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Who is joining me on the hideous 2ww?

998 replies

LauraM20 · 05/01/2012 08:14

Hey All!
Im currently on CD 20 so around 8-10 days until the AF arrives or I can test :D Just thought there may be some others that are waiting and driving themselves crazy! Thought we could hopefully share our BFP within the next few weeks, and keep each other sane! :D

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ConfusedMumDotCom · 26/01/2012 20:10

Congratulations milk and browneyesblue GrinGrin

I'm feeling quite zen about my BFN. I looked back at the dates we DTD and I think as I'm clearly on a longer cycle this month, we were either too late or too early. I'll probably go AWOL and enjoy the next two weeks but I'll be keeping an eye on you all and will back when the TWW madness begins.

Can someone please add me to the list:

TC%232 Cycle 2, AF due 22 Feb 2012

DesperateHousewife21 · 26/01/2012 20:46

confused sending you lots of luck for next month. In sure you'll have alot of fun trying! Do keep us posted, I will check back here even if I do get a BFP, still not sure how likely that is. Since my AF stopped we've dtd without fail every other night bar 1!

ImpatientOne · 26/01/2012 21:07

Congratulations on the BFPs!!!! Smile

I have started spotting today at 10dpo Sad so I think AF is immienent. Feeling grumpy and miserable right now - especially as my DH had turned the heating down today and the house is freezing Angry

Good luck to everyone still in, I'll save stats posting until I know what's going on!

browneyesblue · 26/01/2012 21:11

Done :)

Stats List - Please cut, paste and update!!!

BIGFATPOSITIVE- YEHHHHH BABY!
Milk -BFP -26/1/12
browneyesblue BFP 13/1/12

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ONLY A MATTER OF TIME FOR US -

CMB-35-AF 17th Jan.(trying since aug)AF 16-17th Feb(hope it dont show!).
Bettybat-AF was Jan 16-19Last cycle27- 33 days.AF due.11th- 16th Feb.
Alibobster-TTC baby no2 for 3 1/2 years, had- 4 m/c. On cd20 of 28/29 cycle.
Deaperatehousewife- TTC no. 2, second month. AF due 31st (ish) Jan.
twolittlemonkeys - ttc #3 for 2 years, AF due (if Clomid works) 1/3 Feb (ish)
ConfusedMumDotCom TC%232 Cycle 2, AF due 22 Feb 2012

cakesareyummy · 26/01/2012 21:14

Evening all!

Sorry to all of you with AF's arriving...

Congrats to Milk! And big congrats for getting the freebie off Boots! Good work! Sure you'll get another line tomorrow.

I wonder if I'm feeling nauseous but nothing really. However, no crampy pains yet although would be a bit early for that maybe if due on Tues...

I've added you to the list confused.

Stats List - Please cut,paste and update!!!

BIGFATPOSITIVE- YEHHHHH BABY!
Milk -BFP -26/1/12
browneyesblue BFP 13/1/12

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ONLY A MATTER OF TIME FOR US -

Confusedmumdotcom. TTC no2. Cycle 2. AF due 22/2
CMB-35-AF 17th Jan.(trying since aug)AF 16-17th Feb(hope it dont show!).
Bettybat-AF was Jan 16-19Last cycle27- 33 days.AF due.11th- 16th Feb.
Alibobster-TTC baby no2 for 3 1/2 years, had- 4 m/c. On cd20 of 28/29 cycle.
twolittlemonkeys - ttc #3 for 2 years, AF due (if Clomid works) 1/3 Feb (ish)
Deaperatehousewife- TTC no. 2, second month. AF due 31st (ish) Jan.
Cakesareyummy - TTC no 2, Cycle 2, AF due 31/1.

misslaughalot · 26/01/2012 21:18

Stats List - Please cut,paste and update!!!

BIGFATPOSITIVE- YEHHHHH BABY!
Milk -BFP -26/1/12
browneyesblue BFP 13/1/12

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ONLY A MATTER OF TIME FOR US -

Confusedmumdotcom. TTC no2. Cycle 2. AF due 22/2
CMB-35-AF 17th Jan.(trying since aug)AF 16-17th Feb(hope it dont show!).
Bettybat-AF was Jan 16-19Last cycle27- 33 days.AF due.11th- 16th Feb.
Alibobster-TTC baby no2 for 3 1/2 years, had- 4 m/c. On cd20 of 28/29 cycle.
twolittlemonkeys - ttc #3 for 2 years, AF due (if Clomid works) 1/3 Feb (ish)
Deaperatehousewife- TTC no. 2, second month. AF due 31st (ish) Jan.
Cakesareyummy - TTC no 2, Cycle 2, AF due 31/1.
Misslaughalot - TTC #1, mc Nov2011, AF due 5th Feb if cycle is back to normal...

DesperateHousewife21 · 26/01/2012 21:30

impatientone spotting can be a sign of implantation though so don't give up hope!!

These last few days of waiting are going soooo sloooow.

Southsearocks · 26/01/2012 22:45

Just popped back... Yay! Congratulations on your BFPs ladies! Heartwarming stuff Smile

ImpatientOne · 26/01/2012 23:09

Thanks DH21 Smile I will wait to see what tomorrow brings, even if it is AF I have my shiny new CBFM to play with!

I am a total control freak so I am struggling a lot with this process and not knowing why it's not happening - this is only cycle 4 though so I know it's no big deal, I just thought it would all happen exactly when I wanted it to! Blush

Just had a crazy busy week & feeling a bit sorry for myself in general, will try & dream positive thoughts tonight!

Beeblebear · 27/01/2012 01:46

Impatient one. Were you trying to "time" the birth for a certain time of year our date? I'm a planer too so I think i'm goingto go nuts with this. My husband is a teacher and coaches in 3 sessipns a year so are trying to time it so he can take a full session off. So sept is the first session after summer, so really really crossing our fingers this month. Also don't want a dec/jan baby, so if not this month, tmen next hopefully, then a 2 month break from trying after that.

BIGFATPOSITIVE-YEHHHHH BABY! Milk -BFP -26/1/12 browneyesblue BFP 13/1/12 --ONLY A MATTER OF TIME FOR US -Confusedmumdotcom. TTC no2. Cycle 2. AF due 22/2 CMB-35-AF 17th Jan.(trying since aug)AF 16-17th Feb(hope it dont show!). Bettybat-AF was Jan 16-19Last cycle27-33 days.AF due.11th-16th Feb. Alibobster-TTC baby no2 for 3 1/2 years, had-4 m/c. On cd20 of 28/29 cycle. twolittlemonkeys -ttc #3 for 2 years, AF due (if Clomid works) 1/3 Feb (ish) Deaperatehousewife-TTC no. 2, second month. AF due 31st (ish) Jan. Cakesareyummy -TTC no 2, Cycle 2, AF due 31/1. Misslaughalot -TTC #1, mc Nov2011, AF due 5th Feb if cycle is back to normal...
Beeblebear ttc#1. 2nd month. Cd 14 af due Feb 10-15

Beeblebear · 27/01/2012 01:49

Darn mobile copy paste is crap. Can someone fix for me please?

Congrats milk and brown eyes! Bettybat... Looks like we buddies. Going to try and hold off testing until v-day?

DesperateHousewife21 · 27/01/2012 07:31

I'm on the phone too.
I don't really want a dec baby so really hoping it'll be this month or next. If im preg now I worked out it'll be due on DH's birthday!

We ended up dtd when we went to bed last night, a v quick one was v good actually!

ImpatientOne · 27/01/2012 07:45

beeble Kind of, although no so specifically! I really wanted 2012 though and like you would've preferred to avoid Dec but really wouldn't mind now! I did want to be pregnant before my Dad's birthday though as it's a big one for him this year & I thought it would've been nice to tell him but that's in March so unrealistic now.

Also on phone so can't play with stats!

misslaughalot · 27/01/2012 08:49

Morning everyone, how are we all doing today?

I've woken up with the most horrendous headache. No paintkillers in the house at all...any suggestions of effective ways to get rid?

BIGFATPOSITIVE-YEHHHHH BABY!
Milk -BFP -26/1/12
browneyesblue BFP 13/1/12

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ONLY A MATTER OF TIME FOR US -

Confusedmumdotcom. TTC no2. Cycle 2. AF due 22/2 CMB-35-AF 17th Jan.(trying since aug)AF 16-17th Feb(hope it dont show!).
Bettybat-AF was Jan 16-19Last cycle27-33 days.AF due.11th-16th Feb.
Alibobster-TTC baby no2 for 3 1/2 years, had-4 m/c. On cd20 of 28/29 cycle.
twolittlemonkeys -ttc #3 for 2 years, AF due (if Clomid works) 1/3 Feb (ish)
Deaperatehousewife-TTC no. 2, second month. AF due 31st (ish) Jan.
Cakesareyummy -TTC no 2, Cycle 2, AF due 31/1.
Misslaughalot -TTC #1, mc Nov2011, AF due 5th Feb if cycle is back to normal...
Beeblebear ttc#1. 2nd month. Cd 14 af due Feb 10-15

misslaughalot · 27/01/2012 08:50

Paintkillers?!!

You know what I mean...early morning Friday fingers not great for typing. Blush

DesperateHousewife21 · 27/01/2012 08:56

Lol, I've woken up with headaches recently too. Just sit quietly with a cuppa for a while seems to do the trick.

Countmyblessings · 27/01/2012 08:57

Painkillers !!!!!!!!! I find a quick dip under a cold tap shocks my head instant cool down headache gone! Maybe a freezing cold flannel can also do the trick with loads of cold water!
I have awful headaches and I also put rubbing alchol on kitchen towel tie my head and then zone out for a hour when the towel is dry the headaches gone!!!!!!

DesperateHousewife21 · 27/01/2012 10:01

I've got painful twinges when I move, don't know if that's good or bad. God I hate this waiting.

KPT083 · 27/01/2012 10:14

BIGFATPOSITIVE-YEHHHHH BABY!
Milk -BFP -26/1/12
browneyesblue BFP 13/1/12

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ONLY A MATTER OF TIME FOR US -

Confusedmumdotcom. TTC no2. Cycle 2. AF due 22/2 CMB-35-AF 17th Jan.(trying since aug)AF 16-17th Feb(hope it dont show!).
Bettybat-AF was Jan 16-19Last cycle27-33 days.AF due.11th-16th Feb.
Alibobster-TTC baby no2 for 3 1/2 years, had-4 m/c. On cd20 of 28/29 cycle.
twolittlemonkeys -ttc #3 for 2 years, AF due (if Clomid works) 1/3 Feb (ish)
Deaperatehousewife-TTC no. 2, second month. AF due 31st (ish) Jan.
Cakesareyummy -TTC no 2, Cycle 2, AF due 31/1.
Misslaughalot -TTC #1, mc Nov2011, AF due 5th Feb if cycle is back to normal...
Beeblebear ttc#1. 2nd month. Cd 14 af due Feb 10-15
KPT083 TTC #1 for 1 year, MMC Aug, AF due (god knows when) but if a short cycle 30jan-2nd febConfused

Milk did you do your digital test yet?

LauraM20 · 27/01/2012 11:34

I will add ny stats to the list when I'm in the computer.

Oh gosh in so bloody cross! Just visited the doctor about a sore throat abd whilst there I explained that we had ttc for 11 months now, I understood we had to wait a year but wondered what was the next step after the year ie what did they do? She then informed that I would have to wait 18 months not a year before they will do anything. I told her a nurse and the nhs website says visit your doctor after a year, she said she wouldn't do anything until 18 months! Note to self request a different doctor next time!! Sorry rant over just wanted to let off some steam!! Hope everyone else is having a better day! X

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DesperateHousewife21 · 27/01/2012 12:04

Well let's hope it happens this month and doesnt get anywhere close to 18 months.

MilkNoSugarAndAShotofWhisky · 27/01/2012 13:08

Just gatecrashing to say milk , I'm SO excited for you :o

Countmyblessings · 27/01/2012 13:35

Stats List - Please cut,paste and update!!!PLACE IN AF DUE DATE ORDER!

BIGFATPOSITIVE- YEHHHHH BABY!

Milk -BFP -26/1/12
browneyesblue BFP 13/1/12

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ONLY A MATTER OF TIME FOR US -

Desperatehousewife- TTC no. 2, second month. AF due 31st (ish) Jan.
Cakesareyummy -TTC no 2, Cycle 2, AF due 31/1.
KPT083 TTC #1 for 1 year, MMC Aug, AF due (god knows when) but if a short cycle 30jan-2nd febConfused
twolittlemonkeys - ttc #3 for 2 years, AF due (if Clomid works) 1/3 Feb (ish)
Misslaughalot -TTC #1, mc Nov2011, AF due 5th Feb if cycle is back to normal..
Beeblebear ttc#1. 2nd month. Cd 14 af due Feb 10-15
Confusedmumdotcom. TTC no2. Cycle 2. AF due 22/2
CMB-35-AF 17th Jan.(trying since aug)AF 16-17/2(hope it dont show!).
Bettybat-AF was Jan 16-19Last cycle27- 33 days.AF due.11th- 16th Feb.
Alibobster-TTC baby no2 for 3 1/2 years, had- 4 m/c. On cd20 of 28/29 cycle.

some of the info got mixed together so just updating!
it seems a few of us got "in there" last night!!!!!

also feel free to amend and put in AF DUE ORDER makes an easy read!!!!

Countmyblessings · 27/01/2012 13:43

oh Laura20 - how flippin awful to know you have to be trying for 18 months before they will do anything for you couldnt they just put in a (referral) now so if you not pregnant before the 18 months you dont have to wait ages and be more closer to 2 years!!!!
they clearly dont have a clue of how awful this is for you( and others)
i waited from 06 after ectopic to 09 when i had my DS to fall pregnant and it was not easy although nowhere near how i am now for some strange reason!!!!

DesperateHousewife21 · 27/01/2012 15:58

I took ds to the park and in the way home could feel dampness, went to the loo and I can tell u I've never been so relieved to find out I'd leaked a bit of wee! Any of circumstance and I'd be mortified Grin