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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after MC to hold hands and support each other...

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DachshundsWantPuppies · 30/01/2011 08:37

Hello!

Newly updiffed and freaking out about spotting, cramping, the wait until your first scan and each little twinge? Settle in for lots of hand holding and supprt until you're ready to move to grads

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hairylights · 11/02/2011 13:34

Thanks bee . I took the first tablet today and have the second dose on Sunday morning - felt it best to get it over with.

And you put it really well about oyhers' good news - It was sweet of you orange and I am genuinely pleased for those who are having good outcomes.

Feel like you guys are special friends because we've all been through the same stuff in the past ... So I will lurk if that's ok!

DachshundsWantPuppies · 11/02/2011 13:34

oh hairy sweetie I'm so sorry :(. It's just not fair.

Hope the tests show up something that's easy to treat and that the next hairy bean is a sticky one

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DachshundsWantPuppies · 11/02/2011 13:38

orange I'm pleased for you :)

Hope mamap is back soon, also with good news.

I spoke to DH last night about the scan tomorrow. He was gutted not to have been there yesterday so I think he kind of wants to go for the scan, and apparently I lose the deposit if I rearrange as well as if I cancel (go figure!) so looks like I'm having another scan tomorrow.

It may appear that scan addiction is taking over from POAS addiction, but I assure you it is not the case! (yet...)

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Ladybee · 11/02/2011 14:02

wellll....ok then

however, young lady, I want you right this minute to go and look at a ruler, look at 2mm, 3mm, and 4mm and understand just exactly how easy it is going to be for a sonographer to make a tiny mistake in putting the curser on a fuzzy speck. no fretting if the measurements are the tiniest bit out over the days, ok?

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lovemysleep · 11/02/2011 14:24

hairy am really sorry to hear your news. Hope the testing gets you some answers, and your much longed for little one. Big hugs to you.

orange great news for you - you'll soon be into the next trimester too - where we newbies are desperate to get to!

Dunno about the rest of you, but just realised that I haven't even been pg for 2 weeks yet, and it feels like it's really dragging...Getting used to the idea, but still nervous as hell.

lovemysleep · 11/02/2011 14:25

I meant it was not yet 2 weeks since I got a BFP...

chocciechip · 11/02/2011 14:36

hairy I'm so sorry Sad. And it's so sensitive of you to manage warm words for nix and orange when you must be grieving for your loss. I'll be thinking of you this weekend.

nickstermum · 11/02/2011 14:41

Oh hairy I'm so sad to hear your terrible news :(

I really hope you are ok my love xxxxxx

I'm so so sorry xxx

hairylights · 11/02/2011 14:52

Thanks everyone. I reallyappreciate all your lovely words and care.

I'm ok honestly. It's easier this time. It's earlier and I had a warning of it last week. And it's the third time. So I know more about what to expect.

Been to sleep for an hour or so. Hope it will all come away Sunday after second dose and I hope to be at work on Monday ... Better to keep busy.

PinkFondantFancy · 11/02/2011 14:53

hairy you are such a lovely gracious lady, I am so so sorry this happened :( I really hope testing finds one easy to fix thing wrong so that you can have better luck v v soon. When do you expect testing to start? Have you been referred or going private?

orange that plus a ukelele really will be the best birthday ever Grin seriously though v pleased for you-it's been a greulling 6 weeks fir you to here-really hope it's s piece of cake from here

haha dachs I know exactly what you mean, I'm on weeky and I still want more!!!! Grin I've got opposite issue with DH-he's really pleased I'm pg but makes excuses not to go to scans. I think he's scared :( lady talks a lot of sense, I hope you're listening Grin

thanks for asking lady it's ok I think-was sore yesterday but I'm hoping I'll get better at it with practice. Glad I've developed a bit of extra fat these last few weeks to pinch!!!

Lurky lurk lurk for news from mamap.

PinkFondantFancy · 11/02/2011 14:54

Ps fab news nix so happy for you! Am Envy of your massive bean!!! :)

PinkFondantFancy · 11/02/2011 15:01

Pss love totally with you-time goes sooooo slowly!! It's weird tho ad it feels like just yesterday nix got her BFPs-time must go at different speeds depending on whether it's you or someone else from the outside IYSWIM as I'm sure nix would disagree that it's gone quickly for her!!

hairylights · 11/02/2011 15:07

pink aw thanks!

I am being referred on nhs (hurrah!). It'll be about six weeks. I may go private fir amh test ... Not sure if that's offered on nhs or not.

We may go for ivf after testing.

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 11/02/2011 15:20

Just popping in to give a big (((squeeze))) to hairy - I'm so sorry, I really was hoping you would have some good news today xx

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 11/02/2011 15:21

Big ((hugs)) to orange and nix too - lovely to hear things are going well for you both.

Will keep lurking for mamap ...

Wombat33 · 11/02/2011 15:31

Lurky lurky lurk for Mamap...

banana87 · 11/02/2011 15:40

So so sorry for you Hairy

BFN on CBD this morning so I am defo not pregnant...just want AF to start, she's making me feel so crappy!

PrettyVacant1 · 11/02/2011 16:06

Hairy, I'm so sorry xx
Thinking of you both

Mamapower · 11/02/2011 16:08

All is well Smile I saw my little bean and it's heartbeat, my friend came with me and we both burst in to tears! The sonographer and EPAU Nurse were both visibly touched and kindly gave me two pic's to give to dh. Although I am technically 7+5 my late ov has made a big difference and I am now at 6+3 and my bean is 7mm! I have been officially discharged from the care of the EPAU with a 'viable pregnancy'... those words are like magic! Now if the next 6 weeks could pass smoothly until the next hurdle that would be great Smile

I just want to say, I couldn't have got through this day without you, thank you xxx

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 11/02/2011 16:12

Fab news mamap Grin xxx

DachshundsWantPuppies · 11/02/2011 16:13

mamap Grin

chuffed for you

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owlbooty · 11/02/2011 16:13

MamaP that's ace news - may the next 6 weeks be terribly, terribly dull for you :)

hairylights · 11/02/2011 16:14

That's such great news MamaP sending you sticky bean thoughts for a trouble free preganancy.

Mamapower · 11/02/2011 16:15

Thanks izzy I feel like the luckiest person in the world today Smile I am hoping you and the gang will be along here soon, sharing in the panic and highs and lows Smile

Wombat33 · 11/02/2011 16:16

Whoop Mamap That's fab news!!! Grin Grin Grin

I am feeling so faint and dizzy today. I'm good for nothing at work this afternoon. Anyone else experienced this and have any tips to manage it?

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