Freak out room for those newly updiffed after MC to hold hands and support each other...

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Hello!

Newly updiffed and freaking out about spotting, cramping, the wait until your first scan and each little twinge? Settle in for lots of hand holding and supprt until you're ready to move to grads

Whoop Nix 8cm - wow!!! That's fab news!! I'm with Bee I can't even imagine it getting that big mine on monday was 2.3cm

Good luck orange, hairy and mamap xxx

yay nix! and good luck everyone else with scans today

mine feels rather small at 1.3mm compared to all yours!

Dachs - it's growing a mm a day apparently at your stage so it'll be significantly bigger already today!

Brillian news Nicks, and wishing lots of luck to everyone else having scans today x

Gosh, all those lovely messages for us 3, made me shed a little tear, it's so great to know you are all there as I don't mind admitting that I'm petrified (you know that washing machine feeling you get in your tummy when you're so nervous) and right now 1.15pm seems like an age away.

Nix Amazing news now back as you were with the r&r and enjoy the flicks

Mama I have had 4 scans now with this bean and up until this one today have cried and not slept the night before in sheer terror! You have great symptoms am sure it will be fine xx

Owls... Twin !!! Also interestingly with anterior
R placenta there is more chance of a bleed!

I know it's scary but I'm sure you'll be fine and see bean squirming away nicely

Anyone got any ideas on how to capture zen?

Bad news from me I'm afraid. Missed miscarriage, sac had only grown to 9mm. I am medically managing and will be referred for tests now I've had the required three mc.

Thanks to all of you for holding my hannd.

Wishing you all happy pregnancies and sticky beans

x x x

hairy am SO sorry :(
I know how you are feeling (if that's not too presumptuous, I just mean hitting the 3).

I know you'll need time away for a while, but we'd love to see you back on the 40+ thread if you feel able.

Take care x

hairy so v v sad to hear that.

Thanks jjolls . this one isn't as hard to cope with as I had good warning of it last week. I am never having another six week scan though! I could have done without the week I've had.

The lovely doctor (best so far) was great ... And says I must not presume it's age ... She sees more and more women giving birth in their forties.

They'll now test for chromosomes and clotting issues.

I'll get amh test done either via gp or privately.

But we won't ttc again now until we have test results.

Thanks digi

hairy you sound really positive, that's really good. As you say you now get the tests and as you've conceived so fast each time that's happened really fast IYSWIM. So best of luck with those and look after yourself in the meantime xx

Hairy I am so so sorry to hear that (((hugs))) I'm glad you have testing planned and it is a positive step forward you can take x

Oh Hairy so, so, sorry you're having to go through this again :(

Testing sounds like a very sensible next step; we'll keep your beanbag warm for you here until you return xxx Take good care of yourself & your lovely DP.

orange any news hon? Wasn't your scan this morning too?

Hairy I am so so sorry to hear that. Take care over the next few days and longer term I am glad they will be carrying out tests... Big hugs and love x

Oh Hairy I'm so so sorry it's not good news. Big hugs. Very best of luck with the testing. I hope you get some answers quickly and are able to try again very soon with a better outcome xxx

Yes sorry I didn't want to say so close to such terrible news,, but I measured 4cm which puts me at 10+5 and gave us a little wave. It's my birthday on Tuesday but I now have the only present I wanted :)

Mamap thinking of you, not long now. Sorry you're on your own, but we'll be there with you in spirit

Nix glad all is ok and you can try and relax a bit

Massive congratulations Orange Honestly no need to hold back on my account, really happy for all of you that are carrying successfully :). It's comforting to hear that it can happen!

Orange that is fab news :) What a lovely birthday present after all the early-on stress you've had.

Hairy so so sorry you are going through this again. Hope the testing is done quickly and you get some answers. Take care.

Nix and Orange grand news all looks so good.

Hairy I'm so very sorry that the result was not good for you. It's only the tiniest of consolations that the testing will be carried out, I do wish that it had been a better outcome straight away. When will your medical management start? oh chick, I'm so sorry.

orange it was very sweet of you to restrain from putting your news up straight away
I've had scans on the same days as others on a thread and had to report bad news after hearing about someone else's good news and felt sad for me but relieved for them. Very pleased you'll get to celebrate your birthday feeling a bit more relaxed and happy.

I hope mamap is doing ok in the waiting room now. Did she say a friend was going with her?

Congrats Orange and good luck Mamap!!!

Hairy So so So so Sorry for your loss. Can't believe it's happening to you again - it's just not fair.

Glad that everyone else had good news though...