TTC after a Miscarriage - Dear Santa, beanies for crimbo, please!!

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Well here we are! Hopefully htis one will take us up to crimbo, althoughthe way we gas, probably not!!

Hears wishing all us TTcers all the luck in the world and all those who are PG already, lots of stretchmarks and piles!!!! hehehee!! Not really, lotso f luck to you too

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Mums - please please go to see a doctor of some description. MC (if thats what this is) is a huge trauma on your body, especially if you are as far as 17 weeks gone. You ned to speak to s doctor for your health. You don't have to have a D&C, you can do it naturally, I did and many others did. You must see someone.

ASH - Promise if not stopped bleeding by tomorrow after work I will get emergency app. I PROMISE.

Just want it to get on with whatever its gonna for a while, Too much Doc butting in might make it worse.

BUT I PROMISE I WILL GET APP TOMORROW IF NOT STOPPED

But Mums if you go tomorrow to EPU, they will probably say they won't seee you til after the weekend. Can you wait like that. Ring today, tell them whats happening and explain what happened at your scan. By all means, wait, but as long as you understand that its your health as well. I know I sound like a nagging old woman, but its all with good intentions.

I know its with good intentions ASH i really do.

Here's my prob.

If I go and it is a mc then I will know for definate. At least at the mo there is a little hope that I'm not MCing.

I know its stupid and conflicts with what I'm said about quick and done but I dunno..... O i dunno.

see you tomorrow

bye mums, take it easy .

having a bad day. Ds is being really difficult and i am in loads of pain and really tired today. Feeling a bit sorry for myself.

bless you G4P..ignore dh and take some pain relief and take care of yourself.

Bye all have a good evening and those who are not well etc. hope you are better soon.

(((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) to mxw and g4p. dh dying of cold obv cos it's a man flu! he'll be back at work 2moro with any luck cos I'm sick of him moaning and having to clear up after him! I love him really. So hopefully I can talk more 2moro. Got a bit wrapping done 2day and hopefully the rest 2moro. Last day of school 2moro too then I've got kids all day (hello cbeebies!)
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mums just read thru your posts.....

I have felt just like you. Don't feel bad about it, if it helps you to think and feel like that then do. It's a way of protecting yourself and keeping yourself sane.
Do what you want to do. Say what you want to on here. No-one will judge you.
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Well signing of now, feel thoroughly disgusting as have leaky stich eeewww sorry if tmi. Hope those antibiotics get working fast!!!
Hope you all have a restful night see you in the morning.

Morning.

Mums - mincepee is right. I have no right to push you to do anything. Sorry, I was out of order. You do what ever you feel right doing, but just make sure you look after yourself.

I just want to let you all know I am going to lay low for a while. I don't really want to go into why just yet as I am trying to deal with it at the mo. I will be on and off, I won't just dessert you all, especially so close to Christmas.

I'm sorry again Mums for being too pushy

Morning all.

Still feeling rough so excuse me if i dont get here much. Hate not having control over my body.
Mums hope you ok sweet.

ok, DF MADE me go hosp last night cos it got very heavy and clotty. They done a scan and couldnt find anything. Not even the sac. Although aparently I have enough HCG to still produce a +ive test.

They've said they're not too worried but expressed they thought I should have op. When I asked whether not having the op would do anything bad they said no so I chose not to. Don't know if that was a good idea but don't care.

I'm feeling relieved today. Dont know why at all. I'm a little upset but mostly relieved.

We both have decided were trying again straight away because the house is sorted. Plus I'll be moving in next month which means that by the time I've finished bleeding this time and then had an AF i'll be in house and hopefully new job too.

I was going to have time off work last night but when I woke up I decided I wanted to go to work, dunno why. Probably so I've someone to talk to - you girls.

ASH - I dont know whats wrong if you want to say, email me if not then I hope its something you're ok with dealing on you own. Also dont be sorry, I completely understand why you wanted me to go and I dont feel you were pushy at all. Motherly if anything.

Hope the rest of you are ok and thanks for all your kind words. Your all stars. Looks like I'm staying on the TTC thread tho.

Sorry Mums Stay strong

I'm ok ASH honestly, I didnt cry or nothing when they told me this time, prob cos I was expecting it.

I think I've not realised yet or something but I'm fine.

How are you?

Sorry to hear your news mums My thoughts are with you and take it easy. If I had a choice I don't suppose I would want the procedure either. Know what you are going through with the natural way, please take care at work lots of hugs.

ASH - hope what you are going through doesn't last long (iykwim)and if you need us...well you know we are here.

G4P hope the antiobiotics are starting to kick in

love to all and take good care of yourselves. New Year new start for us all who are ttc

Im really sorry mums , hope you ok and taking it as rasy as you can at work.

i meant easy

Hi everyone, been offline for a few days because of my stupid laptop dying.
just read the news and im so sorry mums will you beable to see someone to find out why like a mc clinic? {{{hugs}}}

Oh mums what a week you've had, hope u stay strong - in fact no cos it's ok not to be, just hope u r ok (not just at this minute) lots of cyber ((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))) an (((((((((((((((((XxXxX)))))))))))))))))))

Dont think so, docs did say if I went for the op they may be able to look into why baby died but to me that seems like cold table being cut up which I dont like the idea of. Its only 2 mc's so I'm sure everything will be fine.

mind if I hijack for a minute girls to say mums ((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))) i'm so sorry honney.

good luck to the rest of u girls thou.

oh mums am so hun, take it easy xx
Morning everyone else am now on cd33 today and still not sign of af / (not sure which one yet!) im debating whether to do another test, its been 48 hours since the last one so......... if i decide to do another i will let you all know
MYGARLAND did you say you were testing tmorrow? is there anyone else?

oh carly I'll keep my fingers crossed for you girlie.

Mygarland - if you're testing i'll keep my toes crossed for you