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johnandkymberley · 11/05/2013 19:10

Hi all, title says it really!!
I'm f*#%!?g gutted!! I really don't think I can deal with it, we have been trying for a month and I know it's stupid to feel like this but I can't help it! I feel like I'm a failure...AND I have no chocolate in the house!!!!
Sorry just needed to let off some upsetness!
Baby dust to all TTC xxxxxxx

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alicebear · 17/05/2013 19:03

This early on if you are pregnant you are more likely to get a BFP if you use FMU so probably worth waiting until tomorrow morning - or even Sunday.

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johnandkymberley · 17/05/2013 19:53

Friend of Dorothy I agree with what you say about iphone and iPads!

Ill see if I can test tomorrow, however will be VERY early in the morning. If not i will wait for AF and then test in a week if still not arrived??

What else can I do?! Xxx

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chipmonkey · 17/05/2013 22:52

FOD!Grin

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johnandkymberley · 18/05/2013 08:42

It's funny cuz I think ppl can take things the wrong way when writing in text....

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Northey · 18/05/2013 10:21

LOL. did u test again 2day?

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Coffee1Sugar · 18/05/2013 17:07

Well?!

Fwiw, I got pregnant whilst on the pill. I never even missed a single pill and got upduffed so I'm sure getting pregnant first month of actually trying is certainly possible. I hope so anyway, I'm on month 1 of ttc no2!

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FriendofDorothy · 18/05/2013 21:32

Well?

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johnandkymberley · 19/05/2013 16:43

Wow at coffee!!

Sorry had a really busy weekend, got invites coming out my a**e!!!

Yep I did do it, still a BFN!!

BUT

no sign, moods, pains indicating AF is on her way??!!

Scratching my head on what to do!?! Xx

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BumpAndGrind · 19/05/2013 16:58

Ah just relax.. I tested like a mad woman the first couple of months.

I took us 8 months in the end.

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alicebear · 19/05/2013 19:05

Wait a few days & if still no AF test again. Whilst there's no AF there's still hope.

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johnandkymberley · 19/05/2013 19:48

I feel I am more relaxed about it, I think I'm gunna wait another week and then see what happens. Going to check my CM tonight...nice! I'm gunna get through this last week of half term teaching and then have a whole week relaxing and shopping!!! Xxx

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johnandkymberley · 20/05/2013 20:33

When should I test again? Is a week too long to wait? Xxx

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1Catherine1 · 20/05/2013 20:48

Think of it like this - if you don't know for another week what harm will it really do? It's not as if you will no longer be pregnant because you didn't test in time! You seem to be driving yourself crazy at the moment - give yourself until Saturday and then test, I think if you say a week you will cave on Saturday as work will be done for this half term and you'll have nothing else to obsess about.

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1Catherine1 · 20/05/2013 20:50

Oh and if you can test and post the result before 7am that would be appreciated Grin Then I can reply before going away.

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johnandkymberley · 20/05/2013 22:07

Thanks Catherine :) I will try, just for you!! But I will probably be up anyway as I'd want to get it done!!

Thank god it's half term!! I know some people who don't teach think we have too many holidays, but they are well deserved!!

Xxx

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Beccadugs · 20/05/2013 23:01

I totally agree Johnandkimberly! I am a teacher too and work 10hr days and most of Saturday, and I no longer work in a school!!

In other news I think AF might be on her way early... Feeling very crampy this evening!

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johnandkymberley · 20/05/2013 23:39

Oh noo! Hopefully you might just have some cramps but no blood?! I think mine has either got lost in my body or I'm pregnant! Hopefully the latter tho lol xxxx

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Beccadugs · 21/05/2013 09:26

I hope it is the latter Johnandkimberly! False AF alarm last night, things seemed to have settled down somewhat today! (Only four days til half term!!)

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FriendofDorothy · 21/05/2013 09:56

Not sure how long you have been off the contraception but it may just be your bodies hormones settling down.

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Beccadugs · 21/05/2013 11:22

I have been off contraception for two years!

It was a false AF alarm, but think it might have be a digestive issue Blush

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johnandkymberley · 21/05/2013 13:14

Beccadugs is this your first baby??

I'm really curious as what is going on in my body!! Also I had sticky CM, not as thick as egg white though.

Bought some cheapie HPT online so going to use them to test then use a digi one xxx

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FriendofDorothy · 21/05/2013 13:42

I meant how long has johnandkymberley been off contraception.

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Beccadugs · 21/05/2013 23:45

Yes Johnandkimberly it will be! How about you?

The cm does take some wrapping your head around doesn't it! This really really gross set of photos can help with the cm spotting!

www.babycenter.com/101_what-cervical-mucus-looks-like-through-your-cycle_10351429.bc

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johnandkymberley · 22/05/2013 16:53

Hiya beccadugs yep it will be :D we've signed up to a few pregnancy and baby websites and got 2 MAAM bottles through the post today :s

Thanks for the link, had a look and nothing looks like mine, found some white discharge?? God things are confusing!!

P.s one day till half term for me as I'm on PPA for the whole (yes whole!!) of tmoz!!! Xxx

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johnandkymberley · 23/05/2013 18:27

Okay. I did a test today! Couldn't help myself! And still BFN, what is going on??? Fair enough if I'm not pregnant but then where is my AF??!

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