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TTC #2 and turning into a nut job! Part 2!

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BartBaby · 19/06/2013 08:00

Still ttc. Still nutty. Come join us Smile

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dildoos · 09/07/2013 07:24

So sorry fed up! Sad
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AbiBub · 09/07/2013 09:29

Hey all

Stone did you manage to dtd last night? I hope so, especially with the pos opk. :0) like you im 31cd (thought I was 28but the last few months have been 31!!) According to various ov calendars I am poss ov today which is a planned day for dtd anyhow! ! I had twingy pains yesterday and tummy was a bit tender so if I have ov before today it doesnt matter as dtd on sat night anyhow Grin .

Muzzy glad you are going with the positive thought processes it really can help quite a bit.

I think we can allget a bit down here and there, but the support we get and give can help more than we realise plus we are all pretty switched on too so we end up bouncing back to getting on with things.

Fedup sorry to hear af witch has visited, lets hope she goes on vacation soon! I have found on the months when I have made a concerted effort of dtd every other day I would tire myself out and obv to no evail as still not up duffed so now we only dtd every 3days and I feel far more relaxed about at least the dtd bit (which means we enjoy it more) Grin so I can concentrate on being nutty in other ways

Dildoos dont quote me on it but im sure the min amount of days for lp is 10days, obv the longer the phase the better but it sounds like ov is occuring perhaps your phases will lengthen in time?! If your cycles are 28 daysthen iit's normally approx the half way mark when ov occurs, uou may even ov earlier in the cycle and nit realise! ! Im a cycle of 31 days and my ov apparently today (cd18) so nothing set in stone I guess!!

How are we all today? Any nice plans? : 0 ) x

muzzy1 · 09/07/2013 10:00

Oh no! Sorry to hear that fedup I was really hoping this was your month :( I hope the sun and dd can lighten your mood.

dildoos there are ways to try and lengthen your lp if you're worried.

Hi to everyone else.

donnab1983 · 09/07/2013 11:54

Hi Everyone,
Does anyone else get a metalicy taste in their mouth when ov'ing? Im pretty sure I am ov'ing between saturday and yesterday and have this metalicy taste since yesterday! Now on the tww, fingers crossed!

onelittlepiglet · 09/07/2013 12:52

Sorry AF got you fedup...I know how annoying it is when you make an effort. I feel that I will be the same this month - tried really hard but I have a feeling that it hasn't happened this month.

Finally got my crosshairs for day 15 so I'm 3 dpo now. We didn't manage to DTD on day 15 but did do the two days before so that's something. I'm now due AF a week Saturday. Luckily have lots to keel me busy in the next two weeks but I'm sure it won't stop me from being nutty!

StoneBaby · 09/07/2013 16:26

fedup oh no! Sad for you

abi yes we did. And DH told me we may dtd again tonight so fx...

fedupofrainydays · 09/07/2013 18:01

Utterly depressed today. Need something to focus on - what shall I try next month? Does anyone have any joy with temping?

Want to hurry af along so I can get on with trying. Bleurgh.

Stay positive piglet - sounds like you have it a good shot.

Keep shagging those of you in fertile zone! X

fedupofrainydays · 09/07/2013 18:05

Abi - think every 3 days would be a challenge for me, I would be stressing I wasn't doing it enough but realise trying to do it as much as we have is exhausting. Maybe somewhere in between!

dildoos · 09/07/2013 20:12

Evening ladies,

Good luck everyone in 2ww!

I am disappointed as we Dtd on day 8 and 10 then on day 12 too tired and day 13 was with sil in hospital all night which I know was far far far more important but then tired day 14 but Dtd yesterday day 16? Stone?
However didn't get a positive opk on any of the ones I took daily from day 10 but stone was ovulating yesterday and this month we are synced so went with that but I fear I may have missed my time Sad
Going to Dtd tonight as with smep said 3 days in run from ovulation then miss a day and try 1 last time! Just feeling poo as not stuck to it how I would have liked!

Fed up- I did temp a few months back and fell but I keep forgetting since to start on day 1 then feel no point , if I am out of luck this month going to set a reminder in phone to temp on next cycle!
Do you take pregnCare conception? I have them sent from amazon monthly as cheaper that way I pay £5.60 a box instead of £10+ apparently something in them makes your cervical mucus friendlier to sperm also I heard this month vitamin b complex helps prevent mc? Anyone else heard of this or am I taking those for nothing?

X

StoneBaby · 09/07/2013 21:29

dildoos I guess cd16 should be good especially if we're in sync. Did it yesterday and fx tonight too. I have decided not to symdroms spot during this 2ww slap me if I start doing so please

dildoos · 09/07/2013 21:42

Stone - me too I will not symptom spot either instead I will be focusing on getting back into gym Smile
Not feeling positive abouty efforts xx

fedupofrainydays · 10/07/2013 07:43

Good luck with that you nutty symptom spotters!!! Seriously would be impressed if you managed it though!

dildoos · 10/07/2013 17:41

I are with my left hand, and my boobs were tender when I stab them with a scalpel at work, I recon I am in with a chance lol x

StoneBaby · 10/07/2013 20:32

fedup we aren't nutter for nothing Grin

StoneBaby · 10/07/2013 20:53

Only got one dtd this month Sad so now entering the 2ww with not much hope!

dildoos ouch. How are you?0

dildoos · 10/07/2013 21:38

Stone with you on the little hope although it was twice week before last once on your smiley so here's to hoping!
So feeling fed up and annoyed that I put everything and everyone before my own needs again Angry I never learn to Say no and people always need want you over ovulation ! ( not including sil as that was a necessary !)
Today nursed all day with 5 preg patients coming in Hmm
How are you ?

Fed up how are you feeling today?

Abi,muzzy, one etc how are you ladies? X

onelittlepiglet · 10/07/2013 22:58

Hello everyone. Sorry to those feeling a bit down, although I'm afraid to say I'm with you. Only 4dpo so still a loooong time to wait (or it seems that way!). Don't fancy our chances for some reason. Had coffee with some friends today including two ladies who are pg and both their first children are the same age as my dd. Made me a bit sad to hear how excited their little ones are about their new brothers or sisters. But I am not jealous of them exactly, just felt a bit sad. Wish we had started trying sooner asI feel this may take a while...

Must chin up and pull myself together! It's the long game I guess.

dildoos · 11/07/2013 11:40

One- sorry your feeling sad! I think it makes us more desperate for our child's sake too! Oh the pressures Sad ThanksThanks

muzzy1 · 11/07/2013 22:37

Hi ladies
Hope all the symptom spotters are doing ok?
Good luck to you all!
fedup did you decide to go the nct meet up?

I'm feeling really :( 2 pg announcements on facebook today! I'm happy for them but...well I don't have to explain to you ladies how it feels! Oh and I smoked! Dammit!

fedupofrainydays · 12/07/2013 00:28

Well... So I'm on the train home after multiple cocktails and a few cigarettes (I don't even smoke!!). Let see how rough i feel tomorrow!

So I've decided not to go. Wrote an email on the train this morning, bawling my eyes out. Women opposite thought ii was crazy, which I guess I am. Fortunately they seem to understand... Well most of them. One who In thought 'got' me the most really doesn't seem to get it and keeps thinking 'maybe you will enjoy it more than you think?' Alright for her given she is due a week after I was . Bit upset she doesn't get it :(

Today I've decided I'm doing one more month, then it will be six months post mc. And if no bfp going to get some help. Need to feel I'm doing something.

Just looked up at the man opposite me. Spitting image of Harry Enfield with burger juice dribbled down his chin, asleep with his mouth open. He's got style.

dildoos · 12/07/2013 09:32

Muzzy Confused why oh why are there do many preg people around ?
Fed up- lol to the guy on train ! That was a treat and a half Grin
As for smoking sometimes a little of what you need is required when ttc!!! X

fedupofrainydays · 12/07/2013 13:48

Not feeling too hot today that's for sure. In need of a power nap this afternoon!

Got a feeling one of my best friends is up duffed now... Just waiting for the announcement....

Ds has been so cute today though, playing lots of funny games with me. So glad I only work part time!

muzzy1 · 12/07/2013 21:07

I know dildoos they are everywhere!
Good you were out for a few cocktails fedup, hope you weren't feeling too rough today.

muzzy1 · 12/07/2013 21:17

Feel exactly the same about my best friend fedup, sure she is avoiding me lately and I know she is trying!

dildoos · 12/07/2013 21:20

Good evening ladies! Whoop whoop high five its Friday Grin does funny dance
Happy times school report says DD is kind Grin if there is one thing I hope for her in life is that she is kind!
So she has private English lessons as she struggles in school with this but hey can't be kind and perfectWink
How's your days gone?
Well I do believe stone we are 4 dpo? No not symptom spotting and also don't have much hope , however today I had my 21 day progesterone test, rubella immunity test and a clap screening all in aid for help with getting what we all want! Apparently will get part 1 and 2 fertility treatment and mc investigations on nhs which means only have to pay for icsi or Ivf If gets to that moment!
Dp has his sperm count in 12 days however we know its lower than should be as he has had it done twice already but the needed a more up to date result , I find it a little comfort that he should have a test like this to compensate for all mine I would really care what they were screening for Grin
Happy weekend to you all x

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