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We will try anything! The big fat posifrickintivity thread of TTC after MC

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GuffSmuggler · 14/06/2013 15:51

A new thread for all you lovely, crazy ladies. Here's to lots of BFPs!

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Emki · 21/06/2013 21:40

I'm not IN the wine though does sound fun! X

Rockchick1984 · 21/06/2013 21:52

Over I'm so sorry you've had such a tough time of it! Just proves that your own instincts can know best - you knew something wasn't right from the start and thankfully it was caught before it went any further Thanks

I think I may have a BFP - tested again this morning and slightly less faint second line. Left it out during the day and checked again this evening and is now a fairly strong line - nervous, excited, terrified, unconvinced all at the same time!!

GuffSmuggler · 21/06/2013 22:09

Sounds like you're upduffed rock congrats! Grin Grin Grin

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BirdsDoIt · 21/06/2013 22:20

over I'm so sorry to hear your news. I'm really sad for you. What a horrible experience. As others have said I hope you have a lot of very loving people looking after you and are barricaded in with dairy milk, hot chocolate, box sets and all your favourite films for whenever you need them! Sending you much love and a huge hug.

Haven't been on for a few days but thanks very much for the acupuncture/reflexology tips - I'm in south London so muswell/Notting hill a bit tricky so I think I'll have to venture beyond this thread for some googling! Good idea to look for
traditional places to save some money.

So according to fertility friend / bbt I ovulated 7 days ago but I think it may have been just a few days ago. Hmm. Well, we'll just see when AF turns up. Was wondering if my achey cervix (which just came up on predictive text as 'shy xerox', amusing) was a weirdly early pg symptom but then realised it's prob because of all the DTD! Though I am having some curious twinges - but not letting myself think anything of it. Attempting to view this first cycle of bbt'ing as a trial run before we get into ttc ing properly...

Have just had two very delicious cocktails in town and on my way back home a bit pissed with DH so the weekend has started well Smile

fedup love the dancing in the kitchen and sal the bosom hoiking!

BirdsDoIt · 21/06/2013 22:22

Woooooh rockchick exciting!!! Congrats! Are you going to poas again in a couple of days to see if it's darker? (Stupid question, yes of course you are, but will you wait till Sunday or do it tmrw?) xx

Emki · 21/06/2013 22:33

Great rockchick we needed that - very exciting x take each day as it comes x

birds I also know someone in dulwich who is very good -
Sounds like you had a good night - here's too a lovely weekend for us - I do like Saturday mornings - no rushing!! Though must go for a run and sort myself out!!!! Xx

Emki · 21/06/2013 22:35

I mean 'to' a lovely weekend - mning on phone and always make so many mistakes!!! Xx

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 21/06/2013 22:41

WOOOHOOO! Grin GO ROCKCHICK!

OveranxiousUnderated · 21/06/2013 22:42

Congrats Rockchick x Sending you lots of good luck Thanks

It's so lovely to read all of your kind words, it helps to vent.

x

Squigglypig · 21/06/2013 23:03

Rockchick congratulations! That is such great news!

birdsdoit I can vouch for dulwich therapy rooms too. On Lordship Lane - I tried it for 3 cycles and might go back next month (am off on holiday at beginning of July so no point starting this month for me). Plan your first visit for just before ovulation date and be prepared for a lot of intimate questions about your flow.

Night night!

alyant79 · 21/06/2013 23:11

rock that's fab news!

Jealous of all the great sounding fri nights. I've been home alone with dd sleeping upstairs. I cut out some fabric to make myself a dress (an attempt to Sod's law myself into getting knocked up) and watched some tv. Patrick swayze in ghost - nice. Party time in chez aly.

alyant79 · 21/06/2013 23:12

mrsE I really really hope that af (or a bfp!!) arrives for you soon

BirdsDoIt · 21/06/2013 23:38

aly I am ashamed to say I've never watched ghost! It's on my list. (Impressed by your crafting skills too...) Was helping a friend clear out clutter from her flat this week and going through piles of DVDs - dirty dancing, pretty woman, Thelma and Louise, when Harry met Sally...needless to say, none of them got thrown out. Just about managed to stop ourselves from watching them all right there and then.

mrse I really hope your BFP or AF arrives soon too. Fingers crossed for you and sal!

squiggly thanks so much for the recommendation - that's great, will check them out. Funnily enough I'm literally just up the road in forest hill! emki was it the dulwich therapy rooms you were thinking of too? Or someone else?

Happy weekend everyone! X

dildoos · 22/06/2013 06:45

Fed up- I quite like my new name Grin that makes me loveable and also top trumps most men!
Saggy- hoist away I mean how silly
Fantastic news rock!!! Congratulations!!!
When talking blue evap lines does that mean they are never there and you are up diffed ( in early days) ? Or do you mean they come as blue line and evap? I am confused.
How was your night over ? How you feeling today? Hope the chic was yummy yummy!
Hello everyone else hope you are all doing well xx

alicebear · 22/06/2013 07:52

Still lurking so just wanted to say big congratulations rock fab news. Really hope this one is sticky.

Gd luck sal after those efforts you really deserve a bfp. Glad the wedding went well.

So so sorry over that sounds truly awful.

mrse hurry up AF or even better bfp.

Really sorry AF got you aly hope this is your month.

Hope to see lots more bfps soon. I'll probably lurk for a while. I've bkd an early scan but don't think I'll feel very confident until after 12wks (if I get there).

Thundercatsarego · 22/06/2013 08:39

Morning all,

Fab news rockchick!

Oo all those old girly films- wonderful. I used to love ghost but that one on the train- how scary is he?!

emkiI and birds* good work with the wine and cocktails but going for a run- equally impressed.

aly what kind of dress are you making? Am very tempted to give it a go myself..

Penguinita · 22/06/2013 10:01

overanxious, I'm so sorry to hear that you have been through such a traumatic experience. I welled up a bit reading your post. When I was told I had a suspected ectopic I did all the reading up about it and it was very scary. You are so brave. Keep looking after yourself Flowers

There is an ectopic pregnancy support thread on here somewhere if you haven't found it already.

I cannot believe that a doctor can see a pregnant woman with those symptoms and not immediately recognise the danger and send her for an emergency scan. They should be struck off, it is a disgrace!

Penguinita · 22/06/2013 10:04

Congratulations rockchick! I don't think there is such a thing as a false positive on those sticks so allow yourself a little celebration!

Emki · 22/06/2013 11:33

I love those films - and St. Elmo's fire, breakfast club, and what's the one with all the brat pack? Matt Dillon included who was my teenage crush!

Re acupuncture - the woman I know works from home - she may also be a member if the therapy rooms - she is extremely lovely - she also does massage - let me know if you want her details xx

Emki · 22/06/2013 11:39

The outsiders it was!!! Just googled! How sad am I? Also aly I am in every night as dh away - last night watched the good wife and coronation street!! Rock and roll!

BirdsDoIt · 22/06/2013 12:35

Haven't watched St. Elmo's fire! Will have to track it down on DVD.

emki would love the details of the lady you know in dulwich - I have no idea how to pm you - are you more clued up than me?!

over hope you had a peaceful night and are doing ok xxx

BirdsDoIt · 22/06/2013 12:37

Or the outsiders! I need to work on my classic film collection - next rainy weekend that comes along I'm sorted...

Thundercatsarego · 22/06/2013 12:38

Are you Londoners all going to bump into each other at thus woman's house! Next time you go you'll all be eying up the other customers wondering if you actually know them from t'interweb...

Emki · 22/06/2013 15:09

birds I've sent you a message (maybe as never done it before) check your inbox on your mumsnet account x

Emki · 22/06/2013 15:11

thunder I thought this the other day when I was on the tube ... I thought, you never know one of these ladies might be my support group!