TTC after recent mc - thread 3. Handholding, naff jokes and the infamous Laura Ashley skirt.

[JamesAndTheGiantBanana]

Happy new thread! Here's hoping for lots of Christmas and new year bfp's, and long healthy pregnancies for everyone.

Wow Anda that's fab news! Congratulations!

Well, feel ashamed. Seems it was a chemical pregnancy. Period arrived full force this morning. Preg test negative. What a fool I have been. Good lucj to everyone. I'm through x

Oh pinkfizz I'm sorry. But why do you feel ashamed? You've done nothing wrong. Shitty luck is all it is. Can completely understand the "straw that breaks the camels back" feeling about another knife in the guts, but I hope we'll see you back at some point. Unmumsnetty ((HUGS)).

PinkFizz - please don't feel ashamed! You've not done anything wrong in posting on here. Mother nature just been super Bitchy to you this month.

Hope you are taking some "me time" with and chocolate a plenty. But also do come back to us if/when you feel like it

Oh pink. Im so sorry. I remember that feeling. Hope you have people there to Hug you x

Hey fizz you haven't been a fool, you've just got hope and without it where would we all be? Virtual hugs coming your way.

Bollocks littlepink, that just sucks. We are here if you need us x

Oh littlepink that's so sad I hope you're bein looked after in RL

lpf that is just shit. Never feel bad about hoping for the best please stay with us if it helps to talk xxxx

oh fizz i'm so sorry. sending lots of love your way xxx

Anyone had a sneaky poas today? Or do you all have willpower?

Pink...have you?!

Fizz so sorry to hear you're out. It really is a load of emotional sh!t!!!!

I'm 10 dpo today and I'm not feeling positive as having lots of cramps indicating AF is on the way! It really is all v depressing.

fx for everyone else testing soon!

Fizz so sorry to hear you're out. It really is a load of emotional sh!t!!!!

I'm 10 dpo today and I'm not feeling positive as having lots of cramps indicating AF is on the way! It really is all v depressing.

fx for everyone else testing soon!

Hi yorkie! What dpo does af normally come for you? Am sending positive vibes your way...

Haven't today no. After yet another bfn yesterday I have given up this month and just waiting for af now. Pah.

AF showed. AAAAAARGH. And it hit me really badly this month emotionally. Had to have a weep on DH this morning.

Bollocks. Sorry to everybody else having a shit time too.

ibip, ic or FRER?

I am the acronym idiot queen

Oh pants pants pants coffee, that is crap.

Sorry to hear that Pink when's your AF due?

Hi thunder how are you doing? Thx for the positive vibes. Think my typical cycle was 29 days but my last one after mc was 31 days so who knows! My AF was 8 days long this cycle (usually 5) so could be a longer cycle this time as well.

Sorry to see your post Coffee what a load of crap crap crap!!!

Yeah I'm alright thanks yorkie, I start my new job soon so I'm feeling positive about that, and the positivity has no link whatsoever with getting a bfp (in fact for the job it would be better if I didn't), so it feels like a nice extra balance to my life. For now anyway!

So you've probably got another 4+ days til af? Do you usually cramp like this? I don't reckon you're out yet by any stretch. Nor ibip. And for coffee, I prescribe a little retail therapy treat or some , pâté, soft cheese or just good old chocolate.

Oh boo Sally. And many more words that I shouldn't say. It sucks. :(

Thunder still on the ic's. Not wasting £5s. Have actually done quite well with my money this month for once so may treat myself to something ridiculously expensive when af shows up on Saturday.

Yorkie- a longer cycle sounds possible? Maybe?

RAR RAR RAR. Thanks. I have gone through (a) woeful (DH to me this morning: "Are you... sure you should be going to work like this?") (b) angry and now on to (c) RIGHT THEN let's have another go (with a side of angry). Already. In a morning. Now with extra Bvits as I need a longer damn lp, 9 days is clearly not cutting it.

I am going to console myself with the shiny new(ish) car we bought yesterday. And having my hair done at the weekend. And although maybe not for a few hours...

yorkie and ibip you're not out till you're out. Fingers crossed and positive vibes.

thunder yay for the new job! It's great you've got good stuff going on in Other Areas - I think if I couldn't be positive about SOMETHING at the moment I would be hiding under the bed and refusing to come out.

Ahh glad to hear you're feeling a bit more positive thunder. New job sounds like a very good distraction - maybe if you're thinking about it less a BFP will just sneak up on you! When do you start?

Yep I normally get cramps on and off from when I ovulate until a few days after my AF. Normally I get sore boobs in the run up to my AF but not this time so think maybe my body is still getting back into the swing of things post mc. I'm off on our delayed honeymoon on Monday so if AF arrives I'm just going to go crazy on the booze when I'm away!!!