Who is joining me on the hideous 2ww?

[LauraM20]

Hey All!
Im currently on CD 20 so around 8-10 days until the AF arrives or I can test :D Just thought there may be some others that are waiting and driving themselves crazy! Thought we could hopefully share our BFP within the next few weeks, and keep each other sane! :D

Amazing Beeblebear keep it up and inspire us!!! All this poas is not healthy for ones sanity!!

Put the sticks somewhere 'safe' ... you'll never find them again then - or not till you get the crimbo decs out or something anyway!!

Ill wait this week out and if nothing changes by next mon I'll go to the docs.

I keep thinking what if I don't get preg for months and months. I always had it in my head that I'll have my second at 22 so that gives me....til July at the latest to be born before April 2013

Does that mean it's your 21st in April? OOooooo you got anything exciting planned?

Oh no - sill me. You are already 21.

Lol yeah I'll be 22 this year, ds was 9 months last year on my 21st and still breastfed so couldn't really do anything spectacular. In fact I can't remember what I did

I have planned a ski trip for my birthday!

though I keep hopefully thinking that i'll have to call it off on account of being preggo

The big 30 and just trying for #1 :(

When's your birthday beeble? Fingers crossed for us being preg on our birthdays! (obv hope it happens alot sooner though)

On the 26 th!

Oh of course you already told us that, sorry! Well doubly fingers crossed then!

I've got extremely bad backache which I get when AF is due even though I've had it slightly for a month or so. Don't know if it's AF or just lugging ds around.

Wishing praying hoping for sure!

Ya lugging a lo around could definately do it.

Oooooooo...look at the moooooon!

My birthday on 24th and hoping to be up the duff - that'd be a great pressy - though hopefully without the serious nausea. :)

Was nauseus 24/7 for entire trimester with ds and no sympathy as no-one knew, 'cept dh of course! OK so maybe a dash of sympathy from him.

Wierd to think I'd give anything to be nauseus (for that reason) now!

OOOooo the mooon

Aaarrhoooo-tca-tca-tca (how do you type the noise a rabbit makes???)

p.s Beeblebear I had my first at 34, so, I'm not putting down your wish to be a mum already (at all - we all have our dreams) but don't want you to think going over 30 is any problem from a preggers point of view. I was cycling 30 miles a week at 7 months despite being an old fart and like to think I keep up with the young 'uns! ... that joke is probably only funny to me cos I think I am a young 'un. Desp probably thinks I'm serious.

Mind you Beeblebear don't get tooooo cheerful cos compared to Desp you are an old gimmer!

Guffaw!

everyone's an old gimmer to me, jokes!!

I always wanted to have kids young so I'd still be relatively young when they eventually bugger off and leave home!
My mum was 31 when she had me which isn't old at all but I wanted to be a young cool mum to my children (although I'll prob embarrass them to death when they're teens!)

I'm 35 and a half and still ttc #1, we can do it at our age beeblebear!

aaaaaarrrrrroooooquack!

Don't worry dh21, I'm in my 20s too only just though

Moonwatch!

Only just? As in just in or about to leave?

My mum had my brother when she was 25 and tried for 7 years and had 3 mc before I came about when she was 32....
So I don't hold my breath at this being easy.

My confession

I got pregnant and had a termination when I was 17.

Biggest regret of my life but I know I wouldn't be where I am now otherwise. I just hope it does not lead to any issues this time around.

Just about to leave my 20s too unfortunately.

Ahhh bless you beeble! That's a long time ago and I don't think any of us are the same people as we were back then. I don't want to tell you to have no regrets, but try not to punish yourself for it by thinking that any difficulties you may have in the future are your fault.

Elle. Aww thanks... Now that i'm oldar and wiser it's hard to see how stupid I was.

However i'm not my high school friend that has 7 kids with 5 different men either.

Hey everyone!

Any news Ellesabe and desperate21? The waiting must be so frustrating for you both!
I'm 8dpo and have actually been pretty calm so far, I'm really hoping that my non stressed vibes will help me get pregnant this month! It helps that work has been crazy to keep my mind off!

I have a big girls night out on Saturday which I really need to go to (it's a friends birthday!) but I'm worried incase I'm pregnant, I can't go n not drink as they will all assume I'm pregnant which will be hideous if I'm not!! I think I'm going to buy one of the early ones and test on sat (majorly early I know!!) if it's bfn then I can drink wine without worrying. What do you think-I don't want to put my life on hold all the time 'just in case'

beeble I had a termination when I was younger too, i won't say how young but def too young to have a baby. I don't regret it because my whole life would be so different and I wouldn't have what I've got now. I think it all happens for a reason. You've got to think its not the reason for what's happening now.

Still no news here, still got bad backache but don't feel any different. Got slight cramps so AF could be on the way but hard to know for sure.