Anyone hoping for a really positive feb 2006?

[wannaBe1974]

ok, as the january thread reached 1800 posts exactly, well it did at last count, I think it's time we started the February thread. Now February has lots going for it, valentines, extra reasons for BD, it only has 28 days, the average length of a menstral cycle, .. so me thinks feb will be a very positive month for all of us!

Happy BD to all! (((hugs))) xxx

my dh's office is in swindon.

Quick hello, good luck bding

cool who does your DH work for?

Target Parcles, hes in the IT department and heads up a team of 5 computer geeks.

cool - IT is everywhere isn't it? My DH is in IT as well but he works in London.

Hi guys
I had my test done at the doctors and not pg. Bit upset as really thought I was!!!
So now on to hoping for a positive in feb!!!
Bit depressed as came off depo in oct and people say could take a year to get back to normal!!
Still going to have fun this month trying!! Why do people who are pregnant or have been say things like " just enjoy trying!" I dont wanna try!!!

Hi Gemma sorry to hear that you're not PG, here's hoping you'll get that BFP in Feb

I think generally that people saying we should enjoy trying do it with the best of intentions, because for so many it happens first month and so they don't know how it feels to have to wait for months before it happens. Having said that, I do think that it's important to have fun trying as I think that the whole TTC experience can become all-consuming and sex can become a chore rather than an act of love which will produce the baby we so desperately want.

hi wannabe
sorry to hear your news gemma, good luck to you for more bd-ing this month.....
im still a bit confused, i was just looking in the archives about implantation bleeds. i really dont know what to think. this may be tmi, but i have a kind of "murky" vaginal discharge...looks like a bit bloody ...
i know what you all mean about being way tooo obsessed, but how not to be? wish i could just hibernate and wake up pregnant in the spring

Wow it's really quiet on here today, hope I haven't taken over the thread .

Thanx
I am going to "keep trying" in the most fun and exciting way. Still my hubby is glad we have stepped sex up to every 2 - 3 days!!! Just wish I knew when I was ovulating. No period so dont know!!!

ah but PCM if you hybernated and woke up pregnant there would be no enjoyment in the trying. It's possible that it could be implantation then - when did you ovulate do you know?

Gemma have you not had a period since October?

Had a bleed on december 28th for three days. I did ovulation tests after 14days and they didnt show ovulation. Started feeling nauseous and very moody and emotional. Monday had aurine test by doctor and came back negative so have home test kits although I havent done on since monday. Doctor says its my hormones getting back to normal. No bleed or period yet though!!???

wannaBe1974 , i bet dh is so pround of you,

summersun so sorry about af maybe feb will be your turn

Trophywife thanks for giving us some babydust, and a happy healthy pg

peachygirl no not yet, unless my posti dont wana post here as drive ways up

nowanearlyNicemum i love that place, been a few years ago

gemmaseascout sorry, its a bfn, maybe feb too, i came of depo 18 months ago, its evil

pussycatmomma calm down, relax remember no stress

remind me never to go on depo - sounds just horrible. I know how frustrating it is not to have periods - I had a overactie thyroid 9 years ago and my periods stopped out of nowhere! It was frustrating then and kids were furthest from my mind back then, can't imagine how much more frustrating it must be if TTC.

gp thinks that why am not ovulating, because of depo

i know, i know.......just cant help wondering thats all tra

i now hun, i really hope you are, i feel really close to you, like i know you, just dont want you to get hurt, been there so many times

thanks sweetie, feel like i know you too
thing is , for anyone trying, we are putting ourselves at risk of being hurt over and over again, each time we bd, or wait for af, or have an unusual twinge, or extra sore boobs....whatever - we risk being hurt, because we want it so much. I was saying to my friend the other day, trying to explain it to her...
I said it was like when you fall in love with someone and you are in v. early stages of relationship and getting to know someone, and you have to start letting the barriers down, to let the good stuff into your life. You also let down barriers so bad stuff can get in too, and you risk being hurt by the new person, but because you want to be with them so much, and you want your life to be different , you do it, you risk your feelings in the hope that things turn out ok
Obviously this only applies if you have been in love and hurt by one of the many bastardos out there!!!! which i have come to think of it! before dh obviously, he is a little love , my proper soulmate
does anyone get what i mean or am i completly waffling?

going in bath now, and have a lovely soak, so will catch up tomorrow, happy bding girls

no me too i understand, been married befor, and 2an hubby is my soulmate too

glad im not just sending myself potty!
enjoy your bath trace, thats where im heading off to now aswell.
ill be on in morning, night all x x x x x x
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Thanks to all for your welcomes, yes wannabe1974 we are trying for our 1st and I am 35 so obviously mildly anxious that we should have started this crusade earlier, catch you all soon

Evening, hope everybody is Ok.
I'm no expert but I think today was OV day and I'm not seeing dh until Saturday... is that bad news? (yes I am missing him but not just because i should bd!!)
Think cycle is totally messed up as today is about day 18. What is going on? Since dd and bf things are just not right

Oh and welcome to all the new 'members'. This thread is husge already and it's not even FEb yet!