TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

[Diddle]

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

NO!! you cant do that. Thats mean!

I would do that but I'm alergic to cats!! Was contemplating getting a cat and keeping it for a couple of months then giving it away. But thats a bit extreme I think.

The mouse seems to have hidden itself away now, but one good thing has come of it - I have blitzed mt living room and managed to sort out DS3's toys and get rid of a few!

Afternoon Ladies,

Thanks for your kind words and Hugs earlier, much needed!

Pains have subsided a little now, just feeling a bit sicky still! Oh well! I'm sure a few ours of pampering at my hair salon will cheer me up and get me in the holiday mood.

Hope you are all well!?

CD 27

Are you still there Lottie? When will you be testing (I know you have said but you know what my memory is like!)? Are you having a new hairstyle? Glad pain has died down a bit. Did you see my post earlier about what you think, deep down, it might be?

Glad to hear your feeling better lottie.

Have fun at the hair salon. It's always good to have a bit of pampering when your feeling down. Chin up and keep

yes still here CH!
Having a slight change in my hairstyle, a few months ago i went from blonde to brunette with blonde slices, but seens as am going to get me a tan i want the blonde again! Looking forward to it
I'm not sure what i feel deep down, i really haven't a clue, i have been clutching at sraws with all the if, but's & maybe's are really doin my head in!
I'm going to test at the same time as Diddle when i get back from hols. It will be in the 8th! I wont have access to the net so i will get Diddle topost our results on, to keep you posted. Mine will prob be -ve but worth a try!

How you doing huni? xx

Well, I'm dissapearing soon, finishing work at 5pm so I'll speak to you lovely ladies tommorrow. Hugs goodnight and Good luck to anyone testing before I'm back tommorow morning.

Night Mumswish!

Night mumswish!

So, HK is next to test, tonight I think. Then its you and Diddle - is that right?

lottielou i am going to test on the 8th too so thats you me and diddle then to test on that day i will be cd23 then but usually have short cycle. what cd will you be?

i haven't been to the hairdressers since i was 14 where i had the oh so fashionable spiral perm of the 80's lol

we should do a stats thread of when people are due to test, i can't seem to keep up.

Hiya all.
God you lot natter! .
Lottie- Hope you're feeling better soon hun and you get your bfp soon!
Ch- Only problem with rodents is they're incontinant so they leave trails of piddle everywhere. Do what Diddle says and check for a hole. You can pick up "Mice-friendly" traps pretty cheaply. Then you release the little critter back into the wild!
Mumswish- at "Thomas!" Can picture it too!
Hc- Evil, evil woman!! Wanting nursery to keep your little darling .
Well I tested and.................................................................................................
Bfn. Knew it would be and ok about it. Worried slightly though that all these pains are endo being a cow so will see if they ease off, if not then laser surgery might be an option. Good news is I ov tomorrow Wahheyyy so bonkathon here I come .
Ds1's away at his dad's this weekend and thought I'd give dp a treat tomorrow night. Dressing up, chilled booze, little naughtiness nudge nudge! Yes i love sex too he he . Bless he needs a treat he deserves one.
How's everyone else?

Yes CH thats right Fingers crossed!
Slink - Thats great then, hopefully we will get 3 BFP's on the same day! That would be just wonderful!

Well good luck to all that test whilst i am away! Will be thinking of you!

Take care of yourselves and hopefully i will see you on Monday 10th with me BFP ( hmm, one can dream )

Bon Voyage! xxxxx

oh hellkat - sorry hun, was worth a try though keep at it, back to the drawing board, more bd for you.

Coathanger - i am testing on the 8th and not before. my cycles are never 28 days so it being cd 28 is not significant for me. i'm normally 35 days and have been over 40 days the last 2 cycles. lets hope this month is a lucky one and i get a baby and get to keep it.

Slink - glad you will be keeping us company, what cd will the 8th be for you?

Thanks hun! xx
Daft question here but do you count your cycle from start of af to the next? If so thats makes my cycle only 21 days.

Thanks hun! xx
Daft question here but do you count your cycle from start of af to the next? If so thats makes my cycle only 21 days.

Opps

i count from the first day of bleeding, until the day before bleeding comes again, so if i came on today that would become cd1 and not 28, if that makes sense.
well you're testing too early then i guess. but your cycles are not regular enough to tell are they, do you have a "normal" cycle length?

sorry think i confused myself there

Yep they're back to normal. Wow means I've got a bloody short one then. Means I'm on cd14 tomorrow. If I count to the day before I bleed means I've only got a 20 day cycle lol. No wonder I hate af's so much .
Off to chill and watch Eastenders soon. Watched Creep last night. Pretty good, shame they did'nt elaborate on the story of how Craig got to be like that. Obviously dodgy experimentation gone wrong.
Have a great night all xx
Thanks again Diddle hunny, you're a star! x

Nooooooooooooooo, not EASTENDERS!!!!!

How depressing. Why would anyone want to tear themselves away from the laughs on this thread. I haven't stopped laughing.
The mouse thing left me doubled up and in tears. That poor mouse is probably pooping itself with fear. I have a cat so have no problems with mice. Fleas make an appearance occasionally but who cares i love my cat.

Hellkat hope things sort themselves out for you soon.

Diddle, I thought I read that you were going to test tonite? Well, have u? Do tell!

I bought a couple of p/g tests yesterday.
I had saved up all my previous positive ones but threw them out in a rage after the last m/c. I have no idea why I kept them all. I suppose I am a little weird.

Gosh, it is getting cold. Am putting off the annual switching the heating on ceremony. Have got my big wooly socks on and my feet are still cold.

I achieved something good yesterday........

I had a long chat with my bosses at work the other day.
I put them straight on a few things.

One of the things discussed with DH was me not taking things easy enough at work when i am p/g. Who nows it could be a factor.
I travel for a bout 2hrs30 a day to get to and from work. I walk, take a train and a tube. I then do 10 hr shifts. This makes it quite a long day for me. Some shifts start at 7am and soem at 12 and finsih at 11pm. It can b stressful. When I think bac I did far too much at work and the bosses were stressing me out to with extra workload.
Anyway, I told that that should i get p/g again I would consider going sick just so's i could really chill and give myself the best possible chance. I know my GP will back me. The bosses have assured me that if/when I do get p/g my hours will b reduced for the first 3 mths and I will only wk M-F. I am feeling a little releived.
One of the girls i wk with and who had 4 m/c herself spoke to them quite harshly b 4 I got back from hols. Can u beleive that one of them said that, I quote, " You're not really pregnant until u are three months anyway, so it can't be that bad" She went balistic at him. Bloody IDIOT.

Anyway am going to stop know. Hope I have not bored u guys too much.

Is EASTENDERS finished yet?

Whoops, sorry that a bit long!

You are all watching the BILL now .

U are aren't u.......

Well, I am going to run a bath and chill.

Good night, or Good morning! Depends on how much TV u all watch...

peepee i'm here

not watching to Bill but i must admit i did watch eastenders. how things? i have not and will not be testing this evening, think you must have misread somewhere, far too early for me. You may have been confused because i am on cd 28, but i ahve at least another week to go, but thanks for thinking of me.

you still there?
sounds like you've had a productive time. can't believe that bloke at work said that, i'd have flattened him.