Hello all, I have been lurking reading this thread but not posted till now - just dying to share my news with someone: I got a BFP yesterday!! Had an early MC (at 6 weeks) in January, and this was my second cycle of trying post-MC so am extremely excited but also shitting myself very worried about it going wrong again :(
Just wanted to offer some reassurance to those of you who are testing before AF is due and getting a BFN: i tested on Thursday last week, 2 days before AF was due, with a superdrug early response test, and got a BFN. Got really upset, thought it was over for the month, so went and had a nice steak lunch on saturday and a glass of wine. Only noticed when I was going to bed on Saturday that AF hadn't arrived yet, and she's never late.
So did another superdrug test on Sunday morning (ie. when AF was 1 day late) and got a BFP!! Did a CB digital this morning (monday) to make sure, and it said: pregnant: 1-2 weeks.
So I would say don't write off the month if you get a BFN before AF is due - wait until the day after she was due and test again - you might get an amazing result like me!
Please all send hopeful thoughts my way that this one will stick - I know it's very early days and am already checking my knickers for blood every hour like a frenzied madwoman :(