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Temping buddies 2014

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laurano81 · 19/05/2014 13:29

I have one child who is 11, and who longs for a sibling. I am 32 years old & I have been trying to conceive since December 2013. I am ovulating thankfully, but seem to ovulate on CD18. My issue is that at 9dpo I start spotting and 10 dpo AF starts. I am on TTC#7 now, and I find the 2WW very difficult every month. I try to be positive and hope for the best, but on the other hand I try not get my hopes up too much, as it is so upsetting when AF arrives. I have had CD3 and 7 dpo tests done to check hormone levels...all of these have come back normal...My temps are really good too, so I just can't understand what is going on with my body. I also have been going to accupunture for the last 3 months. I am on CD1 today so hopefully this is the month I will conceive. Fingers crossed.Would anyone like to join me as I begin Cycle 7 TTC? x

CD1-36.9oC (TTC#7)(LP 10 days)

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ELA88 · 17/06/2014 07:18

Well that was an epic fail! Bike 18 * xxx

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laurano81 · 17/06/2014 08:25

ELA On my way to work…oh I am sorry AF arrived! SadIt's so damn unfair! Your temps were really gd! I'm gutted for you! Take care of yourself & then get back to TTC! Look at the positives from this cycle! Hang in there! You will get a shiny BFP! (Hugs)

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ELA88 · 17/06/2014 17:35

Was outside all day today and have got really bad sunburn on my neck and pretty sure I've got sunstroke too, feel so poo! Hormonal and tired added to it! Not a good Tuesday! Going to have comfort food tonight to try to cheer me up! Xxx

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laurano81 · 17/06/2014 17:42

I had a morning from Hell ! I was driving to work & a car hit me! I got some wallop! My car is destroyed on the left side by the tyre...I am still in shock! A big Nissan Navara cut onto the road I was driving on, on the wrong side & hit me! I went to the doc to get checked...sore, in shock, low blood pressure & a racing heart...I got a bad bowel pain in there whilst I was waiting & low & behold AF as well! The impact hurted, and really yanked on my tummy! I am very much out of it still ! I am actually quiet sore now.

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1moretime · 17/06/2014 17:43

Awww Ela sorry the bitch got you!!
Best of luck for next cycle...did your temp drop this morning then to signal af?
Im really nervous....14dpo today.
Just tested & BFN!
Xx

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laurano81 · 17/06/2014 17:43

My temps actually went up .1 today! I was like Yay! I am lucky I wasn't pregnant with what happened to me...Sad

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1moretime · 17/06/2014 17:44

Awww no laurano81 hope you are ok hun.
Bless you!! Sorry af has started. Xx

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laurano81 · 17/06/2014 17:59

Ela drink plenty of fluids, camomile lotion to soothe the burn & painkillers! Oh god love you! Looks like we both had a bad day

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1moretime · 17/06/2014 18:12

Just tested before and BFN!
Temps still up. X

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1moretime · 17/06/2014 18:14
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laurano81 · 17/06/2014 18:45

Looks good 1moretime! Are you sure about your DPO! Also some people report getting a BFP later , after getting a BFN..! Fx Did you use a FRER!

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ELA88 · 17/06/2014 19:06

OMG laurano are you ok? That's awful. I had quite a bad crash a couple of years ago where a car just drove out of a side road and I hit them, you'll find bruises all over in random places, have you been checked at the hospital? Did they admit liability at the scene? Xxx

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laurano81 · 17/06/2014 19:13

I was driving down the road on the left...he came down the road on the right, then cut the turn & slammed into me...can you see the blue sign? He went right in front of that, and slammed into me on the wrong side of the road! My pelvis & lower back are sore & my right upper arm too! He wouldn't admit liability, although he was on the wrong side of the road! Angry! It's in the hands of the insurance company now..Fx cos I can't drive my car, until the insurance fella looks at it!

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laurano81 · 17/06/2014 19:15

I went to my GP, he said to go back tomorrow, as I probably was in too much shock to feel anything! FFS! That's all I needed!

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ELA88 · 17/06/2014 19:34

Omg so he was clearly to blame! That's similar to what happened to me and he denied being to blame too and the police even couldn't believe where I was saying he had turned from, he had his baby in the back of the car too, the side of the car that I hit. I'm just glad I had begun to slow down because of another car far ahead that was driving strangely, otherwise I would've hit him at about 50mph :-(
Were you on your own? Hope you're feeling ok tomorrow, you'll be sore for a few days xxx

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laurano81 · 17/06/2014 21:12

OMG! Ela there are so many crazy drivers on the road...I had dropped my son off to school & I was on my merry way! And BANG! I wasn't going fast either! Thankfully! Well the two of us are back to CD1! At least we are back there together xx Here is the link for the July bus! I find them great! At least I don't feel I am alone in all this TTC business! xx
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2101870-July-Bus-to-BFP-land-with-onward-flights-to-Thailand-at-TTC-Airport?

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laurano81 · 17/06/2014 23:58

laurano81 32, 36.9°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, CD1

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1moretime · 18/06/2014 06:06

Just going by ff laura est ov at cd28 im cd43 today...15dpo still BFN....feel really crampy this morning too :(
My cycles average at 45 days in length so will wait the next few days out & see xx

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1moretime · 18/06/2014 21:02

15dpo bfn again this morning! X

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1moretime · 19/06/2014 18:00

Well hows everyone doing?
Af arrived for me today! :-(
But at least i know where i am & my cycle has improved 43 days ....last month was 56!
X

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ELA88 · 19/06/2014 18:35

Hey 1moretime sorry to hear about AF :-(
I've had a rubbish couple of days at work, hormonal, tired and stressed! Really did believe this month was going to be the one, even though I try so hard not to get my hopes up! Silly me! Hurry up summer holidays!
Have your temps dropped? Mine was 36.22 so dropped right down! Xxx

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laurano81 · 20/06/2014 19:02

laurano81 32, 36.62°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, CD 2 Wednesday
laurano81 32, 36.47°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, CD 3 Thursday
laurano81 32, 36.41°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, Cd 4 Thursday

Oh 1moretime I am so sorry the AF arrived! Horrible hag! I am delighted that your cycle has improved! We have to look for the positives in life! That is defo really good! Yay!

Ela I have felt rubbish myself! My back has been so sore & yer man that hit me, said it was 50/50! I was so Angry! Anyway the insurance can sort it out! I am sick of it now! x

I have felt that way so many times, I try not to get my hope up, but you just can't help it! It is being called human! We are all the same! You are not silly! Give yourself a big hug! We will get through this! & look back while we cradle our little baby & smile! We won't mind changing shitty nappies, crying babies & having no sleep! We will treasure every moment, for we have waited so long for it! We will be SUPER Mummys! xx Not to mention yummy mummys Wink ! Never give up!

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1moretime · 21/06/2014 20:24

Hey Ela & laurano1
How are you both?
Yes my temps dropped...they were still above cover linewhen af arrived but have dropped below now.

Lets hope this month is our month for bfp!!!!

Hey laura you are right...no matter how much we try not to symptom spot & convince all our symptoms are preg related, the more we do!!!
We will get there ladies xx

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laurano81 · 23/06/2014 08:35

laurano81 32, 36.41°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, Cd 4 Friday Friday typo stats wrong

laurano81 32, 36.38°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, Cd 5 Saturday
laurano81 32, 36.37°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, Cd 6 Sunday
laurano81 32, 36.46°c, TTC#2, Bike 8, Cd 7 Monday

Hi 1moretime my temps have dropped too! I am on Cd7 now! Af is lighter, so hopefully by tomorrow it will be gone! Then it's on to DTD & ovulation! Do you use OPK's? I know FertilityFriend is good, but it only estimated ovulate by temps etc...but I find that by using an OPK it lets you know when you get a LH surge before ovulation, so you can DTD! Grin! Also you more or less know with temps, opk's & cm monitoring when you have ovulated! That way you really know what DPO you are, which helps with POAS! Well that is what I have found so far anyway! Why don't you join the July bus, with the rest of us TTC! It is great & you will receive lots of support from all the lovely ladies there! Here is the link if your are interested! x
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2101870-July-Bus-to-BFP-land-with-onward-flights-to-Thailand-at-TTC-Airport?

Ela How are you? I hope you are ok! We are all in this together! I know how much it sucks! I sometimes feel scared that it will never happen! It is fecking horrible at times, and I do my best to remain positive! But at the same time, I think will are all allow feel sorry for ourselves! The important thing is to never give up! Smile xx

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1moretime · 23/06/2014 11:07

Hey laura AF has stopped now...only 3 days & not as heavy.
Iv been sent home from work being sick. Felt sickly yday too. If AF hadnt arrived i would have been excited. Lol.

I am on cd5 ...i think. Lol.
Ohh yes i will come over & join you :-) thank you xx

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