TTC after a Miscarriage - Dear Santa, beanies for crimbo, please!!

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Well here we are! Hopefully htis one will take us up to crimbo, althoughthe way we gas, probably not!!

Hears wishing all us TTcers all the luck in the world and all those who are PG already, lots of stretchmarks and piles!!!! hehehee!! Not really, lotso f luck to you too

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mums big >. I feel 4u.

mums try not to get too upset. I am sure you will be fine. ))))))))))))))))))))HUGS((((((((((((

G4P I am fine thank you getting back into work at the moment passed week or so didn't really want to be here.

mums - why don't you go to drs and get checked out sweetie and put your mind at rest.x

oh mums - is there much? is it red or brown? you gonna go to the hospital/docs?
you should get it checked out just in case theres soemthing you can do.
Common to have bleeding at this time though, it could be implantation.
Got everything crossed for you mate, and i hope you can rest when you get home.
you know we're all here for you

I dont want to go docs, would rather just let it happen if its going to. I know they'd insist on me going in for a D&C and I'd rather just let things happen naturally. I think at the moment I'm pretty resigned to the idea that its probably happening.

Anyway, dont want to depress the thread so I'm going to do some more work.

Thanks ladies

yes, you should go to gp, thought you already had. Any bleeding should be investigated, was what i was told. Fingers crossed 4u.

oh mums...lots of love and hugs your way...

understand what you are saying, but if it continues I probably suggest you go the drs/hosp..to check you are both ok.. xxx {{{{hugs}}}}

Oh mums, you arent depressing anything we care what happens to you, whatever it is.

mumsxmaswish - you're not depressing us, if you can't be honest and share your troubles here, then where can you.
I really think you should go and be reassured, get a scan. It will put you in a happier mood and you'll see baby bouncing around, sad moods will make baby sad.
Are you losing any clots? or just a little blood?
Please go and see the doc, stuff work and take yourself off now.
If you are losing, which i seriously hope you're not, btu fi you are and its and ectopic or something then it can be a serios danger to your health. you should get it looked at.
Please consider it.
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Thanks for the advice.

Didds, I know its not ectopic cos we had a scan on tues and the baby was found. There was some issues raised then as to survival so I was kinda expecting it but trying not to worry.

Don't worry guys as soon as anything big happens I'll go docs but until then would rather deal with it myself.

fair enouhg mums - only you know how you feel, and in the meantime if you need us we're here for you.

mums, just remember the drs cannot force you to have any treatment, but having hcg test may help you. you mentioned dc,this usually requires written consent, so agin you are the one calling the shots. Listen to their advice, but do whats right for you. Sorry 4 sounding bossy, but i sometimes think hospitals dont like to be questioned etc and do try and do things to their protocol without taking individual needs into account i will get of my soap box now.

Mums - {{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}} you know where i am

have mailed you Mums

Thinking of you mums. ((xx))

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I'll give it till Friday ok?

If its not better by end of work on fri I'll ring them and get emergency app. Is that ok?

I dont know what it is but I cant feel depressed or sad anymore, I'm constantly feeling down but the slightest little things has me smiling and laughing. As tho no care in the world and to be honest (really shouldnt say this) if it is mc, wish it would just hurry up so I can have a stiff drink!

Sorry I know that doesnt sound right but I dont know why I want to say it, I just do.

I thought me saying that might make you all run. I'm not in anyway saying that I dont want this baby cos I do SOOOO much but if its not to be, I want to get back to it now!

I dont know what I'm saying. I'll go.

MUMS you say what you have got to and how you feel I understand what you are saying, if it is sad news you would rather it not take a long time.

thinking of you xx

your emotions are bound to be all over the place with your worries etc.. so please try not add to that by worrying or questioning your feelings. I would go home sick and rest. if you end up going the drs/hosp you will have your mind at rest. x

have just come back mums huge hugs to you sweetheart(((((((()))))))) try not to get too worried tho i know its not easy. What did they say at the scan? i understand if you dont wnat to talk about it?xx
I hope everyone else is ok xx

know exactly what your saying mums, if it is bad news, you want it over with. im the same. Just waiting for this infection to go and first af, then we can think about the future again.

When I was at the scan I was told that feotus (sp?) was about 8wks old, when I told them about the af's (Nearly 3 months without an AF) I had after came off the pill they said that it could be upto 17wks old and not growing properly and the HCG readings I had were that of a slow MC and the HCG readings were on they're way back down. If that makes sense.

Dont need to go home sick, there's no one here so I'm resting as much as I would at home, just sitting instead of lying, although if not fixed I will speak to doc in the morning and see about getting an app tomorrow and maybe not come in. I dunno yet,

they were prob just telling you worst case scenario to cover their backs. Please try not to worry im sure all will fine hun xx

well..only you can decide whats best for you whatever you decide look after yourself.x

Mums, am thinking about you.