Right. Reactivated my online dating account as I was bored and thought it might be nice to have conversations with some new guys and see where it goes.
Anyway, I get talking to this white French guy. All seems to be going well. He asked me what type of guy I go for and I said that I dont really mind about ethnicity...but! If im going to date someone who isn't Black I want to be reassured they aren't racist or that Black women aren't a fetish to them.
He then claims that he has never heard of the fetishisation of Black people. I said okay well its definitely a thing but we can move on.
5 or so minutes later he then says...would you be my slave in the bedroom? To which I just responded with the shocked emoji because I genuinely was. He then said he obviously isn't being serious he just wanted to be funny. I just told him that its not funny to say things like that, let's just move on. Anyways the conversation moved on to something else, then he said he had something serious to ask me...lo and behold! He asked the exact same thing again. This time I just replied saying no and I'm uncomfortable and that this isn't funny.
I guess I'm really shocked that he found that funny. Totally put me off online dating altogether.
Has something similar ever happened to anyone else?