If you've got sore bits wave your turkey basters in the air like you just don't care

[Loujalou]

Our new home. Hopefully by starting this fred I will win a baby too!

definately gold star, however the day is young.

Ok, lets put it this way, (back me up people)

You are pregnant, between 6 and 7 wks

You have seen a good heartbeat

You are feeling/being sick

You have other symptoms

YOU HAVE NO REASON TO GOOGLE!!!!!

Do you feel admonished in advance? [hgrin]

x

[Hides in the corner]. Ok get the message now.

Right so Pants you need to make your DH feel like you are having SFF and not just cos you might be ovulating.

I love you really lou

SFF, whats that? I think ma and dh have had sex 5 times in the last 19 wks. First 14 wks couldn't face it, have atsrted to feel bit more human, then comes where I start showing obviously and dh goes off it in case he pokes baby in the eye or something.

So.. that'll be about 8/9 times in total by the end then. :)

ma ? God I hope not, ME and dh even [hblush]

Thats great news Lou. I thought I was back to normal but am bleeding again!!!!! I'm so sick & tired of it!

How you doing Youngie?

Hiw's everyone else?

Hey Fairy my love that sounds like shit. Here big hugs to you. Have you been back to the doctors to get them to have a look at you again?

Youngie still thinking of you.

Pants you found that mouse yet?

Hi All,

Just an update as I have been in hiding for a week. I have been bleeding steadily for 10 days now.

 (warning TMI alert!)

However this morning I passed lots of clots, then the pain started. Then for 3 hours I think I passed most of it. It was horrible. I just wanted to hang on one more day and be in the hosp ( I have a re-scan tomorrow) for them to book me for an ERPC but alas, I am MCing at home.

My Fab DH has taken the DCs out for the whole day so I can curl up and feel utterly shit, miserable, sick, achey and so bloody depressed its unbelievable.
I have choc and wine and I'm going to down the lot regardless of the time of day!

I think the worst bit was knowing my teeny-weeny fetus(baby) plopped down the loo and was gone. :(

Thanks for listening.

Hope everyone is well. x

Oh my sweetie that is shit. Big hugs to you and your family. Your DH seems like he is a superstar.

Oh nother - sending enormous hugs to you :( just got back from hols and so so sad to hear your news x

Will catch up properly later

Oh Oldie I am VERY sorry to hear your news, I have been offline for a week and on someones wifi this afternoon. Have a huge hug from me, I know what you are going through, you will get through it, (mostly!) feeling shit and depressed is normal.

I hope the physical pain has now passed and you can have the rest of the day alone without dh and dcs. I found the pain went quite quickly after the mc was finished. Mental pain takes a little longer!

I will check in as much as I can this week, but good luck and lots of love from the bongo house.

Other news, mid cycle, dh either out (outside working) or out (out cold on sofa). SWI in very short supply. If he falls asleep tonight I may just throttle him. Particularly as I checked the post today to discover my preseed had arrived!!!!! I think I better warn him!

Another update.

Had re-scan, and apparently I havent passed the sack yet so I have booked in for an ERPC tomorrow to get it over and done with.
The sooner the better.

FUCKING PISSED OFF IS WHAT I AM !

Anyway... how ara all you my lovelies?

UMBONGO how goes it with pre-seed ?

pants what happened with the mouse?

Oh youngie that is totally crap my lovely. I'm so sorry ((()))'s for you.

Fivealive - just jump on him!!

There has been no sight (or smell thank god) of the stupid mouse. Hopeing it found it's way outside.....pleeeease.

Cd24 for me, keeping my fingers x'd. Again!

However crap I feel I bet I don't feel half as shitty as Poor Lily Allen Must feel miscarrying at 6 months :( poor love.

I read that too Youngie poor lovey. She is only young and this is her second mc as well.

Hugs to you too Youngie. At least you are being looked after by DH and the hospital. xxxx

youngie so sorry to hear things are shit for you at the moment. For what it's worth I think once you have the erpc over you can start to grieve. :(

Very very :( about Lily allen, and to be in the spotlight when it happens must be crap.

Waves to everyone else. lou how you doing? still sick?

Im new to all this and currently ttc my first. Hope to be able to ask weird and wonderful questions through this site.
Wanted to pass condolences to notheroldie - im sure ur pain is as real as anyone who has wanted a baby and lost it, no matter wen it happens.

Awww Youngie Big hugs.

Lou not gone back to Dr yet. Will see what Dr Google says & hav just read on another Thgread that mets has done this to some people too. It is helping with the weight!!!

Yeah I read about Lily today. Feel so sad for her. An old friend has also miscarried at 21 weeks this weekend so feel like it was a 'evil' weekend!!!!

Welcome witches

x

Welcome witches! I hope your stay here is short in the nicest possible way.

Fairynolongerthebirthdaygirl at least its having some positive effects. Fingers crossed it all gets sorted.

Welcome Witches! Hope you enjoy your stay! (ooh New blood!!!!)

Pre-seed goooooood!

Nother - I hope you are ok after erpc today. soon be back to square one like me! Don't worry about feeling crap - you are in good company in here!

Welcome witches :)

Youngie - thinking of you today lovely x x

Louja how are you and your bean doing?

I'm sorry I can't catch up right now as DS is destroying the kitchen but just wanted to say...

...OMFG I got a BFP!!!

Two BFPs on two different tests - that's pretty conclusive isn't it? I was due today and tested this morning and just now. I can't believe it, I really can't. We had DH booked in for a spunk test next week so he's mightily relieved

Will be sticking around though if that's ok? As Louja said you lot are my homies

Biccie my lover congratulations. Those ante natal boards are frikking scary and I am now avoiding them and plonking myself right here.

Thanks for ur notes of welcome everyone! and congrats to Bicnod. Just wanted to pass on been using pregnacare with vitamins and was giving me pregnancy symptoms - nausea, dizzy etc ( just what u want wen trying to get pregnant and get ur hopes up!) i thought it was symptoms in my head but continued after AF even when i knew i wasnt pregnant. so changed to pure folic acid and feel much better! so just to pass onto other people who may react like i did!

First off really sorry Youngie words can't really help but thinking of you.

Sorry been MIA for so long been feeling a bit down and managed to convince myself I had antenatal depression! (had really bad pnd with dd) but climbing out of pit now. Dh booked a 4d scan last week and it really helped calm me down. She looked so real and just like her big dd.

Congrats Biccie and fingers crosses for a quick and boring eight months.

Lou the ante natal boards scare me too. How are you feeling?

Welcome Witches and big waves to Fairy and Pants.

Hi all the preggies & CONGRATS BIC!!!!

Feeling really down as an old friend has announced on FB she's preg & it was a total surprise to her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Surely that for most people SEX causes them????????????

I just wanna cry

No fair!