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TTC after a Miscarriage - Dear Santa, beanies for crimbo, please!!

583 replies

Atomicstockinghanger · 13/12/2005 14:09

Well here we are! Hopefully htis one will take us up to crimbo, althoughthe way we gas, probably not!!

Hears wishing all us TTcers all the luck in the world and all those who are PG already, lots of stretchmarks and piles!!!! hehehee!! Not really, lotso f luck to you too

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going4potty · 30/12/2005 17:07

Hi sorry this is just a fleeting post. Hope you are all well, sorry about AF mincepie. I am still dealing with quite a bit of bad news at the mo and together with my own situation im feeling a bit low and not really up to chatting, so will be on later, talk soon.

HumphreysCorner · 30/12/2005 21:42

((((((XXXXXXXX)))))) G4

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going4potty · 30/12/2005 22:43

Hello again, just watched charlie and the choclate factory and it just wasnt as good as the original. Thanks humphrey, where is everybody and has carly changed her name?
Im hoping to sort out some family stuff 2morrow so wish me luck. I just hate confrontation so feeling bit nervous.
Anyhow, hope you all have a great new years and good luck to everybody.

carly82 · 31/12/2005 10:12

G4P first of all huge hugs to you hun (((((((()))))))) and yes i have gone back to my pre christmas name
was supposed to be going to my mums for a party tonight but decided to relocate to my house, that way if the boys get tired they can just go to bed instead of trying to keep them awake.
Anyway i hope everyone has a brilliant evening, not too much looking back at the past year and looking forward to all the joy of the new one xxxx

FirstSaintNikkilass · 31/12/2005 14:13

Just been skimming the posts and carly I should be ov'ing at the same time! fingers crossed hey

FirstSaintNikkilass · 31/12/2005 15:04

..then again carly may have got my dates mixed up I had show and AF arrive 23rd dec so going to check out a website and get back...
last time didn't work dates out just went on honeymoon and bd and bingo!.....hope its the same this time

FirstSaintNikkilass · 31/12/2005 15:14

ok.. looked on babycentre and providing cycle is now 29 (was 28 pre-m/c) ov 3-7 jan....taking last CD1 as date "passed" my baby naturally (25/11) and first af since m/c cd1 23/12. going to back this up with OV kits....here's hoping this is right..x

jinglediddle · 31/12/2005 16:36

Good luck to all of your who are TTC. have a fantastic New Year, and I agree lets look to the future now and put the last year behind us, its been a nightmare one for most of us.
Heres to a happy baby filled 2006.

G4P - i hope everything has gone ok today and you've survived your confrontation.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

going4potty · 31/12/2005 19:47

Hello everyone, happy new year to you all. Unfortunately no opportunity to sort out family saga so il be dwelling until next weekend. Hope all of you have a great night.

HellKat · 01/01/2006 08:45

Happy New Year
Hope everyone's well.
Here's to health, love,peace & good fortune!
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petunia · 01/01/2006 08:55

A Happy New Year to you Hellkat. Haven't seen you here for a while, how you doing?

HellKat · 01/01/2006 08:56

i'm good ty and you? Bet the bump's huge now!

petunia · 01/01/2006 09:25

Aaaaah yes, seem to have ballooned over Christmas! Or maybe it's too much turkey and Christmas pud!

HumphreysCorner · 01/01/2006 11:20

Happy New Year to you all!!!!!!!

Let 2006 bring all you ladies TTC big healthy bumps and all preggers ladies healthy pregnancies.

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Some babydust for one and all. Can't do sticky glue though.

Love to all.

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Coathanger · 01/01/2006 11:29

HAPPY NEW YEAR one and all!!

Here's hoping 2006 brings many healthy happy babbies, lots of BFPs and lots and lots of happiness and good fortune.

I am surprisingly not hungover this morning - amazing considering I drank far to many voddy and cokes last night and ended up doing kareoke But hey ho!! it was a party!

Hope nobody else is hungover....

going4potty · 01/01/2006 19:36

Hello all, hope you all had a good night. Must say im glad all the visiting is over, m exhausted. Back to work in a weeks time and im wondering how im gonna manage. Sure il be fine but still dreading it!

FirstNikki · 02/01/2006 10:15

Good morning ladies and a HAPPY NEW YEAR to you all, I am feeling very positive for this year and hope this passes to you all.

Those of you been ill I hope you are feeling better v. soon.

Happy BD'ing to those TTC.

G4P I hope you get things sorted soon and try to take it easy when going back to work...is your infection cleared?

FirstNikki · 02/01/2006 10:17

Oh and CH, I also had no hangover had a few vodka and tonics but felt fine upon waking...what a lovely feeling!

diddle · 02/01/2006 10:26

Morning all,

Hope you had a fab New Years Eve!!!

Feeling worn out today already, back to work on Wenesday, really need to get the house recovered and back to normal, can't believe the mess, especially as we spent xmas and new year at other peoples houses.

G4P - I think with going back to work you will have to take each day as it comes, it will be a major step for you, especially the nature of your job. If you need to have a good cry at lunchtime, then do it, don't feel like you have to be strong and out on an act. Hope you get chance to sort out your family issues. Hope its nothing too major or stressful for you. If you want to share it with us, please feel free. We can support anything, and might be able to help you in some way.

Hello to everyone else, and i hope that this is a positive and happy 2006 for you all. Lets make sure everyone gets those BFP's, lets keep our stress levels low and our BD levels high

going4potty · 02/01/2006 10:32

Hi niki, Glad our ok and feeling well. Thankyou for asking yes the infection has cleared and the lump behind the scar has almost all gone! Having a day at home 2day, so looking forward to relaxing. bd unprotected couple of days ago, heat of the moment etc, then burst out crying after. So were gonna give it till first af arrives post ectopc. Didnt mean to go without, but at least have realised i may be a little concerned

going4potty · 02/01/2006 10:34

Hi diddle, Thanks for support, may cat u later about family issues.

FirstNikki · 02/01/2006 11:02

G4P we have realised that its only the past couple of days we have really started to get back to a "normal" feeling/ happier state of mind...I think its cos we think we are ok and coping well but deep down we cover things up a bit and our emotions tell us otherwise as you have found after BD'g

(well thats what we have found as we thought we were doing fine but past few days we have been so much different emotionally etc - although this could also have a bearing on the fact we are ttc now??)

It will get easier x

diddle · 02/01/2006 11:11

feel free anytime g4p.

hope you're doing ok nikki, you're right it will get easier. i'm proof of that, although it will never go away, you won't forget, it will just stay hidden a bit more.
Find comfort in each other x x x

Coathanger · 02/01/2006 11:20

Morning ladies!

How are we all?

I'm feeling really down today Sad that christmas has gone and the deccies are down. Everything has got to go back to normal and more importantly, I have GOT to go on a diet as I have put on half a stone and I can't afford to put on half a stone. So from tomorrow I am on a strict diet (not to day coz DH is still at home and its hard when he's here).

I'm glad to hear you are feeling better Nikki As Diddle said, things do get better, they never disappear completely, but you find the feelings and memories go further to the back of your mind and you'll find yourself thinking about it less and less.

G4P - I'm sure you will be fine at work. It might help you get through each day. I'm plaesed your infection has cleared up and things are recovering.

Diddle - No work til Wednesday!!! Lucky devil

FirstNikki · 02/01/2006 11:37

Sorry to hear you are feeling down CH...I am also in need of losing weight.....you are not alone... okay...new year, new body lets do it together.. 2 or 3 weeks of being good should get that off you x