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DLA wait times part 17.. (2023)

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Mummyrach13 · 26/10/2023 20:52

Following on from part 16…..

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Mumto2sengirlsxx · 30/10/2023 16:26

@Mummyrach13 I would of called today lmao!! But I'd ring in morning rather than Wednesday, I'm certain yours would of been looked at by now! If it's a accepted award you can then tell UC and tell them your going down as a carer and you need your commitments changing you shouldn't have to attend your appointment then xxx

Caitlyn59 · 30/10/2023 16:37

Not been able to get an answer before having go to dentist appointment x

Mummyrach13 · 30/10/2023 16:56

I did think the same @Mumto2sengirlsxx but then I really don’t want to hear that it’s not been done yet or even a decline! I may even hold out till weds morning 🫢 x

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Mumto2sengirlsxx · 30/10/2023 17:14

@Mummyrach13 I'd just call I know it's scary but your either gonna find out on the phone or recieve a letter and have to call anyway... im sure if you tell uc that you've applied for dla for your child and want to go down as a carer they can hold your appointments until its cleared, that's what I did when I applied for pip for myself xx

Mumof385 · 30/10/2023 17:20

@busymummy555 hi my scan date is 29/6

Just recieved a phone call from the decision maker because I missed a couple of questions on the form 🙈🙈 but she said she's looking at it now and I'll get a decision letter in the next 10 days and now I'm panicking thinking if she's just sending a letter out I'm being declined, I can't even ring because they close at 5, I'm not going to sleep tonight 😫

Mumto2sengirlsxx · 30/10/2023 17:24

@Mumof385 not necessarily hun. I think they have to say they will send a letter because she has to formally write the decision on the system before telling you. So theirs still a chance you could get a approved award. Try not to stress to much xxx

busymummy555 · 30/10/2023 17:26

@Mumof385 dont worry, i would defo ring tmrw to see what decision has been made hopefully a good one.

Mummyrach13 · 30/10/2023 17:32

@busymummy555 id say a call from the decision maker is a good thing, rather than a straight decline. I’ve never seen anyone have a call to be declined. I will pluck up the courage to call tomorrow @Mumto2sengirlsxx 😬 xx

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Mumof385 · 30/10/2023 17:49

Omg !!!!! Yey !!!!! Just had a text to say my son qualifies, I'm going to ring first thing to find out which rates but just the fact they've listened and I get what my little man deserves, I'm just beyond relieved I could cry

Mumto2sengirlsxx · 30/10/2023 17:50

@Mumof385 congrats told you not to worry!!! @Mummyrach13 you'll be absolutley fine I'll be anxiously waiting for you to tag me in your decision 🤞🤞🤞 xxxx

busymummy555 · 30/10/2023 17:57

im so happy for you @Mumof385 xx you wait is finally over 😁

Lauren2121 · 30/10/2023 17:58

Hi just wondered if you had received 2 texts messeges I’ve had 1 messege 3 weeks ago, wasn’t sure the wait time between messeges?

4LittleFirecrackers · 30/10/2023 18:03

@Lauren2121 mine was 5 Sept and 25 Sept so 3 weeks

4LittleFirecrackers · 30/10/2023 18:05

@Mumof385 what was your scan date again? I’m getting so anxious now, I just hope they listen, I’ve got nothing left in me for a MR

Lauren2121 · 30/10/2023 18:05

Okay thank you I been trying to work it out, Mine has been 3 weeks today since first text and I haven’t got a second text yet, maybe I’ll call them Wednesday if no text by tomorrow? Thankyou for letting me know

Missymoo1994 · 30/10/2023 18:08

Hi can somone please advise how the change of circumstances work daughter got award mrc but needs have gone up during the night so was hoping to put in to get hrc so if we ring and ask for a forum do they stop the payments she is getting now and we wait for a new decision or do the ongoing payments carry on
Thanks

PinkMoscatoLover · 30/10/2023 18:25

Missymoo1994 · 30/10/2023 18:08

Hi can somone please advise how the change of circumstances work daughter got award mrc but needs have gone up during the night so was hoping to put in to get hrc so if we ring and ask for a forum do they stop the payments she is getting now and we wait for a new decision or do the ongoing payments carry on
Thanks

The ongoing payments carry on until a decision has been made, so your MRC payments won’t stop. They can also lower the award or remove the award completely when a COC is submitted just so you know that too. If your renewal is quite a way off and you think you have enough evidence for HRC then defo do a COC instead of waiting to the renewal date

Hannahlou94xx · 30/10/2023 18:36

@LGR004 I may give it a couple of days and not call until Thursday just to give them a bit more time xx

Casslou22 · 30/10/2023 18:44

I'm 14/8 scan date and its taking 18 weeks apparently I'm 18 weeks on December 18th ... I don't see us getting anywhere until after Christmas... its taking so long x

Missymoo1994 · 30/10/2023 18:48

@PinkMoscatoLover thanks so much x

Mrsstephens04 · 30/10/2023 18:53

Lauren2121 · 30/10/2023 16:02

Hello just wondered how long people waited between their first and second text? I’ve had 1 text 9th October but nothing since?

My 2nd text was exactly 3 weeks after my 1st text. Some people had texts 2 weeks and 6 days apart, others had text 3 weeks and 1 day apart but nine was 3 weeks exactly

Lauren2121 · 30/10/2023 18:55

Okay Thankyou for letting me know, hopefully I’ll get a second text soon, hate the waiting lol making me so anxious

busymummy555 · 30/10/2023 19:07

@LGR004 iv only had one text so far which was 4 weeks ago, im 17 weeks tmrw so i think the texts are probably just random and not everyone gets 2 or even gets them at a fixed time x

PinkMoscatoLover · 30/10/2023 19:08

Casslou22 · 30/10/2023 18:44

I'm 14/8 scan date and its taking 18 weeks apparently I'm 18 weeks on December 18th ... I don't see us getting anywhere until after Christmas... its taking so long x

Oh yeah 100%. My scan date is 11/08 and I’m just hoping for a decision by the end of the year at the very latest🤞🏾

Tmxx · 30/10/2023 19:11

4LittleFirecrackers · 30/10/2023 18:05

@Mumof385 what was your scan date again? I’m getting so anxious now, I just hope they listen, I’ve got nothing left in me for a MR

Amen to that! Nothing left for an Mr after all this anxiety of waiting this long 😪😪 hopefully an mr isnt needed for both of us xx

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