Thanks Sairwa. I've been avoiding mumsnet since sfp arrived! I've had a busy weekend which hasn't given me time to think about it or be sad. That arrived today :-( We've been trying for what feels like forever but is only (!) 7 months. I've come to the conclusion that when it doesn't happen, I need to just let myself be sad (and disappointed, and jealous and angry) for however long it takes, then dust myself off and start again!
I'm 99.9% sure I was pregnant very briefly earlier this year; 5 days late, bfp, bleeding, bfp, more bleeding, bfn. So I'm holding onto that, at least it means it's possible for us.
Am more determined than ever to do it right this time and I'm getting conflicting advice about when and how often to do it. So I'd be grateful if anyone could give me their personal opinions. When and how often should we dtd? There's so much info out there online but what better than asking actual people?!
I know that silicon lube is bad but also read that spit is too. Is that true?!! We've got some special baby lube but OH isn't too keen on it.
Does lying flat on your back afterwards, doing headstands etc actually make a difference? If so, how long should you do it for? Thanks.
Good luck to everyone else out there who's ttc and massive congrats to those of you've who've been successful. Can't wait to get there so I can finally start knitting again! I've always knitted stuff for friends' kids in the past but haven't been able to face it in my state of obsessional broodiness!