spink and chefswife, sorry to hear you are both ill. Hope you are better really soon.
Well so much for my childless weekend. It appears that DS2 has been really ill and Mum thought it would be best not to worry me!
Overslept this morning without the little ones to wake us up, txt Mum straight away to see how boys were only to be told he had been really sick in the night but was fine now and watching his new christmas dvd.
Further txts managed to extract that he was not in fact alright, he had a raging temperature, streaming nose, racking cough and had been sick and sick and sick - lots. Said I would be there asap, then she txt to ask me if it could be slapface as he looked very red. Asked if she'd given calpol, answer yes but not the full dose!!!! She then said she'd fed him porridge made with milk for breakfast but that he only wanted a couple of mouthfuls and was hoping he might eat a roast dinner for tea! Told her to give him the full dose of calpol and I was on my way round.
Got there to find extremely poorly little boy with really high temp in red hot lounge under 3 blankets and a towel! Stripped him down and gave calprofen as well, waited for it to work, scooped him up and brought him straight home (DS1 wanted to stay at Grandmas for tea). He is soooo poorly, have him on sofa with me, has been sick again and had a bad tum, but got temp under control and is now sleeping next to me on the sofa.
When I got to Mum's she told me he'd been delirious and febrile (he is prone to febrile convulsions with temperatures) and shouting at Daddy who wasn't there! She said she thought it was best for him to 'sweat it out'! Also thought she wouldn't ask if he wanted Mummy in case it meant we had to cut our weekend short! Apparently as soon as she mentioned I was coming he cried and said he just wanted his Mummy now.
Am absolutely fuming, my poor little boy so so poorly and I didn't even know about it so he had to cope without his Mummy when he really needed me!
Anyway rant over, he is much happier now he is back at home with me and has had the right treatment.
Right, will try and calm down now - deeeep breaths Moosemama, deeeep breaths!
(On a more positive note, my lounge is now finished and looks great!)