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TTC after a miscarriage - Wishing everyone shed loads of love, luck and babydust xxxx

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Coathanger · 22/01/2006 17:57

Ahhhhh, thats better!

A nice, shiney new thread! All fast and efficient!

Heres hoping this thread brings more BFPs, keep everything crossed it does (except legs...don't be crossing your legs ladies!!)

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Coathanger · 18/02/2006 10:29

Hello everyone!

Missmibaby - CONGRATUALTIONS hun! good to hear somebody got a BFP and about time too!

HK - how are you hun? I haven't heard from you for ages. Have I done something to offend ?

Mygirl - the blood may have been as a result of BDing - it doesn't always have to be vigorous to damage sometimes. It might just be a "friction burn"

Well, I am of you lot with nice weather. It is overcast here and I will not be going anywhere unless it gets better. Plan on a lazy day drinking tea and reading!

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FirstNikki · 18/02/2006 10:34

I have to say though we have glorious sunshine...sorry ch x

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Coathanger · 18/02/2006 10:41

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr!

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oinker · 18/02/2006 22:08

Missmibaby........

CONGRATS

kreamkrackers · 20/02/2006 09:01

morning everyone. i hope everyone on here is doing alright. it seems like this thread is going to die out very very soon. where's g4p, pepperpots, rubles, muppet and everyone else gone that hasn't posted in a while?

HellKat · 20/02/2006 09:05

Morning all.
Kk- my thoughts exactly. This was an amazing thread, best around and now no one bothers with it. I really hope the girls that we have'nt heard from for a while are ok.

Girls if you're out there, just because we have'nt posted as much or because some of us have been posting on other threads does'nt mean we're not still here for you. This thread was about support & friendship. I'd hate to see both of those amazing qualities go.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}

mygirllolipop · 20/02/2006 09:27

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FirstNikki · 20/02/2006 09:30

good luck mygirl

pepper did you test?

HellKat · 20/02/2006 09:32

Wahooo Mygirl!! Good luck!

diddle · 20/02/2006 10:15

Good luck mygirl - sounds rather positive, excellent, lets have some more bfp's soon.

rubles · 20/02/2006 11:51

Mygirl - I'm so jealous of you with all that bding!!
I used one of my ov sticks on Saturday and Sunday. Like you I got a faint pos on Saturday but dp was going out that night, then got definite positive yesterday but dp was feeling 'tired' and 'poorly' so turned me down. Grrrr. I felt like it was my one window of opportunity and it's gone now. We had a bit of a barny which resulted in him sleeping downstairs. So, all in all totally counter-productive and upsetting. We have made up now, but I am really disappointed that we are going to have to wait another month now for the next available opportunity, just because he is a malingering hypochondriac.
Would it really have been so bad for him to have just had a go? The last time we did the deed was Friday, but I think it is really unlikely the sperm is still there today.

pepperpots · 20/02/2006 15:35

hi ladies
well i did test and bfn but still no af had a bit of a dodgy tum this morning and was expecting to see af but nothing yet. Have no symptoms apart from pmt No sore (.)(.) just pmt which i seem to suffer a few days b4 af these days still unsure what cd im on as had weird bleeding at begining so im between cd 26-29 i will test again in the morning if still bfn i wont be testing until the weekend providing af doesnt show up.
Nikki how are things hun? has the bleeding stopped yet? xx
Mygirl you hussy you just kidding am very of you! xx
Hope everyone else is ok xx

kreamkrackers · 20/02/2006 15:47

rubles - don't give up hope, bd today still. did you bd a few days before ov? sperm can live in the body for up to 5 days in the right conditions so don't give up hope yet.

pepperpots - bfn doesn't mean bfn until nasty af shows up, so fingers crossed that you've tested too early and you get your bfp. also pmsl at the boobies! (.)(.) hee hee!

mygirl - hope you cracked it this month, sounds like you've given it your best so fingers crossed for you. very much in of you, dp doesn't want to risk anything so i feel very empty in that department at the moment. i know it'll last the whole of my pregnancy as it did when i was pg with dd he wouldn't even give in at the end so i had to just go on a big walk to get labour going!

FirstNikki · 20/02/2006 16:01

afternoon ladies,

pepper bleeding still just lightly though not lnog now until tomo morn for scan. don't give up on bfp hope af stays away

rubles bd today/tonight you still have a chance particularly if you bd on friday too. I thought I had and hadn't.

best of luck for the bfps ladies xx

mygirllolipop · 20/02/2006 16:46

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muppet3 · 20/02/2006 17:32

Hiya girls - I'm really sorry I've been a bit quiet on here. The combination of work going crazy and getting a bit down about TTC kept me away. I really felt pregnant last week - everything just like before - but I got a bfn. And now it's CD 34 and I'm wondering if I'm stuck in a never-ending cycle! V fed up with PMT that comes and goes, and an AF that never arrives.

Fed-upness is definitely hindering the BDing too. Bleurgh. Bloody hormones.

HellKat · 20/02/2006 17:39

Muppet- Sorry to hear hun. {{{{hugs}}}}
Pepper- There's still time hunny. Hang in there.

All this talk of bd sigh. Those were the days! I want my libido back . It's gone lol. Can barely manage to muster up enthusiasm for once a week or so.

kreamkrackers · 20/02/2006 18:10

muppet - try not to get down it will happen for you very soon, it might have already happened but it just isn't strong enough to show up on a test yet. stress isn't good, try to have a nice relaxing bath, a big mug of hot chocolate and put your feet up.

diddle · 21/02/2006 07:38

HK - know the feeling, libido whast that, lost mine month ago, poor DH is suffering.
Wish i fancied a bit of some to be honest.

Muppet - sometimes, getting down and stressed about TTC can slow eveyrthing down, and be more of a hinderence than anything, you need to relax and take each day as it comes, enjoy the ttc while you can stressing about it could be whats delaying AF. Perhaps mentally take a month or two off and let your body rest, that doesn't mean no BD, but just take it easy. i bet it makes all the difference.

HellKat · 21/02/2006 08:00

Diddle- Lol me too!
Poor poor dp. But knowing me, mine will kick in soon enough he won't know what's hit him

rubles · 21/02/2006 08:25

Pepperpots - any news on anything this morning??

kreamkrackers · 21/02/2006 08:57

morning everyone. hope you're all having a good day.

pepperpots · 21/02/2006 09:25

Nikki good luck for today am thinking of you xx
Rubles i forgot to collect my fmu as went to loo at 6 still half asleep i'm hoping if i hold it in till lunchtime then i can do it then
Hope everyone else has a good day and i will be back on later to report

HellKat · 21/02/2006 09:27

Good luck for then Pepper!!!

rubles · 21/02/2006 10:06

Pepperpots, lol!! You must have been fast asleep. When I have been due to test I am too excited to forget to do it - I have to go to bed early to make the morning come quicker. I can picture the scene, you must have been so annoyed .
Don't have anything to drink to try and get it concentrated by lunchtime.

I am resigned to the fact that I have not made it this month. I am fine with that though as it is better than having the 2 week wait with my expections up.