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TTC after a miscarriage - Wishing everyone shed loads of love, luck and babydust xxxx

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Coathanger · 22/01/2006 17:57

Ahhhhh, thats better!

A nice, shiney new thread! All fast and efficient!

Heres hoping this thread brings more BFPs, keep everything crossed it does (except legs...don't be crossing your legs ladies!!)

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OP posts:
oinker · 13/02/2006 10:29

No ferns this morning and temp. is all over the place. Am going to give up on temp. thing until I get a new reliable one.
Will carry on bd'g though. Am going to make the most of it whilst DH is off sick

MeLovesMeJen · 13/02/2006 13:02

Do you believe in angels?
I know i sure do.
The day i got my angel,
Is the day god sent me you.

I always feel your presence,
As im going through my day,
And during the hard times and struggles,
I can feel you as you pray.

Your always right there next to me,
Through everything i do,
And when i need my angel,
I'll be calling out to you.

All i have to do,
Is look deep inside my heart,
For you my angel are always there,
And never shall we part.

Do you believe in angels?
I know i sure do,
The day i got my angel,
Is the day god sent me you.

Happy valentines sweety love you always!!
(hellkat)

Original poster
Coathanger · 13/02/2006 13:10

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW HK's DP! You are such a darlin'!!!!!!! She is a lucky lady!

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kreamkrackers · 13/02/2006 13:13

that is so sweet. you're a very lucky lady hk.

FirstNikki · 13/02/2006 13:36

Muppet hope your head is better? you bfp will come

mygirl glad your mum is ok and you saw your dad

oinker glad you are carrying on with the bd'g

hk - and MeLovesMeJen aaahhhh bless you. HK your dp is fab and you are too and it's so lovely you have found your soulmate and you are showered in love.

How are we all today...any news from g4p she was near af time?

HellKat · 13/02/2006 14:45

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!

Just saw that!!! Bless him. He thought today was valentine's day! Must admit when I woke I did too.
After seeing that I nearly crumpled into tears lol bloomin' hormones! .
Yep he is a sweety and I'm very lucky.

G4p- Where are you hun? Are you ok?

P.s think dp may like this site a bit too much lol, think he'll have to be an honary member soon

kreamkrackers · 13/02/2006 15:01

i've come across 2 dads on here so far, i think one was called karl and the other was daddycool.

oinker · 13/02/2006 16:20

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww........HK how sweet. Your Dh is a rare specimen.
My DH has just read the poem and has asked me to say the following............
"He's giving the rest of us a bad name"
Personally, I beleive he is setting the right standards and other men should take notice!!!

I am off to see Phantom tom. I don't know who remembers the slyness of my DH........ He got the tickets B 4 xmas and gave them to me as part of my pressie!!! He thought he was being clever!!!

mygirllolipop · 13/02/2006 16:44

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oinker · 13/02/2006 16:51

Won't need the binoculars cos we have good seats but he had better sort me out with a big Hagen Darz

HellKat · 13/02/2006 16:53

Lol mmmm ice cream! Just polished off 3 lollies!

Piffle · 13/02/2006 19:22

HK that was really sweet from your DH
I'm hoping my dp (who is in Holland for a week on an annual convention business jolly) sends flowers, but... he did say today he had no internet connection so not hopeful, we do not generally do anything aside from cards. But thought seeing as I got the BFP he might have tried...
But he's so not excited, hes all don't get your hopes up, anything could happen...

going4potty · 13/02/2006 19:24

hi ladies no laptop so on pda hence slow typing. lots on my plate at mo , so will post when i can, good luck to you all.

kreamkrackers · 13/02/2006 19:27

i think he's just trying to protect you. it's hard not to get your hopes up and from now on it's going to be full of ups and downs until baby's in your arms. fingers crossed for you that this one's a sticker.

dp has got a lobster he's about to munch into and i'm scared! the poor lobster it's even got it's eyes still and it stinks. ewwwwwwwwwwww

HellKat · 14/02/2006 08:19

Morning all.
great to see you back G4p.
Lol Kk and the lobster!
Hope everyone's well.
Piffle, my dp was the same in beginning. It's their way of protecting their feelings. As soon as he heard the heartbeat though, he's been the proud daddy-to-be again

FirstNikki · 14/02/2006 09:01

hi G4P hope you are well...any news of af though??

KK - love lobster had some once on holiday dad treated us to a posh nosh up at fish restaurant I opted for lobster cos it was the cheapest thing on the menu....or so I thought when the bill came it was priced per 100 grams and it was a large one! ooops mine was the most expensive in the end felt so so guilty but everyone saw the funny side.

Piffle don't worry about dh not being excited like hk said he is just trying to protect his feelings. my dh was exactly the same but he is coming around and getting more excited. They are just scare like we are but show it in a different manner, deep down he will be excited. x

Hello to all .... so when are the next testers??

FirstNikki · 14/02/2006 09:01

For those who can...happy V Day BD'g xxxx

Charlee · 14/02/2006 10:26

Well my dream is over once again. I lost the baby already after coming home from having it confirmed i started beleeding really heavy and im in agony.
Its probably my silly fault for getting excited about it.
Oh well thats number 6 done, how many before i can seel medical help as to why i just cant hang onto them?
Im not sure what to do now it just doesnt get any easier.

Congrats to Piffle, and anyone else whos testing soon i hope you get your bfp.

Happy Valentines Day

kreamkrackers · 14/02/2006 10:27

i have some nice smelling candles on the go as i can still smell the lobster. it was so horrible, he got into the claw and pulled the meat out and it was still in the claw shape. also breaking it's back to get to the tails meat, i know it's already dead but it still really gets to me. i was a vegetarian for over 10 years and still find myself feeling guilty eating meat but that was just so horrible.

although i do have to thank dp as he dealt with dd's stinky nappy as i was sick as soon as i opened it with the smell, i think she had a bit too much lactulose last night as she hadn't poohed yesterday so i gave an extra 5 mls (as i'm trying to avoid giving as many glycerrine supposeteries). so i have a very stinky house today.

kreamkrackers · 14/02/2006 10:32

charlee i am so so very sorry. oh this is terrible news. it's not your fault, it could never be your fault. i know you said it is very heavy bleeding but are you getting checked out as sometimes there can be a miracle and i hope this happens to you. also have you been investigated yet as to why this keeps happening? there might be a simple reason for it (sorry to word it like that) and it might mean you have to take some medication for it to stop happening to you. please get checked out just in case. again i'm so sorry.

pepperpots · 14/02/2006 10:36

oh Charlee am so for you hun (((((((()))))))) hugs to you xx

FirstNikki · 14/02/2006 10:45

charlee so so sorry I believe after 3 mc you can get checked out so I would visit your drs again and start this process if this is a complete mc. Thinking of you xx

HellKat · 14/02/2006 10:54

Charlee- {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} hunny .
I'm so very sorry for you. I know what it's like to have had multiple mc's (not as many as you though). Here's hoping you can get referred to find out exactly what's going on. Are they all very early mc's? If so, they may have a problem bedding in so to speak. I reall hope you can get some answers soon hun. Take it easy, rest up and remember we're here for you.
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Piffle · 14/02/2006 11:13

Charlee big hugs honey, you have had a steessful few weeks, take care of yourself and hopefully you'll get some answers soon
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rubles · 14/02/2006 11:29

Charlee, sweetie, your message made me cry, I am gobsmacked. What an awful, crushing, disappointment for you, it's not fair and my heart goes out to you....I am so, so sorry this has happened to you again.
I, too, thought it was 3 miscarriages before you can get referred to a specialist, so when you feel ready you could go back to your GP and request this.
xxxx