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In hospital being induced. Please help ASAP!

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Hobby2014 · 13/08/2014 21:40

Please help.
I've will have had the propess tampon thing in for 30 hours at 1am.
I've had midwives examining left right and centre. It's fallen out onto the bed with a load of mucus and put back in.
I've had them do a spectrum(?) to see what was happening, torches and all, and have taken a swab to see if it was waters or not (they don't think it is) and am waiting for the result to come back.
I am not dilated. My cervix is tucked right around to one side. Apparently it's started to soften.
A doctor will come at 1am to take it out and examine me again.
I am so, so sore, I don't think I can keep on having these examinations. Each time they've done one, it's been more painful than the last (and a midwife told me this would be the case).
They've said the doctor will give me my options when he examines me, but I don't know what they are.
What is the next step?
What can I refuse/request?
Thank you.

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BBQSteak · 16/08/2014 08:35

Congratulations and vv well done indeed

you should be so proud of yourself having him and for asserting yourself
its not always easy to do
so huge respect n congratulations
so pleased for you

also please enjoy every cuddle

bonzo77 · 16/08/2014 09:43

Wonderful news. Well done. Your baby is bigger than the combined weights of both mine at delivery. And even I am very happy I had CSs!

Yet another reason all women should have a scan at the very least in late pregnancy, if not before induction or during early labour.

Hamnvik · 16/08/2014 09:52

Congratulations!

ECME · 16/08/2014 10:27

Congratulations. I hope you're able to put this ordeal they put you though behind you and spend every minute enjoying your little bundle of joy! you deserve it! make sure you stay in comfortable Pjs and the fluffiest dressing gown for the next 2 weeks at least!

Impala77 · 16/08/2014 10:29

Congratulations! ! Why didn't they know he was breech??? Dread to think what could have happened! Glad all's well in the end. What a big boy! All the best xx

WeAreEternal · 16/08/2014 11:05

Congratulations. Flowers

Good for you for refusing the exam, I had a horrific labour because I was told I had to do several things I didn't want and was told if I refused I would be restrained and forced, I had no idea I could just refuse.

I'm so happy for you, well done for standing up for your self.

Shouldwego · 16/08/2014 11:08

Huge congratulations.

Wow, I thought my 10lber was big but 11lbs 7oz!!! Shock

So glad it worked out in the end for you and you didn't actually have hours of labouring for nothing. At that size and breach there was a reason the induction didn't work. I desperately didn't want a c section second time round but ds2 showed no signs of coming and at 40+16 they insisted on a section, he was 10lbs 2oz and I think it was clear there was a reason I wasn't going into labour (as couldn't get 9lbs 1oz ds1 out).

I hope your recovery goes well, take care. Enjoy your not so little bubba and don't do as I did and think all the others on the ward looked premature, yours is just a whopper!!

PacificDogwood · 16/08/2014 11:37

Ok, it's been a few hours: can we all get a hold of him now, hm?
And more details please and a photo

Hope you are recovering well and are enjoying getting to know him.

I have no idea how common unrecognised breech presentations are at term.

Ginormarse · 16/08/2014 11:55

Just read your thread from the beginning. Congratulations on the birth of your baby boy.

11lb 7oz and breech. Blimey! Shock Well, thank god you stuck to your guns and pushed for a section. Well done.

Gen35 · 16/08/2014 15:06

My goodness! Great that you had the c section since it would've ended up as an emergency c section anyway. Congrats!

RedKites · 16/08/2014 15:07

Congratulations and Thanks

Bimberley · 16/08/2014 18:47

Congratulations

Messygirl · 16/08/2014 20:36

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DoItTooJulia · 16/08/2014 21:26

Ah, congratulations! Lovely outcome!

SantanaLopez · 16/08/2014 21:56

Oh wow, what a lovely chubby baby he must be! Congratulations! Flowers

Tipsykisses · 17/08/2014 10:17

Congratulations Hobby !!Smile
Wow 11.7 & breech !!

No wonder you were sore & uncomfortable !!
Bet he's gorgeous ,Hope you are getting some much needed rest now xxx

MyFirstName · 17/08/2014 19:58

Congratulations!

Hobby2014 · 18/08/2014 15:17

Thanks for all the well wishes.
We're both fine and came home last night.
Here's some pics of Elijah.

In hospital being induced. Please help ASAP!
In hospital being induced. Please help ASAP!
In hospital being induced. Please help ASAP!
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coffeeinbed · 18/08/2014 15:22

Oh well done!

creekyknees · 18/08/2014 15:45

Congratulations Hobby, great name and a gorgeous boy Thanks

Fairylea · 18/08/2014 15:50

Just gorgeous :)

What a lovely bundle.

hellymelly · 18/08/2014 16:00

GORGEOUS baby! Well done you. I had a c-section in very similar circs, so I sympathise. Glad it all went well in the end and he is here at last. Thanks

divingoffthebalcony · 18/08/2014 16:00

Beautiful!

Impala77 · 18/08/2014 16:44

Congratulations now the fun starts lol

Shouldwego · 18/08/2014 16:48

He is just gorgeous Smile, enjoy!