TTC after a Miscarriage - Dear Santa, beanies for crimbo, please!!

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Well here we are! Hopefully htis one will take us up to crimbo, althoughthe way we gas, probably not!!

Hears wishing all us TTcers all the luck in the world and all those who are PG already, lots of stretchmarks and piles!!!! hehehee!! Not really, lotso f luck to you too

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Yeah carly said i was testing 2moro but just realised it's cd 27 2moro so dunno if i will, we can do one 2getha if u want cos i'm very hopeful 4u! x

tbh i dont think my cyle has settled down since the last m/c so i am kind of expecting a bfn at least that way i wont be disappointed (well only a little) and a bfp would be a pleasant surprise MYGARLAND do you have tests there now or are you having to buy some?

I'm not sure of cycles either as this is 2nd one since coming off pill and last one was 6 weeks so i woudn't be (too) disappointed either! i've got one test in the house how bout u carly?

Thanks mxw will def be testing over wkend but hink u should rest up instead of thinking bout us lot, we're big enough and ugly enough to take bfn's whereas u've had worse news this wk. How's your dh? and have u told any family mxw?

i think there might be one somewhere but i dont need to pee just yet.............think waterfalls, and running water

wanna wait and do a test first thing 2moro with me carly?

Go on you 2 TEST!!!

DF is upset like last time but like me he's calm too, I think we its cos this time we were prepared that something might happen. We didnt tell family, if I get upset or something then I'll tel my lot, but we hardly see his lot so not gonna say anything.

if i can hold out that long ill try promise

Morning all.
Mums- sorry to hear.

Good luck any testers and here's to a happier New year for all xxxxxxxxx

Morning all.
Mums- sorry to hear.

Good luck any testers and here's to a happier New year for all xxxxxxxxx

XACK how are you feeling hun any better?

well if u don't test 2day carly then i'll try to wait til sun (cd28) but if u don't do it 2day then i will do it 2moro.
hi xack hows u 2day?
mxw send my regards to dp cos men sometimes feel left out, take care the both of u

Mums am so sorry. I know how you feel. Dh is always upset but worries more about what I am going thru and feels as though it's his fault only because he has got me pregnant and then I suffer the m/c.
You really do remind me of the way I deal with it. I have noticed that after a whileit's almost as though I expect it and therefore just get on with it. The frustration of waiting and trying again upsets me more than the m/c.

Mums hope u don't mind me asking, but how many consequetive m/c have you had?

ASH
Hope you are ok.
Please email me if you want to chat in private. Am worried about u

this is only the 2nd which is why i'm not worrying. If it was 4th/5th/6th I'd be asking for every test under the sun. Until then, I'm just getting on with it.

Although wish this bit was over all ready, getting crampy now. Gonna get myself some pills, and a cup of t i think.

mums-so sorry hun-take it easy and try and rest. ((xx))

Hanger-hope it is nothing too serious-not like you to lay low. ((xx))

carlychristmas and mygarland-come on you 2-hoping for BFP's for both of you this weekend. ((xx))

XACK-hope you are doing OK hun. ((xx))

Hugs to everyone else on this wet, windy and miserable day.

((xx))

HC where are you? im in wales and albeit a little windy have clear blu skies and glorious sunshine

Hi HC, yeah it's ok weather in shrops too

Didn't mean it to sound like u were lying HC just we've got unbeleivably good weather here for it being Dec!
Went to loo and was desperate to test but only cd26 of cd? cycle so stopped myself!

Oh im so excited for you carly and garland, great weather here in the midlands too.

saying that the weather's just gone cloudy!
i'm excited too but don't wanna get me hopes up! If i'm not then we've got some explaining to do to every1 when they find out we've bought a 8 seater car on tue

mums - just seen your messages, so sorry mate, hope you can find comfort from us.
How are you feeling?

well girls i'm off now, expecting dh home with car so i can take dd2 to nursery (last day) and will be furiously wrapping until i pick the girls up, will speak then.
Forgot to say ASH i cat-ed u. didn't want u to think i wasn't thinking about u

no what you mean garland, i only told parents, best mate and my boss this time, but must admit when it all started to go wrong, they were fab. But next time think were gonna keep it quiet, will be hard though.
But were not ttc yet anyway, had to go to chemist to get some dressings for my iky stich and bought some condoms too. I hate the things but seeing as ive stopped bleeding and the antibiotics are kicking in, didnt want to miss out on having a little fun

just before i log off g4p good luck at chemist and with infection but u can get cheap condoms from eBay (obv not used - eeeeeeeeww) for your fun and baby dancing. can u tell i've just lost my eBay virginity?