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DLA Wait times PART 23…. (2023)

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Mummyrach13 · 05/12/2023 07:42

Following on from part 22 as it is about to become full! 😊

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Helenmummyof3 · 11/12/2023 11:11

@Mamof31 hi lovely I’m sorry to hear this, I’m in the same situation with my son it’s such a worry and so difficult my son is only 8. my scan date is the 31/8

Kelseeyx · 11/12/2023 11:17

Thank you @Mammalee5 I know you're good at knowing what to write so I've got to ask if you could please tell me what I need to say to universal credit 🙈 xx

MrsB97 · 11/12/2023 11:22

Been trying to get through since half 9 been cut off so much I just want to know where I'm at, hopefully ill get through some point today x Scan date 04 /08

cocoapple · 11/12/2023 11:27

@Purple69 What’s your scan date again? Hoping I’m before Christmas but I doubt it xx

Rebeccanew · 11/12/2023 11:45

Hi all with uc could yous please tell me when awarded hrc how much backdate 5months roughly should be on uc? Xxxxx

Lauren2121 · 11/12/2023 11:56

Hi all congratulations to all that have been awarded, my scan date is 7/8 I’m getting so anxious now I just want to know, I’m so worried for a decline, please keep fingers crossed for me, good luck to everyone x

Purple69 · 11/12/2023 12:00

cocoapple · 11/12/2023 11:27

@Purple69 What’s your scan date again? Hoping I’m before Christmas but I doubt it xx

18/08 hun xx I hope u hear before

Amy92x · 11/12/2023 12:10

@Rebeccanew hi hun have they still not sorted it then. Mine was the same as yours 5 months of hrc on the disabled element and I worked it out as £2284.45 and that's what they paid. So if that isn't what you was awarded I would send another message and explain its high rate care you was awarded not middle maybe if they have not paid the correct amount.

Rebeccanew · 11/12/2023 12:24

Hi @Amy92x nope iv left a message and called this morning they just don’t grasp what I’m trying to say on the phone but I left message see what they say…I mean they said my award goes back to march 2022 on the letter that’s clearly wrong as it was June 2023 and it was 1,70 backdate I think that’s wrong also…I mean imagine if my award was from march 2022 that would be some backpay lol….iv just been double questioning myself see if I am wrong..but I can’t be wrong! Your amount seems more to what I think should of been owed too hun xxxxx

Mamof31 · 11/12/2023 12:32

@Helenmummyof3 Thankyou! I know it’s awful isnt it, my sons 13 been going on over a year now. He was bullied at school which has caused this anxiety, he’s been self harming and not in a good place for a long time, which is awful when I look back how confident he once was. He dsnt sleep on a night and camhs are a waste of time don’t help one bit.

Velaris92 · 11/12/2023 12:33

@Maxine92 did you get through to someone?

Maxine92 · 11/12/2023 12:36

@Velaris92 hi yeah it’s still with the DM tomorrow it will be a week that it’s been with a DM. I definitely think it will be a decline

Velaris92 · 11/12/2023 12:41

@Maxine92 hopefully not. Mine was with them for a week and got MRC. I was expecting a decline as well because I didn’t write anything on the extra information bit. My mind goes blank when I’m doing paperwork 😬

Helenmummyof3 · 11/12/2023 12:45

@Mamof31 aww lovey it is awful I feel your pain, my sons been like this for a year when we lost my mum last October his anxiety set in he doesn’t sleep hardly eats as he thinks he will be sick, we won’t go to school he won’t leave my side he’s to scared that one of us will die. at my wits end with it and I look at him and and think he’s so young to be worried about things like this. Camhs are a waste of space I know they have a huge waiting list but that doesn’t help the children that need help 🤞 we hear something soon x

Maxine92 · 11/12/2023 12:47

@Velaris92 that gives me hope Ive seen a few people get a decision within days. Im really happy for you I’ll let you know when I get my decision

Mammalee5 · 11/12/2023 12:49

@Kelseeyx i did the change of circumstances, child, date claim awarded from etc. Then a note on the journal saying- (child )has now been awarded dla -(rate). Please can this be sent to a decision maker for the disabled child element (monthly amount depending on rate) to be backdated to (date) . Also can this please be added to my monthly statements going forward. Thank you and have a nice day

Velaris92 · 11/12/2023 12:55

@Maxine92 remember you might not get a text either. I didn’t but I’ve had 2 texts before. Looks like it was awarded Friday because they said it should be paid tomorrow

LollyRiv · 11/12/2023 12:56

@Mumoflittlegirlepilepsy omg, omg, omg!!!!! I've just had THE text to say my Son qualifies 🥹🥹🥹. I am so so happy, the relief and wait is finally over. I don't know the rate etc, just on hold now but to be honest, as long as he is getting something, that will help him so so much 🩵. I can finally pay for 1-1 physio swimming lessons for him ☺️.

It's taken so long, scan date 21/07. It sound as though the CM had not fully finalised the paperwork before they made the decision. Only through calling so much have we got an answer today. Don't give up guys. I have everything crossed that you all get the best outcomes. Sending lots of positivity ✨️ 💛 xx

Linacre96 · 11/12/2023 12:59

Scan date 01/09
first text 7/11
second text 28/11
third text 11/12
Week 15 for me

Helenmummyof3 · 11/12/2023 13:00

scan date 31/8
i have just had a 3 text has everyone had 3 texts?

Helenmummyof3 · 11/12/2023 13:01

Also week 15 for me

cocoapple · 11/12/2023 13:04

@Helenmummyof3 My scan date was 14/8 and I’ve only had 2…the last one was 7/11

Ash135 · 11/12/2023 13:05

Scan date 08/08
1st text 16/10
2nd text 07/11

The wait is crippling.

Purple69 · 11/12/2023 13:06

Helenmummyof3 · 11/12/2023 13:00

scan date 31/8
i have just had a 3 text has everyone had 3 texts?

I never heard anyone having a 3 rd text but my feeling is this is because there so far behind😩xx

Mumtotwogirls01 · 11/12/2023 13:06

Yes I’ve just had my 3rd text too. Not sure if that’s a good thing or not 🙈 scan date 30/08

first text 7/11
second text 28/11
third text today

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