I give myself a good kick up the butt & say you have to get on with it! We simply have no choice! xx Fx for you my lovely! I hope you feel better soon! & I really hope & pray you get your BFP this month! xx

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laurano81 · 26/06/2014 23:31

laurano81 32, 36.68°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, Cd 10 Thursday Creamy CM

Hi 1moretime I hope you saw my post for you on the July bus! Fx your bleed was implantation bleeding! If I were you I would POAS again with FMU with a FRER, as I couldn't cope being in limbo land! What were your temps today? Also what are your stats?

Ela & 1moretime What do you think about us writing down our stats every day, so that we can keep track & see a pattern! x Say like the way I have written mine above!

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ELA88 · 27/06/2014 21:31

ELA88 26, 36.14c, TTC#1, Bike 18, cd11, Thursday creamy CM

I'm feeling a bit better today thanks laurano, the in ritual irritation has subsided thankfully! Did notice yesterday someone I went to school with was also announcing her pregnancy after only being with her bf about 4 months so that also annoyed me but I'm over it! I just think our child when they're ever conceived are going to be the most wanted and special gift. It's just hard to remember that sometimes when babies / pregnancy is EVERYWHERE!!
Hope you're both well and fx for your BFP 1moretime xxx

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laurano81 · 28/06/2014 12:24

laurano81 32, 36.57°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, CD11 Friday Creamy stretchy CM

laurano81 32, 36.48°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, CD12 Saturday Less creamy more stretchy CM

Hi Ela
I'm glad you are feeling better x Honestly I wouldn't blame you for being down in the dumps! You are well entitled to feel that way. You are better off acknowleding that & dealing with it, so you can lt it go! Your child will bring so much joy into your life that it will heal all the pain you endured TTC. x (((Hugs))) x

1More How are you doing? x

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laurano81 · 29/06/2014 12:27

laurano81 32, 36.51°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, CD 13 Sunday Watery CM

Hi Ladies I have been feeling wrecked since my acupuncture session..I think I am coming close to ovulation, as I am getting cramps in my ovaries! I really hope I get my OPK's tomorrow! I sent an email asking where they were on Friday. I was assured I would get them by Monday! Well I just will have to wait & see. Otherwise I probably will miss the LH surge! Hmm! Enough whining...how are the both of you doing? We managed to DTD CD 8, 10, 12 & 13 so far! My DH has been up for work at 4/5 am some mornings, so I have had to change my game plan, as he is usually snoring by 8pm. I'm hoping to continue DTD right to several days after I ovulate. Well that's the plan anyway! Smile x

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laurano81 · 29/06/2014 19:56

Hi Ladies I think ovulation is defo on it's way! I have been feeling very smoochy & romantic today! Smile DH is working! But I have been listening to the 1980's smoochy love songs on & off whilst giving the house a scrub! x It's that or I have a love bug! hehe Grin

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laurano81 · 30/06/2014 09:06

laurano81 32, 36.37°C, TTC#2, Bike 8, Cd 14 Monday

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laurano81 · 30/06/2014 21:30

Hi ladiesâ?¦I got a faint line on an opk today, fx it will be + tomorrow or the day after Smile I'm getting cramps in both ovariesâ?¦I was hoping I would ovulate left ovary, as I previously had a cyst on my right ovaryâ?¦ fx this will be our month Smile

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laurano81 · 30/06/2014 21:33

sorry posting from my phone Blush

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1moretime · 30/06/2014 22:44

Hello lovelies :-)
Im not too bad thank you. I had the faint faint line on the Monday the day after af, but then a BFN on Tues & Wed last week. I guess it was an evap line or mc??
I am on cd12 today & when me & dh got intimate earlier Blush he got alot of stringy dc which had a blob of blood tinge to it??
Never ever had this...pleased about the stringy cm but what the hell is the blood blob?
I have had a few cramps today...nothing major.

Awww laura really hope you get the +opk soon hun. You and dh have been busy ;-)
Keep it up & fx for bfp this cycle x

Ella how many ladies are pregnant atm!!!
We have 4 in our department now where i work...my brothers little baby is due 2 weeks today...im so excited but know it is going to make me worse!!

How do i put my stats up ladies??

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laurano81 · 30/06/2014 23:05

Hey 1More Smile ,
Sorry you got a BFN Sad
Was the blob of blood red or brown? I had some pinkish cm before around ovulation, but I was on herbs that the acupuncturist gave me. Also I had a mild cervical eversion, so I often bleed after DTD, before I went to a gynae in Hungary & I'm fine since x

you can write your stats like this:
name, age, temp, ttc#, cycle, CD, CM

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laurano81 · 30/06/2014 23:08

Do you think you are going to ovulate soon? I have had cramps on & off today, coupled with watery CM , so ovulation is on it's way Smile Fx

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ELA88 · 01/07/2014 08:22

ELA88, 26, 36.33, ttc#1, Bike 18, CD15, CM creamy.

Hey ladies! My temps have been rubbish this month :-( they're a teeny bit higher today but considering I'm on cd15 thought I might be ovulating soon! Did have tiny cramps on one side last night but then had diarhrea and vomiting this morning so more likely down to having a bug it seems!

Sorry to hear about the BFN 1moretime I sometimes get browny or reddish blood after dtd, stringy sounds positive though, I've not had any of that so far this month!

Xxx

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laurano81 · 01/07/2014 17:05

laurano81 32, 36.01°C, TTC#2, Bike 8, CD15, CM watery/stretchy
ELA88 , 26, 36.33°C, ttc#1, Bike 18, CD15, CM creamy.
1moretime, 29, ?°C, TTC#2, Bike ?, CD 13, CM ?

Hi ladies! I did an opk again today, and it was the same as yesterday. I ovulated CD17 last month, but I was hoping to ovulate a bit earlier this month! Fx I am getting cramps again today, left & right! Fx I ovulate a lovely little egg, that will be a sticky bean Smile x We have managed to DTD CD 14 & 15, as well! If I get a BFN this month! I simply will wonder what the heck is wrong with me! Hmm Fx it won't come to that! My DH has agreed to get a sperm analysis done this month, if I get a BFN. Better to know all is ok in that regard!

Ela I hope you feel better soon! Nothing worse! My DH & DS had that last month! Make sure you drink plenty of fluids, but sip them so that you don't puke it back up x

1More I hope you are ok x

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